Mind Control and Distraction: Mind Control Techniques for a Lifetime

Chapter 18 Mind Control Training (3)
To know what you want, specifically, is to have a clear life goal, have a clear intention, and know what result you want.Make it a criterion whether you know what you want.We can divide young people in the workplace into the following categories.The first type is the passive abacus type. They follow the lead of the leader in everything. The requirements of the leader are the direction of their efforts. What they want to do is to be able to complete the things arranged by the leader; The first type of people is completely for dawdling, they don't care about what they want; the third type is the independent type, they know what they want, they work with clear autonomy and purpose, not only according to their own ideas Get the job done, and be clear about what you need to do to serve your goals.Most of the employees in today's workplace belong to the first category. They are very passive and are only suitable for barely being wage earners.A small group of people muddled along and were always on the verge of being eliminated.Those who do things with a clear purpose will become leaders according to their goals, or fire the boss.There is no doubt that the third type of people will live the most interesting life.Although they know that in the process of achieving what they want, there will inevitably be gains and losses, mixed joys and sorrows, but in the end they will gain something.Such people are often described by leaders as "people with ideas".How can we become a thinking person?How can I know what it is that I want?This is exactly what many people are thinking.From a macro point of view, I have to give myself a clear position, that is, what kind of person I want to be, what kind of achievement I want to achieve, and what kind of status I want to achieve, and then I should do what I should do around this goal. Things to do.From a microscopic point of view, before doing anything, you have to ask yourself, why do I do this, why do I do it, how can I do it to achieve my goal, so as to make this thing more meaningful .In general, think more when you do things, and don't let other people's will control you; and you must have your own judgment on everything, even if this judgment may be wrong, but to test whether it is wrong The process is equally important, and there will be gains if there are mistakes.Without judgment, there will be nothing.

Thinking management - change the concept, everything will change naturally

You start to choose from the moment you open your eyes: which clothes should you wear to go out?Drive or take the bus to work?Do you try your best to complete this task or just do it carelessly?Eat at the cafeteria at noon or go out to find a restaurant for dinner?In short, you have to face one choice after another.Life is a process of continuous selection.Everyone's future and destiny are determined by each choice, and they are all in our own hands.If you want to be rich, you have to make choices.First of all, what we have to choose is not how to make money, but to have the thoughts of rich people and the mentality of getting rich.If not, no matter how much money you make, the money will quickly run out of your pocket.Psychologists have long said: "How you think, you will become what kind of person." Whether a person is poor or rich does not depend on his conditions and environment. Millionaires can still come out of slums.

Any result in life originally comes from one's own choice.What kind of choice will determine what kind of life.Our lives today are determined by our choices years ago, and our choices today will determine our lives a few years from now.All changes come from changes in one's own ideas.The best choice is of course the one with the most positive attitude.

You want your work to go smoothly and your life to be happier, but you feel like you're always working in a job you don't like--this is your choice, because you can change a job.

You want to be healthier and stronger, but you keep saying you're weak because you don't have time to exercise -- and that's your choice, because you can make time to exercise.

You want your family to be happier and your children to be more obedient, but you always have conflicts with your wife, and your children's academic performance is not satisfactory-this is your choice, because you can completely control your emotions or spend time educating your children.

You want to have better relationships, more close friends, but you always say you have few friends - and this is your choice, because you can decide to make more friends.

The IQ of many rich people is not very high; many politicians are not the most talented people.The reason why they can succeed is that they have found the key point to control their own destiny, and it is at this point that they surpass ordinary people.A wrong choice may lead to frustration in love, social mistakes, losses in shopping malls, downfall in officialdom, and fiasco in the battlefield.All the misfortunes in life stem from wrong choices one by one.

It is each choice that determines whether we can succeed in the end.Sometimes, success or failure does not depend on whether you understand the reason or know the method.Although the method is very important, it is your various choices and decisions that really determine success or failure.

Belief Management - A Higher Power Will Help You
Faith is an interesting word.I have looked through many dictionaries, and there are various explanations and definitions for this word.The word faith has different definitions for different people.For some, it's a religious term; for others, it's a place of inner hope.No matter what faith means in your dictionary, faith or belief can bring you great comfort when you encounter difficult situations.

The Dictionary of the English World defines "faith" as: A strong or unshakable belief in something, especially in the absence of any evidence to support it.

The so-called "unshakable" means that there is no slightest doubt, even if there is no evidence to prove the accuracy of something, you will still believe in it.

Faith is everything to me when my life is at its worst.I really don't know how I would get through my bad days without it.I am full of trust in something more powerful. I believe that everything happens for a reason. I believe that everything will pass. I believe that this experience will definitely bring unexpected gains to my life... It is these beliefs that have helped me through the darkest moments of my life.The important thing is to have faith, to believe that there is indeed a higher power in this world.

Think back to what is the biggest crisis you have encountered in your life so far, and then think about how you evaluate this crisis a month or a year later.Admittedly, there are times when you feel like it's actually a pretty big turnaround in your life.

Maybe you still don't understand why certain things happen to you.But as long as there is faith, as long as there is a firm belief in the existence of a higher power, even in the most violent chaos, you will feel very peaceful.You tell yourself that all of this happens for a reason, be patient, and keep an open mind.

Just imagine, when you are walking alone in the dark, not knowing what will happen in the future, not knowing whether you can bear the future, then faith will bring you decisive power.

