Reborn 1960 Sweet Wife

Chapter 859 Come back 3
So now when Song Lili asked, he answered the question without even thinking about it.After I finished answering, I felt that I spoke too fast, and my tone was a little eager.Doesn't seem so good?

Biting her lip, she didn't dare to look at Song Lili.

Song Lili also discovered this question after Fang Xiaotao's refusal, but he didn't ask right away.Instead, she dragged Fang Xiaotao to sit in the main room.I only asked when I saw that there was no one around.

He said, "Xiao Tao, did you not get along well with your classmates at school?"

Facing Fang Xiaotao, his words were more tactful.

If it is his own child, he may be more direct and ask if there is any problem.

But Fang Xiaotao is a little girl, and not her own child.His approach may be a little more gentle.

Facing Song Lili's question, Fang Xiaotao subconsciously wanted to refuse.He now has the idea of ​​shutting everyone out of his heart.

Song Lili thought of talking to him because she saw this.

Seeing Song Lili's warm, sincere, and seemingly understanding eyes, Fang Xiaotao thought about it, and finally decided to talk to Song Lili.

Because in Fang Xiaotao's mind, Song Lili was the one who treated her very well.And my aunt won't look down on me either.

In his consciousness, he can say anything to his aunt, and it seems that his aunt will not think that what she said is wrong.

So after thinking about it, Fang Xiaotao finally said, "I don't have any friends in school. It seems that my classmates don't want to play with me."

Finally gritted his teeth.Tell Song Lili what I think, "And I think they are all laughing at me. They don't want to play with me."

Fang Xiaotao's words were not accurate.But Song Lili understood.

He is also someone who has attended school.Naturally, he understood what Fang Xiaotao's words meant.

This is to say that he was excluded by his classmates.And listen to his voice.It seems to be ridiculed by classmates?
Song Lili did not go to comfort Fang Xiaotao immediately.Instead, think about it first, what should he say, so that the child can accept it more easily.

After a while, she said slowly, "Then how did you know that the classmates don't want to play with you?" Song Li still decided to ask clearly before talking.

Fang Xiaotao felt a little wronged, "They didn't want to play with me. When I went to find them, they all walked away. And when I wasn't around. When I didn't play with them, they would speak ill of me. "

"Aunt, why do you think they don't want to play with me?"

Song Lili's heart skipped a beat.It seems that the problem is a little serious.

But I haven't heard this child say that there is such a problem before.And Zhang Aiai didn't seem to notice either.

It is very dangerous for a child to suddenly have such an idea. If it is true, the child may refuse to communicate and eventually become an introverted child. This is the lightest result.

It is also possible to be autistic, it is entirely possible.

Song Lili quickly pulled Fang Xiaotao to sit beside her, and held her hand intimately.

"I don't think they have such an idea. It must be that you have transferred to another school. They are not very familiar with you, so they just didn't play with you."

"Think about it, will you keep a distance from her when facing unfamiliar people?"

Fang Xiaotao thought about it for a while, and it seemed to make sense, then she nodded, the grievance on her face seemed to be a little less.

Song Lili said again, "Compare yourself. If it was a stranger, would you take the initiative to go over and play with them? You must be unwilling, right. You will only play together after a long time and when you get to know each other well. "

"I think your classmates should be like this. It's not that they don't want to play with you. It's just that they are not familiar with you. They don't dare."

"Can you take the initiative to be more active in the future? If you want to make friends with them, take the initiative to find them. Then introduce yourself, and slowly, they will become your friends."

Song Lili didn't know if what Fang Xiaotao said about being excluded by her classmates was true.But now he can only tell Thief Fang this way.And then the question after that.

He didn't know until after school started, and his explanation was acceptable to Fang Xiaotao.

Because after thinking about it, he realized that what Song Lili said seemed to make sense.

Because he compares himself with himself, which is what Song Lili said.And he doesn't speak ill of others.Those people should be like this too, right?

Thinking of this, Fang Xiaotao felt much better.There is no longer a feeling of being abandoned by the whole world.The little haze that fell in my heart.Because Song Lili discovered it in time.was swept out.My heart brightened up again.

He had a genuinely happy smile on his face. "Auntie, I understand. I understand. After school starts, I will take the initiative to make friends with them."

"However, now I don't go to my classmates' house to pay New Year's greetings. I don't know them very well." The most important thing is that Fang Xiaotao doesn't want to trouble her aunt.

Because he still understands.His father and mother are divorced, and he lives with his aunt now.This is not my home, but my uncle's.

So here, try to trouble your uncle and his family as little as possible.Sit there as quietly as possible, and don't bother them if you can.

This is what it feels like to be under the fence.There is always a feeling of being cautious, afraid that my behavior will be disliked by others, and then I will be kicked out.

Although Fang Xiaotao is relatively young, he already has this feeling now.

It's not that Song Li and the others are such people, but after he gradually understood the matter, these thoughts appeared in his heart.

He knew that if he wanted to go to a classmate's house, his aunt would prepare a gift for him.Those all cost money.

Although Zhang Aiai still has a job now, his salary is not very high.Part of the usual expenses of the mother and daughter was spent.And true love also needs to save money.

So now Fang Xiaotao also has the idea of ​​saving.It's no longer like when you first came to the capital, you want to buy whatever novelty you see.would love to have.

Song Lili saw that Fang Xiaotao seemed to be gone, the aggrieved and sad look just now.After thinking about it, I decided to respect his idea.

So nodded, "Okay, if you don't want to go, then don't go, just stay at home."

"It's finally a holiday, so relax. You'll probably be busy after the Chinese New Year and school starts."

Fang Xiaotao didn't go to school much at home, so he is considered older among his classmates now.So it's a bit of a standout feeling.

(End of this chapter)