sleepless tonight

Chapter 631 I'm planning to go back to my hometown
"In the past, it was possible to get married without knowing each other according to the orders of the parents and the words of the matchmaker, and even stay together until the old age without any major conflicts. However, the background of the times is different and the situation is different. Father, father and son, these frameworks are deeply ingrained in people’s hearts, and if parents don’t listen to their orders, they may not be able to survive.” I said, “It’s different now, pay attention to respect, even parents must respect their children , You can’t decide a child’s life just because you have a child, there are some obviously unreasonable situations, even as long as the child reaches the age of 18, they have the right to decide their own life.”

"The other thing is that at that time, women paid attention to the three obediences and four virtues. Marry a chicken as a chicken, and marry a dog as a dog. Even if your man is wrong, but under this kind of norms, you will suffer grievances and will not say that you will have a quarrel. Divorce. But it’s different now. Now we pay attention to the equality of men and women. Women’s rights are equal to men’s, or even higher than men’s. If they feel that men are sorry for her, they will definitely not hide their grievances in their hearts like the ancients. It will explode."

"Women in ancient times were too pitiful." Logan said.

"The men nowadays are too pitiful." I said casually.

"I think you are doing well. You are so pitiful. And Zhou Kai, he is not human. After so long, he finally told Yu Lu the truth. If he rejected Yu Lu at the beginning, There will be no such things later." Logan said.

"Sometimes, when you are used to the same thing and everyone agrees, you will have some scruples if you want to take the initiative to change." I said, "Perhaps in Zhou Kai's eyes, there is another consideration. If we are together, we may be close to you, or in other words, he actually has feelings for Yu Lu, but it is hidden deep in his heart, and he doesn't know it. He always thought that he had no feelings for Yu Lu. Yu Lu only has feelings for you because she is used to it, maybe this is all his illusion."

Emotional matters are too difficult to say. When two people are together, in the final analysis, they just see each other in the right way, and they can live together comfortably. The word love is too mysterious. It is a theoretical thing, like air. , Invisible and intangible, it does exist, but it is difficult to be discovered. Only the feeling of life is the most direct expression and the most accurate form of love.

The place I made an appointment with Yu Lu was in a teahouse. When I arrived, Yu Lu had already arrived and was waiting for Tang Wan and me downstairs in the teahouse. She was the only one and there was no one else.

After getting out of the car, Yu Lu was surprised when she saw Tang Wan, and stared at Tang Wan's stomach for a long time: "Is your belly a baby?"

"It's a baby, I'm pregnant." Logan nodded.

Yu Lu looked at me again, and asked Logan, "Is the child Chen Jin's?"

"It's the child of me and him, twins." Logan nodded.

Yu Lu immediately walked to Tang Wan's side, and the two of them were arm in arm.

I don't know if the two of them did it on purpose or what it was like. When they first went upstairs, they were still side by side with me, but the two of them were talking, and they fell behind me, as if they had something to say. To avoid saying it to me.

When I arrived at the private room of the teahouse, I sat down for a while before the two of them came in.

"Even if you have something to say, you don't need to say it outside. Isn't it better to sit on the sofa and chat?" I made a cup of tea for the two of them, "Is there anything you have to keep from me?"

"There are some issues that only women can talk about, so of course we have to avoid you." Yu Lu said, "You and Logan are not married, and Logan had a car accident before, and in that situation, the doctor said that it is very likely that she will not be able to conceive. Now pregnant, these two children must be born."

"I have to give birth for sure. The due date is only two months away. What can I do if I don't give birth?" I nodded. exhort.

"You can't even be born. Not only does Logan take care of it, you also have to take care of it. You are the father of the child. Regardless of whether you and Logan get married in the end, you have to pay for the child's support." Yu Lu added.

"Yes, definitely. These are all normal, and they are all my responsibility. I will definitely do it." I still nodded. Actually, I would do what Yu Lu said without her telling me. .

"Chen Jin." Yu Lu looked at me again and called my name.

"What's the matter, what else do you want to say? Just say it, I'll listen." I think Yu Lu has something to remind me, and it's normal for her to use these reminders to seek justice for Logan.

After all, I did this wrong, and from the perspective of having a child, two people are not married, and the woman is pregnant again, which will hurt the woman both physically and mentally, or in terms of reputation. It's bigger, and women have to bear more. No matter what Yu Lu says, I will definitely do it, whether it's raising children or talking about other issues.

"You are a scumbag just like Zhou Kai." Yu Lu scolded me.

I paused for a moment, I didn't expect Yu Lu to say that, I thought she was going to tell me to take care of Logan, or take care of the children, but I didn't expect her to call me a scumbag.

But what she said was not wrong, I could only smile wryly, nodded, took a sip of tea, and concealed the embarrassment on my face.

I didn't refute, and I can't refute. What Yu Lu said is not wrong, I am indeed a scumbag.

Indecisive, indecisive, constantly entangled with multiple women, this is a scumbag.

"But you are better than Zhou Kai, at least you are willing to take responsibility, and you are willing to take care of every woman's thoughts." Yu Lu added, "And the women around you are also better than me, more generous than me, if it is me , I can't reach their level, and I won't be like Logan, give birth to a child when I don't get the declaration of love you promised, without love, I would rather not have a child than a child without a father."

"So you should cherish Logan even more. She didn't ask you for your title, didn't force you to get married, and didn't force you to say that you would transfer your assets to her. If it were another woman, she might ask you for it, for it. That."

"Don't worry, I will definitely take good care of her, including my children." I nodded.

"I believe you. You are a responsible man. In fact, you have some similarities with Zhou Kai, but there are also fundamental differences. Zhou Kai never thought about taking responsibility. He only pursued the love in his heart, even if he did something. Other people's affairs are irrelevant, but you are different, as long as it is a woman who has entanglements with you, let alone whether you have love or not, but at least you will take responsibility and will not escape, even if you have contact with other women, but you You will also be responsible to the responsible woman, which may be the reason why you have so many women around you and why you can get entangled with so many women." Yu Lu said.

"But it's easy to be criticized if you are so disconnected and entangled. Women don't seem to like such a man." I said.

"It can't be said that all women don't like such men. It can only be said that most women don't like such men. Now the emphasis is on equality between men and women, the awareness of women's rights is relatively strong, and monogamy is emphasized. Women like to be monogamous. I don’t want to share my man with others, I don’t want to share a love with others.” Yu Lu said, “So you are lucky, Tang Wan, your ex-wife Tong Wangjun, and Su Ran, aren’t they all with you By his side? Knowing each other's existence, but they didn't talk about fighting."

The essence of what Yu Lu said was similar to what Xiao Shan said.

After chatting casually for a while, Yu Lu said, "I plan to go back to my hometown."

"Are you planning to go back to your hometown to stay for a while? It's good. Staying in the city is a bit boring. It's also good to go home and spend time with your parents." I nodded, "I'll come back after I've rested."

"I don't plan to come back. I plan to develop at home in the future." Yu Lu said, "I have already quit my job and my house. I have packed all my luggage and put it in the train station for temporary storage. Yes. Because I thought it would be best to see you friends again before leaving, or at least let me know, so I called you and made an appointment to meet you."

(End of this chapter)