Lady Caisang: My husband is a little sweet

Chapter 32
Gu Qingya took it, but didn't do it right away, carefully looked at the thread that Yan Sujin had laid, it seemed that the color was very good, even and tight, and the craftsmanship was also very good.However, when the village was talking about a girl with good craftsmanship, they hadn't heard of Yan Sujin's name, so it seemed that they were probably hiding their clumsiness.

Stretching out her hand to feel it, Gu Qingya quickly spun out an inch of cotton thread, pulled it apart and compared it with the original one, there was still some difference, not as good-looking as Yan Sujin's.

Returning the things in her hands to Yan Sujin, Gu Qingya said embarrassedly: "I'm not good at this craft, so I don't want to do it, it will be troublesome to rework later."

Yan Sujin took it, and she couldn't really let Gu Qingya do it, but it's okay for the two of them to communicate. Gu Qingya's lines don't look as good as hers, but it's actually just a matter of proficiency. It only takes a while to get started. Also very good.

"This kind of thing is just practice makes perfect. You don't do it often, and you are still young. In a few years, you will definitely be better than me." Yan Sujin said with a smile.

"However, if I have the chance, I would actually like to learn weaving. If I am good at a certain kind, isn't it better than spinning cotton thread, which anyone can do?" All the linen is woven by her, and her skills are average.

Yan Sujin felt the same way, "I also feel the same way, but it's a pity that the looms are not cheap, and some weaving methods are not known to the outside world. It is said that the weavers in those big cloth villages buy out their lives." In rural areas, weaving The method is the most common plain weave. Even if there is a handy woman, there will be one or two more tricks, which is really lackluster.

"What are you talking about? The zongzi is ready, eat it while it's hot." Wang said, holding a small bamboo basket with steaming zongzi in it. After putting it down, she went back to get the bowl and chopsticks.

"I'm going to call grandma, and I'll try the gray rice dumpling." Yan Sujin said, then ran to the main room and helped the elder mother-in-law out.

Gu Qingya hurriedly got up to say hello, the elder mother-in-law narrowed her eyes and glanced at Gu Qingya, "Oh, it's Yan Mu's girl, sit down, sit down."

Yan Sujin took a rice dumpling, peeled it open and put it in a bowl, first handed it to the elder mother-in-law, and then peeled a dumpling made from her own meat and gave it to Gu Qingya, "Come and try my homemade rice dumpling, it tastes good too."

Mrs. Wang came over again with a small pot of wild vegetable and egg drop soup, "Here, go with the soup, you won't get tired of eating it."

"Mom, you've been busy sitting and resting for a while." Yan Sujin said, peeling off the rice dumplings and serving soup.

Gu Qingya watched from the side, felt that the atmosphere in their home was very good, she felt a little envious, at her own home, eating food would definitely not be done in groups like this, usually Fang would eat first, and they would eat something else.

Seeing that Gu Qingya didn't move her chopsticks, Wang couldn't help laughing and said: "Qingya, eat quickly, you're welcome."

"That's right, speaking of which, our two families are still relatives." Yan Sujin said with a smile.

Gu Qingya smiled and nodded yes, seeing that they all moved their chopsticks, she moved them and ate slowly.

After eating the zongzi, the head mother-in-law said she wanted to go out for a walk, so Mrs. Wang went out with her. There were only two girls in the house, so it was much easier to talk.

"Dragon Boat Festival, don't you go to watch the dragon boat race? This year, it is said that Mr. Wu's family built one, which is very beautiful." Yan Sujin didn't make noodles, moved a bench and sat with Gu Qingya in the corridor next to the patio, chatting.

"My parents are not free, we are too young to go." Gu Qingya shook her head, although they also wanted to see what the dragon boat race was like, "But Sister Sujin, can you still go?" go out?"

"It's ok, the rules are not as strict as before. Besides, small families like us don't have to be the same as those of big families. If that's the case, whoever does the field work!" Of course, Yan Sujin also has a sense of propriety, and she can't run around. .

It is said that decades ago, the rules for women were strict. Maybe just show your face at the door, and rumors will spread everywhere tomorrow. Some old people who have experienced it are still there, and they shudder when they talk about those years.

Every dynasty changes, there will be people who will make various norms, whether harsh or loose. Looking at the previous dynasties in this dynasty, it does not mean that what the famous people in those dynasties said and wrote is right. At most, they can only say that The norms laid down apply only to the period they are in, not all.

What the sage said must be correct, but it was misunderstood or interpreted by later generations, or even purposefully distorted into a tool, so that fewer and fewer people believed, and instead believed in those who were more or less biased. people.

Gu Qingya remembered what she saw in Zangshu Pavilion in her dream, it was that the book "Female Virtue" contained comments on various books about female virtue that appeared in different periods, sometimes she asked for what was lacking, and some Sometimes it is too demanding.

It is more because of the decline of the overall morality of the society that some people come to make demands. In fact, in ancient times, how could those basic truths need to be reminded to death?
Gu Qingya was stunned for a while, then followed Yan Sujin's words and continued, "It's just that I feel that some of the current atmosphere is not very good, and it seems to be changing in another direction." The child didn't deliberately keep a distance, and no one blamed him, at most he just said a few words.

Yan Sujin took a look at Gu Qingya, "If you meet a girl who doesn't pay attention to anything, stay away. Let's be ourselves and not be afraid of the shadow." She didn't know why Gu Qingya said this suddenly, maybe It was the people around her that made her think.

"You have to believe, don't look like everyone doesn't care about some rules, but actually live life, encounter important events, they actually take them very seriously, don't just follow others." Yan Sujin reminded, she was watching Gu Qing Ya only said it obediently, otherwise she wouldn't bother to speak.

She is already 15 years old, and she will be married in two years, and she will be taught a lot at home. It is easier to say this to people of the same age than it is to adults.

Gu Qingya nodded, "My mother often told me that too." It turned out that she thought that the Gu family would make such demands on her, and it turns out that the Li Chang's family taught their granddaughter the same way.

"Auntie is very good, you have to be filial to her." Yan Sujin also heard something about Gu Shi more or less, but as a junior, she couldn't say much.

"Of course." Gu Qingya couldn't understand why some people were not nice to their parents, or even abandoned them.

Looking at the location of the shadow, Gu Qingya felt that she had been staying at the head of the village for a long time, "Sister Sujin, I have been staying for a long time, it's time to go back, thank you and auntie for the hospitality, the rice dumplings and soup are delicious all good."

"Where, the gray water rice dumplings you made are also good. Next time when you are free, come to my house to play and talk about silk reeling and weaving." Yan Sujin knew about the situation in Gu Qingya's house, so she didn't keep anyone.

(End of this chapter)