Lady Caisang: My husband is a little sweet

Chapter 387 Discussion
Jiang Rongan knocked on the table with his fingers, he and Gu Qingya still thought too simply, but if it was really graded, it would take too much manpower and material resources.

"The reason why the two mother-in-laws are invited is also because you have always been highly respected and virtuous in the village. If you are allowed to spend a few days every month in the Earth Temple to talk about some female virtues, would you be willing?"

"Ah?" Everyone still looked at Jiang Rong'an in surprise. Could it be that the magistrate still doesn't give up?

"Every half ten days, three days are taken in the Earth Temple. The listeners are old women, women, and girls. On a voluntary basis, they talk about how to be an old woman, how to be a wife, and how to be a girl."

"Of course, the two mothers-in-law can recommend anyone who is more suitable to give lectures." Jiang Rongan looked at the doubtful eyes of everyone, and said with a smile: "Whether a family is harmonious or not, most of the time the focus is on the women at home. If they You can understand the truth and correct it, but how many families can feel comfortable?"

The two old women obviously didn't expect Jiang Rongan to plan like this. They were a little confused. How could they know how to be a master and give lectures, and what else would they say?

"My lord, is it settled like this?" Someone asked, but in fact he still didn't care much about the lecture in the Earth Temple.

"Let's start after the Chinese New Year. During this time, you can tell the people around you that if you are interested, you can go." Jiang Rong'an thought for a while, and asked if it would be so cold in a while, and it would be convenient for everyone to travel.

"But my lord, here, what can I say as an old woman?" An old woman said worriedly, if she messed up the matter, would she be accused of crimes?

Jiang Rong'an thought for a while, and the two mothers-in-law said to themselves a little vaguely, "Well, the two mothers-in-law will stay later, and they can discuss with my wife in detail to formulate suitable content."

"Everyone should not think that women's education is indifferent. They may not be able to read or write, but there are some truths to be understood. They are important pillars of the family and play a vital role.

Of course, on the other hand, men also have to learn, and being a fool without reason, wouldn't that make the family uncomfortable?So step by step, on the other side of the school, I consider opening some similar classes, invite a few masters to give lectures, and the men will also go to listen. "

After discussing for a while, Jiang Rong'an prepared a small gift for everyone and arranged to send them back, leaving only the two mothers-in-law behind and took them directly to the backyard.

Gu Qingya was very surprised when she heard Jiang Rong'an's general idea. At the beginning, she just raised an idea and didn't think about other things carefully. She was too naive.

What Jiang Rongan thinks is not a very good idea, but setting the location in the Earth Temple, with the people's respect for the Earth Temple, they will not talk indiscriminately, and the same is true for the lecturers, they will only go if they are restrained Think carefully about the appropriateness of what you say.

Not enough is indeed much better than she thought, so Gu Qingya is still very happy to discuss it with the two old ladies.

She studied in Zangshu Pavilion, but she didn't meet so many people later. Chen Wenyue and the others had not bad education in the boudoir, and they hardly mentioned related topics.

Seeing the reserved looks of the two old ladies, Gu Qingya smiled at them, offered tea and candied fruit again, and made some gossip before she got to the point.

"My lord just told me, what do mothers-in-laws think?"

"Madam, thanks to your lordship for looking down on our two old ladies, they are both half-buried and can't read a word, how can they give lectures and reason?"

"That's right, and I don't know how many people will come to listen. This has not even started yet, and my heart is pounding."

Seeing the sad look of the old man, Gu Qingya couldn't help laughing and said, "Grandmother, you are old, you are also very prestigious on weekdays, you often persuade people, there are many reasons, in fact, you are usually doing it, but you don't know That's all."

"Ma'am, is what you said true?"

"Let you talk about it, not to talk about big principles, but some small experiences in life. Don't be nervous, just share your life experience and point out a direction for others."

Seeing the two mothers-in-law thoughtful, Gu Qingya asked with a smile: "Since the adults are divided into three age groups, what do you think should be done for grandmas like you?"

"I think the most important thing is not to be partial, to treat people equally, and to be rewarded and punished." A mother-in-law said that she has three sons in her family, and the three daughter-in-laws have different temperaments and are not separated. It is not to reconcile family relations. Famous and friendly people, I have never seen them blush, which is also surprising.

The other mother-in-law has only one son. She thought for a while and said, "The key is the problem of speaking. You can't criticize. If there is something wrong, you can teach it instead of blaming it. There is also the problem of favoritism. It is true that a daughter-in-law is different from a daughter-in-law. This How to deal with it has to be measured.”

"Also, slowly letting go of the power of the family, I think this is also the key..."

With the beginning, the two old people talked about you and me. They first talked about their own life experiences, how they were mothers-in-law and how they were grandmothers, and the chat was quite lively.

Gu Qingya watched from the side with a smile, in fact, they only need to roll their names, and the two old people can speak clearly.

In the end, the two summed up the characteristics of love, justice, decentralization, tolerance, etc., and they can give several examples to illustrate.

"The two mothers-in-law have always been in good health." Gu Qingya said in an affirmative tone, although they were both thin and small, there was absolutely nothing wrong with their bodies.

"Madam knows how to read?" said the mother-in-law of three sons, "I have always been in good health, and there is nothing serious about it."

"Yes, I am the same. I can eat well, sleep soundly and walk well." Another mother-in-law is also very satisfied with her health.

"That's right, have you actually found out, do people of your age who make trouble at home always have this or that problem?"

The two mothers-in-law thought about it carefully, and found it really so, and found it very strange, "Does it matter, Ma'am?"

"It's actually very simple. For example, if an old man is eccentric, his son and daughter-in-law will definitely feel uncomfortable. If they feel uncomfortable, they will fight against them. If they are disobedient, they will naturally get sick after a long time. This is called affection." Caused by bad will."

Gu Qingya thought for a while, and grasped this point to have an in-depth discussion with the two mothers-in-law.There are many reasons for getting sick, and women especially suffer from emotional and other diseases. In addition to physical discomfort, the disease is accompanied by huge medical expenses, which many people are afraid of.

(End of this chapter)