Seventy's delicate and fierce daughter-in-law

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From this, Wang Sijing thought of her cuteness.

Mengmeng's original work is not about meeting people unkindly.

First, he met the unreliable mother of the original owner, was sold as a child bride-in-law, and then met the unscrupulous family.

If it weren't for the hero and heroine halo shining and being rescued, Liu Jiao's ending is probably a true portrayal of Mengmeng.

No, maybe it's not as good as Liu Jiao, Mengmeng is too obedient, Wang Sijing thinks of Mengmeng's timid appearance when she first wore it, and doubts whether she understands resistance or not.

Thinking this way in her heart, she didn't show it on her face. Aunt Fang was already worried enough. If she ran to add fuel to the fire, wouldn't it make her think more? Pregnant women can't always be depressed and easily depressed.

"If you are afraid that something will happen to her, then work hard to live a few more years, and then teach her skills. It is best to learn boxing and kung fu. If you really have the bad luck of eight lifetimes in the future, you will directly beat back that kind of beast. You can't teach her. She has been obedient."

"What's the matter with girls, now they say that men and women are equal, why should they endure silently, anyway, I won't teach my daughter to endure."

"If he dares to hit me, I dare to hit him back. If he really can't make it through, he will get a divorce and find another one. If he can't find someone, he can't get through. If you have to rely on a man, this kind of thinking will not tell you whether it is right or not."

Wang Sijing took the opportunity to instill her thoughts on parenting to the two mothers-to-be.

I didn't think about it before, I thought Mengmeng was still young, so I didn't need to think about it. Now that I think about it, I have to hurry up.

If you don't cultivate it when you are young, it will be difficult to reverse your temperament when you grow up.

Wang Sijing made up her mind to change the preschool story every night when she got home to Hua Mulan joining the army, Xie Daoyun killing the enemy, and Wu Zetian proclaiming the emperor.

Even if her thinking is not modern and open, and her ideas cannot be accepted by others, she can't neglect her daughter's self-awareness cultivation because of this.

This has always been useful if it has to be cultivated from an early age, otherwise it will be affected by the general environment and feel wrong in the future. If you want to reverse it, then you will really cry.

"Doctor Xiao Wang is right, the daughter's family should be like this!" Aunt Fang strongly agreed with this statement.

Maybe those women will talk about it if they say this, but so what.

There is no reason to wrong one's own child for other people's gossip.

Aunt Fang has been talked about for more than ten years, and she has never heard anything ugly, so she understands it.

If you want to live a free and easy life, you can't take the words of those gossiping women to heart. The more you take to heart, the more sad they will be because of their words, and the happier they will be. It's not worth it, it's really not worth it.

Dr. Xu's daughter-in-law was a little shocked.

"This--"

"Sister Lili, you are a teacher. You should be more open-minded than us. Now is the new era. The books say that men and women are equal, but we teach our daughters and use the old age to restrain them. This is not against society. Development Law."

"Perhaps you think I'm too aggressive, but you've also heard about what happened to Sister Liu and Yuanyuan. What do you think will happen to you if one day your child encounters all this?"

Wang Sijing put down the edamame and looked at Li Li seriously.

The daughter-in-law of the old doctor Xu is also a teacher like the son of the old doctor Xu. According to the current words, the couple are both educated people.

Wang Sijing and Dr. Xu's son have met a few times, and they are still familiar, but this is the first time for Li Li.I don't know her character for the time being, but she has said everything, so she doesn't hide it.

If she dared to say it, she would admit it.

If Li Li doesn't agree, then don't agree, anyway, she hasn't gotten along with her very long.But from the bottom of my heart, I still hope that Li Li can agree with her point of view.

She is a teacher, if she can agree with it and teach students with this point of view, maybe she can make those girls suffer less, or at least become stronger.

Li Li was silent.

Yes, now we are advocating equality between men and women, why do I subconsciously feel that what Dr. Wang said is wrong, that wives really cannot resist their husbands?
She heard what happened to Liu Jiao from her husband. She was sold as a child bride since she was a child, and was beaten by her husband's family because she gave birth to a daughter, and her own daughter was not spared.

When Li Li heard it for the first time, she was terrified. She couldn't believe that anyone would believe such a fallacy.

"I will support her divorce."

It took Li Li a while to say that.

"It is wrong to be able to fight violently after all. The law should be used as a weapon. Whether a husband domestically abuses his wife or a wife hurts her husband, it should be judged by a judge, not a private judgment."

Li Li is indeed a teacher, so what she said was very tight-fisted.

Wang Sijing felt that listening was meaningless.

law?In modern times, we dare not say that the laws on this aspect are perfect. How many domestic violence cases are finally dealt with, most of which are community-based mediation, and too few cases go to court.

But she did not refute in the end.

After all, the complete resolution of the matter still needs to rely on the law. Li Li's words are quite correct.

"Tsk, you two are still too young. Now how many women in the village know the law, not to mention women, there are not many men, and the older generation suppresses them, and they want to escape by their own strength That takes luck."

"When there is no luck or strength, what we can finally rely on is the attention of our natal family."

Aunt Fang could see more clearly than Wang Sijing and Li Li.

Uncle Fang's business made him have close contacts with people of all schools and classes. Aunt Fang usually would not have contact with them, but how could they not see that they were husband and wife at all.

She has seen too many things, and she has long recognized the status of women here.

"So we still need to take care of ourselves so that we can support our children when they need it."

Wang Sijing said with a smile.

It's not good to slide down in a heavy direction while talking about the topic, so quickly pull it back and pull it back.

"Well, you're right. It's true. A married woman's family has several brothers and her husband's family has to weigh it." Li Li also agreed.

This view is the mainstream.

"Oh, I just can't help it." Aunt Fang sighed.

I have managed to conceive this child and I am getting older, and it is impossible to think about the next child.

"There's no need to be so pessimistic. What if it's a son, even if it's a daughter, brother Liangzi, boy Peng, Yuanyuan, or we will take care of her."

Wang Sijing comforted her.

"Don't think about it so much. The most important thing now is to take care of the baby. Everything else is gone. Even if you have to worry, wait until the baby is born to worry about it."

The mood of pregnant women is very important.

(End of this chapter)