One-acre three-point land of the miracle doctor and peasant girl

Chapter 140 Psychological Counseling
It turned out that because of Sun Juhong's always timid and inferior character, she didn't dare to communicate with others, but for some reason, Zhang Xiaohua approached her patiently, took her to the town to play together, and bought her some small things from time to time. Something, take her to the teahouse to listen to books.

Slowly, Sun Juhong, who was lonely in her heart, let go of her defenses. She only thought that Zhang Xiaohua had changed, so she put aside her parents' words of caring for her, played with her, and often brought back a piece of food she bought for her. Family.

Because the family was busy with farming, the whole family was immersed in the matter of Sun Ruhe's recovery and Xu's pregnancy, and no one paid special attention to her.

To this day, the Sun family members are all working in the field, leaving Sun Juqing to take care of Mrs. Xu, who is a little unwell. At this time, Zhang Xiaohua came to find Mrs. Sun, and for some reason, she had an argument with Mrs. Xu, and pushed her to the ground at once.

This scene happened to be seen by Sun Juqing, who was rushing home to get water, and immediately rushed to tear Zhang Xiaohua, and then sent her sister to the field to call her family, and then Sun Daniu detained Zhang Xiaohua at home. The scene of the Xue family begging for help.

Hongxue listened quietly from the beginning to the end, without making a comment, until Sun Juqing finished speaking angrily, and then said: "Actually, this matter has turned out like this, there is something wrong with you as a sister."

"What?" Sun Juqing looked at Hongxue in disbelief and said, "What's wrong with me?"

Sun Juhong also stared at Hongxue with wide eyes, she thought that Hongxue would be like her family and scolded herself, but unexpectedly, she blamed her own sister.

"Isn't it?" Hongxue took Sun Juhong's hand, looked at Sun Juqing firmly and said, "Juhong is your sister, what kind of temperament is she, how can you not know, if you don't care about her enough, And how can it make her feel lonely at home because she has nothing to do with her?"

Hongxue looked at the expressions of the two sisters, and then analyzed: "She usually doesn't interact with the outside world very much. Once someone wants to play with her, how can she be unhappy? Of course she is good to her friends when she is happy, not to mention this Zhang Xiaohua used to be your friend, so of course she feels more at ease."

"But we clearly warned her not to get too close to Zhang Xiaohua." Sun Juqing said unconvinced.

Hongxue sighed deeply after hearing this, touched Sun Juhong's hair and said, "Man, sometimes there will always be one or two times when she will feel rebellious, the more you don't let her do this, the more she wants to go Find out."

"So according to you, you can't blame her for what happened today?" Sun Juqing was still a little unconvinced.

Hongxue shook her head and said, "I can't say she's not to blame at all, at least I can't blame her entirely, everything has a cause and an effect." Looking at Sun Juhong who was still sobbing, he asked: " I remember that Yu'er came to you many times, why did you say that you didn't want to go out?"

"I, I don't want to be with Hongyu. Seeing her, I feel useless." Sun Juhong said softly.

"Where are you useless?" Hongxue asked carefully, "She's just a child, even younger than you."

"But she's better than me in everything. She's smart, obedient, has two older sisters who love her, and she's good at embroidery. When I'm with her, I feel..."

"Do you feel pressure?" Before Sun Juhong finished speaking, Hongxue took over and said, "But your family also loves you very much, don't you feel it? You only see Yu'er's side, and feel that you are not as good as She then subconsciously refused her approach, but she missed a lot of her naughty and bad side."

Hongxue sighed in her heart, she is a doctor, but she is not a psychiatrist, why should she be taught by someone who has no knowledge of this kind of psychological counseling? ?

Despite the reluctance in his heart, he still had to say gently as before: "In fact, no matter it is Yu'er, even your sister, even I have a bad side, but you have always refused to approach us, so what you see is naturally Only when we are good, then you will feel more and more useless, and then you will start to distrust us, and only focus on a limited place, so that people with good intentions will take advantage of you."

Seeing that Sun Juhong was about to speak, Hongxue jumped ahead and said, "Maybe Zhang Xiaohua is very kind to you, and I can't tell for someone who doesn't know. Does she really have bad intentions to approach you, but you have to remember , only if you trust others boldly, others will play with you, otherwise you will always be on guard against others, and after a long time, no one will want to play with such a person."

"But I trusted the wrong person this time, and almost got my sister-in-law involved." Sun Juqing said in a low voice.

Hongxue knew that this incident was a blow to the little girl. It was the first time she mustered up the courage to make friends with her, but the other party had evil intentions. If she didn't handle it well, it would be difficult for her to trust others in the future.

Then he smiled and said: "Ju Hong, you have to remember that there are all kinds of people in this world, and they may not all be worthy of your trust, but if you refuse to give any trust, how can others be willing to have a deep friendship with you? Maybe you say you If you don’t know the difference between sincerity and falsehood, then choose from among the people you think are safe and judge. If you can’t judge by yourself, you can ask your sister to give you advice. She is your relative and will never harm you. As long as you Feel it carefully, and slowly you will be able to tell the difference.”

"But……"

"Ju Hong, remember, no one will object to your making friends, and you have the right to make friends of your own, but these friends need you to distinguish them with your heart, not just what you say." Hongxue finally concluded: "This Don't worry about this time, if you are really sorry, I will take good care of your sister-in-law for the next month. I believe your sister-in-law is also a sensible person and won't blame you. Get to know your sister-in-law's character, and then start with her to distinguish whether others treat you well or badly."

"Can I really do it? Can I really tell the difference between people's hearts?" Sun Juhong seemed to be talking to herself, but also seemed to be asking Hongxue.

"Of course you can. What you lack is self-confidence." Hongxue said softly, "You have to believe that you are not inferior to others. Maybe you are not as good as others today, but tomorrow you may surpass others in a certain aspect. Remember' I am born to be useful' as long as you work hard, you will have a brilliant place."

Sun Juhong looked at Hongxue with burning eyes and said, "Thank you sister Hongxue, I will definitely work hard, I really envy Hongyu, she has such a good sister like you."

"Your sister is also very good. Don't just envy others and ignore the people around you, or they will be sad." Hongxue sighed lightly from the bottom of her heart. Added a psychological counseling project.

(End of this chapter)