Learn to let go of yourself, let go of everything, and give yourself to a higher level of power. This may be the biggest test anyone needs to accept in life.But being able to do this is not easy, especially when difficulties ensue.

A psychologist wants to know what kind of influence people's mentality will have on behavior.So he did an experiment.

First, he let ten people go through a dark room.Under his guidance, all ten people passed through successfully.

The psychologist then turns on a light in the room.Under the dim light, these people saw everything in the room clearly, and they broke out in a cold sweat.The ground of this house is a large pool, and there are more than a dozen big crocodiles in the pool.There is a narrow wooden bridge over the pool, and they just walked across the bridge just now.

"Now, who among you would like to walk through this house again?" asked the psychologist. No one answered.After a long time, two bold ones stood up.

One of them walked over cautiously.The speed was much slower than the first time; the other wooden bridge fell down when halfway through.I no longer dare to move half a step forward.The psychologist turned on another nine lights in the room, which made the room as bright as day.At this time, people saw a safety net installed under the small wooden bridge. Because the color of the net wire was very light, they didn't see it at all just now.

Now, who wants to cross this small wooden bridge? asked the psychologist. Eight people came forward this time.

Why do you not want to? "The psychologist asked the remaining two people, is this safety net strong?" the two men asked in unison.most of the time.Success is like passing through this small wooden bridge. The reason for failure is probably not weak strength and low intelligence, but the deterrence of the surrounding environment - facing danger.Many people have long lost their balanced mentality, panicked, and messed up.

Only by maintaining a good attitude can we rise in adversity.Only by maintaining a good attitude can success be achieved, and there is no exception from ancient times to the present.Beethoven's life was full of ups and downs. In the eyes of others, Beethoven was just a deaf and crazy music idiot.Binaural deafness is already a fatal blow to a person who devotes himself to music career.Others' incomprehension and inner loneliness added to Beethoven's inner depression.But he was not knocked down.Struggling in the abyss of pain, he burst out with all the anger in his heart.I want to hold the throat of fate. There are always ups and downs in life.Even though the thorns ahead pave the way.It is also necessary to ignite the eternal lamp of the soul in the heart from time to time to guide us out of the confusion of the soul.Give full play to our unique subjective initiative of human beings.Let a strong spiritual awareness free us from the darkness, free from outside distractions.To the palace of success.

Attitude determines destiny, and attitude changes destiny!
God will always take care of us, maybe it's just that his methods are a little strange, maybe a little mysterious, but as long as we keep an open mind, God's gift will come at any time.

When everything is collapsing and you are about to lose all hope, it is not easy to keep your faith at this time, but you must believe that a power from a higher level has already arranged everything for you.Learn to let go, don't deliberately resist or reject; learn to surrender, and believe that every nerve in your body will be favored by God.Of course, be sure to keep an open mind.You may not understand these words now, but it doesn't matter, all this will be proved sooner or later.

Problem Management - if you don't solve the problem, you will trip yourself up

I remember when I graduated high school with an A+ in maths, I felt so confident - I still remember that feeling.At that time, I thought that no matter what kind of math problems I encountered in the future, I would easily answer them.But in fact, I did encounter an unsolvable mathematical problem later, which is something to say later, so I won’t show it for the time being.What I want to say here is that, in fact, everything in the world has a solution, just like any place has one or several roads that can lead there.There is a Chinese saying that "nothing is difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb it", which is the truth.Anything can be solved, it depends on whether you have the confidence and endurance to solve it.If you have a positive attitude to solve the problem, no matter how troublesome the problem is, as long as you make unremitting efforts, you will definitely find an effective solution.But then again, why are there so many dejected people around us?They are depressed and depressed because of failure.What I want to say is that there are no unsolvable problems in the world, only people who don't want to solve them.If you don't actively solve the problem, you will trip yourself up.Life experience is a kind of growth, which can be reflected in any little thing.This process of growing up matures you, and it will be a painful metamorphosis.You yourself are the most powerful weapon when you step over everything that you have sunk in your youth and shoot at the childish thoughts you once thought could never be changed.If you can convince yourself to win this war successfully, you will understand the meaning and responsibility of life, and you will no longer lament the misery and loss of life like you did when you were young.African-American writer Eldridge Cleaver once said: "If you can't solve the problem, you will become the problem." Now let's put it another way, if you don't actively solve the problem, then you will trip yourself up .If you think about it carefully, most of the reasons why we become our own stumbling blocks are avoiding responsibility or giving up the right to choose.In most cases, it's not that we don't have the ability to determine the subsequent development of things, but we give up the opportunity to choose and evade the responsibilities we should have assumed.Maybe at this time we are still blaming others, thinking that we are weak and helpless, and have no ability to solve problems.This is because we have lost confidence in our own abilities.

Reality is a still picture that clearly reflects everything we have experienced, objectively and in detail.It's unmistakable, we see exactly where we are, what we want, and where it is.But if this picture is not realistic and objective, we will lose our way.In fact, from the moment we were born, we didn't know what was going to happen in the future.When we grow up and start a separate life journey, the first thing to do is to understand what you want, remember, it is yourself, not you who is influenced by other people's ideas.The world is impermanent, and we are making various preparations for ourselves to adapt to this world anytime, anywhere.Whether we can maintain a pure and rational heart determines whether we can continue this journey of life indomitably.

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