sleepless tonight

Chapter 577 Two Children Will Take Care of Me
"If you meet the right person, you should marry too." I said to Tong Wangjun, "You are too old, and you may not even have children in a few years, and even if you marry again at that time, I am afraid that you will be punished." Roll your eyes."

Some women in China throw all the responsibility on the men, overwhelming the men.But it is undeniable that in terms of physical fitness, except that the average age of women is a little higher than that of men, women are really suffering too much compared with men in other aspects.

The once-a-month aunt, not to mention the stomach ache when she comes, is very inconvenient and an expense.Swimming, sports meetings, even in summer, women have to work harder than men in this regard, and there are too many things to consider.

No one knows exactly which day and time it will come, so you have to prepare Sophie when you go out, just in case it comes without knowing it.I don’t wear much clothes in summer, so if I forget to bring them one day, or miscalculate the day, it may be embarrassing when I get up when I get in the car or eat in a restaurant.

The other one is when you are pregnant with a child, for nearly a year, you have to pay attention when you eat, you have to pay attention when you walk, even when you are not doing anything, the body will have various reactions, which is difficult.

Finally, there is the matter of divorce and remarriage. Second-married men are far more likely than second-married women to find new partners. Men can still export and have children when they are 50 or [-] years old.

Women are not good at this aspect. When they are in their 30s and up, coupled with the increased pressure of life and environmental hygiene problems, they may experience premature menopause and have no children.

What is the biggest difference between women and men?It is women who can conceive children.If you go through menopause and can no longer have children, you will really suffer from all kinds of supercilious looks, and you will also bear a lot of pressure in your heart.

Tang Xin is proof that a woman who was originally so confident had a very different and trendy attitude towards life, but after she learned that she could not have children, her whole body fell from self-confidence to the point of low self-esteem, which was very miserable .

I don't want Tong Wangjun to come to this point.

"Aren't there A Ke and Xiao Le? Even if you can't have children in the future, it doesn't matter much. Two children are enough." Tong Wangjun's attitude was a little casual.

"A Ke and Xiao Le are my children and yours, how can they be the same?" I said, "You are married to someone else, you can't let others think that the child between you and me is his child? It will always be alienated Many, it would be better to have children of your own.”

"This matter is not urgent, let's see." Tong Wangjun didn't seem to care much about this matter.

"What's the matter? Before you wanted to have a stable life. After you quarreled with me, you rented a house with your two children. You only knew Zhao Zhengyao for a long time. You wanted to marry him and live a stable life. Now that you have settled down in your hometown, you are preparing for the civil service exam, and you have a shop, it seems that you are not as anxious as before?" I said.

"Can these two things be the same? Zhao Zhengyao was thinking about marrying him that time because I gave up on you and had no other thoughts. He is actually quite nice, and living at home is definitely more reliable than you. " Tong Wangjun said.

"That's what you see on the surface, so you think he is good. Don't say that you have known him for a few months, even if you have known him for a year or two, you may not be able to see his actual appearance clearly. He wants When you are in love with you, you will naturally show a gentle side, a considerate side, a gentleman's side, and an honest side, and when you are coaxed, maybe it will be another side." I said, "Besides, you Can you have a common topic with him? You have come into contact with far more new things than him, and your acceptance of ideas is far more open than his. Can the two of you live well together?"

"Are you looking down on people with low education?" Tong Wangjun said.

"I don't look down on people with low education. In terms of IQ, people with low education and people with high education, except for a small number of people who are indeed geniuses, in fact, most of them have no difference, just because of family conditions, or Because of his parents’ cognition, or because he is too naughty, he has not been exposed to higher-level education. In addition to teaching people to read and write, the biggest benefit of education is to broaden people’s horizons and make people My thinking becomes more active, it is easier to accept new things, I think about problems from different angles, and my attitude towards people is even different.” I said.

"Why did the ancients have the saying that the poor are well-matched? In fact, it does not mean that they really look down on the poor. It is just because they are at different levels, received education, and have different ways of understanding things. There are many differences in outlook on life. Combined, there will be many differences. Where you don’t adapt, there will definitely be quarrels, and only then will there be such a statement.”

"Not only in ancient times, but also in modern times. Even if there is no such thing as a good match, this concept still exists in many people's minds. Why do so many urban people look down on rural people? Poverty is not the main reason, the real problem is that they feel Rural people think differently from urban people. They may think that rural people don’t like cleanliness, or that they have different living habits, or other reasons. If they really want to be combined, these are all problems. In those cities , as parents, of course they don’t want their son or daughter to accommodate each other, and they do have a sense of being poor, so naturally they look down on rural people even more.”

"You insist on going to a university just to broaden your horizons, to broaden your horizons, because of the reasons you mentioned?" Tong Wangjun asked me.

"That's right." I nodded, "That's the reason. Why do I have to go to university? Apart from being a regret, the other is that I want to broaden my horizons, even though some universities do not restrict the entry and exit of outsiders. , You can go around the university, look around, and even listen in the classroom, but you don’t really enter it as a student, it’s hard to feel the atmosphere, it’s hard to feel the foundation and influence.”

In ancient times, there were imperial examinations, and in modern times there are college entrance examinations. The way to go online is the way to be respected. The best way is nothing more than the college entrance examination.

Those who have money but no academic qualifications will be dubbed the title of nouveau riche.

If you have a degree, even if you have no money, others will respect you more.

"I won't tell you these things anymore. I used my own traffic, so I hung up." Tong Wangjun said.

"Did you take what I mentioned to you to heart?" I said.

"If you want to propose to Su Ran, you should propose to her. Why do you have to arrange me out and let me get married quickly if you want to propose to her? Do you feel guilty?" Tong Wangjun's tone was a little annoyed .

"I have some guilt." I honestly admitted, "I feel that after Su Ran and I got married, you were still alone, and I felt a little worried. In fact, what your mother said was not wrong. Wu Xiaowen is not bad."

"Didn't you just say that you just met someone, you know people, face but don't know heart, so it's not so easy to judge? Why now you can see that Wu Xiaowen is a good person, you want to grow old in the same month, help me lead the red line?" Tong Wangjun said with a smile. What I just said contradicts me.

"It's just a feeling, at least I feel that he is much better than Xu Heng." I said, "Isn't your mother also very optimistic about her? If you listen to your mother, maybe you can give it a try."

"I don't want you to pity me, don't pull this kind of red line." Tong Wangjun's face that was still talking and laughing turned cold again, "Don't think that you feel guilty towards me if you are with Su Ran, even if you are really If you feel guilty, you don’t need to pity me like this.”

"I'm not pitying you, but just reminding you a little bit." I said, "The difference in body structure between men and women is a fact. You should think about it, right?"

"In the future, I can live a good life with two children. Why do I have to have a man? You don't want me, the two children want me, I just live with them, and when I get old, I don't need you to take care of me. A child will take care of me." Tong Wangjun said, "I'm dead."

(End of this chapter)