Grim War God's Death Wife

Chapter 239 Zhou Linger Is Not a Phoenix Girl (Part [-])
Song Bo was sent to the hospital, stunned everyone's eyes, and Jiang Ran was also disappointed that Song Bo could not deal with Zhou Ling'er.

"Hmph, this Song Bo is such a waste. He also said that he is invincible among the girls in the Taekwondo club. It's just bragging that he can't even beat Zhou Linger." Jiang Ran cursed secretly.

What she didn't know was that Song Bo hadn't lied, and Zhou Ling'er was indeed very powerful, not something these students could compare to.

Then Jiang Ran saw Zhou Ling'er walking beside Xiao Muting, the two were talking and laughing, they were very intimate, she was very angry.

"Zhou Linger, this phoenix girl, is really a slut, she just knows how to hook up with people." Jiang Ran cursed in her heart, her eyes stared fiercely in the direction of the two, as if she wanted to eat each other.

As for Jiang Ran calling Zhou Linger the Phoenix Girl, it was in her mind that Zhou Linger was the kind of woman who wanted to climb the ladder by any means.

Phoenix girls are generally born in rural areas or small cities and towns, and they are relatively poor families. After hard work and study, they finally enter the big cities to work and live, and become a member of the new citizens.

In ancient times, the word "Golden Phoenix" appeared in the mountain nest. At that time, it was a kind of praise for the men and women of the Phoenix, indicating that they had the courage to fight hard, break the status quo, and be reborn like a Phoenix.

But up to now, phoenix male and female is no longer a commendatory term, but has become a derogatory term.

Most Phoenix men and women are "golden phoenixes flying out of the chicken coop". Although they have escaped from a relatively poor life, some ideas are still deeply ingrained in their minds.

So when they stay in the city and marry a woman in the city or a man in the city, there will always be conflicts in certain concepts, and the contradictions will continue. This is caused by the difference in the three views of the two people.

Everyone's original family has no choice, so at this point we have to admire the tenacity of the men and women of Phoenix. In the city, one can imagine the hardships of staying away from the environment facing the loess and facing the sky.

But on the surface, they are out of the lowest-level environment, and they still can’t get rid of the habits brought about by that environment in their hearts. This kind of Phoenix men are often more sensitive and inferior. Some of his words will always sting him, which has caused many contradictions invisibly.

Phoenix girls often think highly of themselves, and they try to find a tall, rich and handsome man who is superior in all aspects to take them out of the predicament of life and help their family members out of the sea of ​​suffering.

The real tall, rich and handsome look down on them. In the end, they often find urban men with middle-class family backgrounds, and urban men with middle-class family backgrounds start to feel dissatisfied when they keep giving girls money. As a vampire, it often ends in tragedy.

The phoenix man also has many problems. This kind of man mainly shows that he likes to swell his face outside to pretend to be a fat man, but he obeys his parents' words on the inside: when he returns to his hometown or at a class reunion, he often has to behave superior to others, and he has to fight for money when he has dinner outside. Pay the bill, ask others for help regardless of the reason and regardless of the cost; at home, obey the parents' words regardless of right or wrong, and always stand by the parents when there is a dispute between the wife and the parents.Having said that, maybe many people understand the meaning of "Phoenix Man". In fact, there is no shortage of such people around us, especially those from rural areas.

This kind of person may have a successful career outside, and is praised and envied by everyone in the countryside, but he is often accused of pretending to be a monster and a scheming man, and even women have complained about "Phoenix Man" on the Internet. "Guilty".

They are stupid and filial, and they always feel in their hearts that their parents raised him with great difficulty, and now it is time for him to repay, so they must not be wronged, so when there is a conflict between his wife and parents, he will always stand by his parents and always Make a face to your wife and tell her that this is wrong. If you love him, you should love his parents.

After a long time, even if he is not wronged, he will feel very wronged. Whether it is right or wrong, he is devoted to his family. How can he not make people feel cold?There is no major issue now. If it is a matter of principle, if he is still one-sided, no one can stand it.

In addition, phoenix men are often inferior and conceited. They feel that they must not be underestimated after they have worked so hard to get to the present state, so no matter who they go out to eat with, whether they are familiar or not, they will always rush to pay the bill, even if life is very difficult now. The poor will do the same, and the reason he does it is because he is afraid that others will look down on him.

When I got home, I started to cry about being poor again, and told my wife to be more frugal, otherwise I would not be able to survive. Sometimes I was really angry when I heard this. I was generous in appearance, but I was harsh on my wife when I got home. What do men want?
In addition, Phoenix man will always help unconditionally, whether it is his own younger brother or sister, or relatives who are closely related, and will contribute money and effort. This is called selfishness.

He only knows how to care about outsiders, but what about the family?Every time his wife asks him, he will justify his arguments, and think that it is his wife who has a problem, and it is his relatives. If he does not help, whoever will help.

With the development of the new society today, men and women are basically equal, instead of one being dependent on the other. Therefore, the traces brought to them by the original family of Fenghuang men and women make them easy to cause tragedies in family life, and are often looked down upon by some urban men and women. .

But on this point, Jiang Ran misunderstood Zhou Linger. Although Zhou Linger was born in poverty, she was not an unscrupulous phoenix girl who wanted to curry favor with the rich and powerful. On the contrary, she was a very self-reliant girl. The influence of the family on her made her feel that men are unreliable, so she has to be self-reliant so that she and her mother can live a good life.

In modern society, those who are not born in rural areas or small cities or towns, but also come from relatively poor families are phoenix girls. Phoenix girls refer to those who are quite scheming, do not want to struggle on their own, and want to achieve their own goal of getting rich by calculating others. Man, from this point of view, Zhou Linger is not a Phoenix girl.

Why does this society discriminate against Phoenix men and women so much?In fact, society does not discriminate against people with poor families, but those who do not want to work hard on their own and want to achieve their goal of getting rich through feelings or marriage.

For such a person, no matter whether the family is poor or not, it is estimated that many people will not like it.

(End of this chapter)