sleepless tonight

Chapter 426
"Father, you are prejudiced against him." Chen Ke said.

"I'm not prejudiced against him, but because you are still young, there are many things you don't understand, and there are many dangers that you are unaware of." I said, "It's just the same, your grades are not playing with Xiao Hongyi At that time, your grades were very good, and you would do your homework obediently when you go home, and you don’t need your father to tell you, but now, how much your grades have dropped?"

"It's because I didn't study hard, it has nothing to do with him." Chen Ke was still defending Xiao Hongyi.

"Then tell me why you didn't study hard?" I tried my best not to refute Chen Ke, but guided me step by step.

I came from Chen Ke's age, and I can understand what Chen Ke is thinking. Sometimes, the more you go against her mind, she will have a rebellious mentality no matter whether it is good or bad. Once such a thing happens, you can say She couldn't listen to anything.

I was worried that something like this would happen to Chen Ke, so I thought it was necessary to have a good chat with her tonight.

Chen Ke is very sensible, she can understand many things, but there are also many things she can't understand at her age and needs someone to guide her.

"It's because I didn't listen to the lectures in class, and I was always distracted. I didn't understand what the teacher said, and I didn't study hard after school, so I didn't pass the exam." Chen Ke said.

"Then why didn't you listen carefully in class, what did you think about?" I said.

Chen Ke stopped talking, and I could tell by her appearance immediately: "Do you want something related to Xiao Hongyi, the gift he gave you, or how to play with him after class?"

Chen Ke didn't make a sound, it was a tacit agreement.

"Besides, you said that you didn't study hard after school. Why didn't you study hard? It's because you didn't have enough time. You just went to play with Xiao Hongyi. Of course you didn't have time to study hard. You played on your mobile phone. You are so powerful, you type so fast, and you are so busy playing with your mobile phone, how can you still have time to study?" I continued, "You also said that your academic performance has declined and has nothing to do with him. Think about it for yourself. Does it matter?"

"But Brother Xiaoyi's grades are very poor, and his father didn't even mention him." Chen Ke said.

"He is him, you are you, you don't have to compare with him, and poor grades are not something to show off." I said, "Girls can only improve their temperament and attract people's attention if they have good academic performance." Li, didn't you watch those stars on TV, most of them graduated from art schools, most of them were college students."

What I said seemed to arouse Chen Ke's interest: "Father, I know Shao Siqi. She acted in a very good TV series called Sleepless Tonight. Many students in our class watched it and said that she acted very well. She is also pretty, and many classmates bought her stickers to put on their textbooks, is her academic performance also very good?"

I didn't expect Shao Siqi to become so famous, even elementary school students know her, it seems that I am a little out of date: "I don't care if her grades are good or not, but Dad knows that she is going to college, and it is a prestigious school."

"What about Wu Xue, Wu Xue is also very famous." The two people Chen Ke mentioned both have intersections with me.

"Wu Xue also graduated from a prestigious school, and she is also a college student." I am not telling lies. Wu Xue did indeed graduate from a prestigious school. Among the stars, there are indeed grassroots ones, but very few of them, and they have put in more effort than ordinary stars. Many times, even if he succeeds, he will be looked down upon by others because of his low academic qualifications. Even when participating in variety shows, he must avoid this. When self-reporting, you can only introduce yourself from other places.

"Brother Xiaoyi told me that his father is very rich, and that you are also rich, father. In the future, even if we don't study, we won't starve to death, and someone will take care of us. If I don't go to university, you don't want to Me?" Chen Ke looked at me timidly.

My obsession with the university affected Chen Ke and made her feel scared. I am a little thankful. I am glad that I am back today. I am glad that I chose to talk to Chen Ke instead of arbitrarily letting her do what I want. Don't even give her a chance to explain.

"You have made a mistake in one thing." I also looked at Chen Ke, "Whether you pass the exam or not, you are my father's daughter, and my father will love you, love you, care about you, and will not want you, Even if you can't find a boyfriend in the future, don't get married, and want to stay by Dad's side, Dad will welcome you and take care of you until you grow old."

"However, there is no conflict with Dad asking you to study hard and get into a good university. The reason why Dad wants you to go to college is not to make you money, not to make you promising, but just to make you better. Only by constantly improving oneself can one gain the respect of others, continuously improve oneself, improve one's temperament, and it is easier to taste the true meaning of life."

"Is it like Aunt Su Ran?" Chen Ke asked me.

"That's right, just like your Aunt Su, whether it's your Aunt Su or your mother, they have all gone to college, do you think they have temperament?" I nodded, Chen Ke is smart and can understand what I said I want to express the meaning, and will infer other cases from one instance.

Her drop in grades was entirely due to her attitude.

If you want a person to learn, the best way is to let her learn actively, become interested in learning, and be able to love learning from the bottom of her heart. The practice of forcing a cow to drink water will only be counterproductive.

"But what if I don't get into college?" Chen Ke was worried.

"As long as you work hard, no matter whether you pass the exam or not, Dad will not blame you and will always love you, but the problem now is that you didn't work hard, you let your guard down, and you had wrong thoughts in your heart. Xiao Hongyi helped you with your schoolbag and transferred schools with you. This doesn’t mean anything. Only after a long time can you tell whether a person is sincere. You are still young and the time is still long. Don’t rush to make a decision when you do anything. Learn to observe and learn to feel. External things are always empty, and you have to learn to feel the inner feelings of others, and feel whether their hearts are sincere or not.” I said.

"Father thinks that Xiao Hongyi's thoughts are very naive. Whether it's your mother, Aunt Su, or Wu Xue and Shao Siqi, everyone studies so hard and is eager for knowledge, including your teacher, who must let you study hard. Learning can improve people's thinking and broaden people's horizons, Xiao Hongyi advises you not to study, he is not doing it for your own good, but because he is lazy, so he wants to take you to be lazy."

"Dad, you took the college entrance examination. Do you want to go to college to improve your temperament?" Chen Ke thought of me.

"That's right." I nodded, "It's always been a regret in Dad's heart that he didn't enter university, so Dad wants to make up for this regret, wants to enter university, wants to learn more knowledge, and wants to feel the atmosphere of university life. Learning is a very wonderful thing, seeing each topic being made by oneself and seeing beautiful words can make people feel happy."

Chen Ke seemed to be thinking about my words.

There are some words that she may not be able to understand what they mean, and she may not necessarily empathize with them, but I must tell her that my father's authority has some effects, allowing Chen Ke to interpret my words even if she does not understand them. take it to heart.

"If you can get good grades in the exam at the end of the semester, and you can do what your father said, I will take you to see Shao Siqi during the winter vacation." It's useless to just preach, and some encouragement methods must be used.

"Really?" Chen Ke looked at me.

"Really." I nodded, "One more thing, you have to stay far away from Xiao Hongyi and avoid contact with him. You tell him that if he wants to be friends with you, he must have good grades. Only in this way will I I agree with you two to play together."

(End of this chapter)