Reborn 1980 has a farm

Chapter 785
Getting up late is all an excuse, after all, I just don't want to contribute.

Carrying the dowry is really not easy, and he is the uncle, so if he knows how to do things, he has to take the initiative to carry the big one. Unfortunately, this person is afraid of exerting himself, so he wants to come late and pick the light one... It's not that Yao Suqiu maliciously speculated, she In fact, what Second Uncle misses the most is just the wedding banquet.

The dowries are all men, and they still work hard, so the banquet in the morning is extra rich. This is the attitude of the husband's family, and it is also the value of the bride.

Of course, the number of people to be married is also negotiated in advance, otherwise the banquet is not prepared enough, or something goes wrong, and both parties will lose face.

Yao Suqiu returned home after the happy words on both ends of the village were posted. When she saw Dai Jun standing in the yard, she was surprised.
"Why did you come so early?"

"I'll see what I can do to help."

Dai Juan was holding a cigarette with his fingertips, but he didn't light it up, just playing with it.

"I know that the customs here are different from ours. As long as my uncle and aunt make it clear, I should be fine."

"You're right. There's a big difference between us marrying a girl and marrying a daughter-in-law. Except for a few little sisters and my natal sister-in-law who accompany a girl to go out, the rest of us don't go, including my parents. After that It's three days to go back home."

Yao Suqiu said and smiled,

"So, you just go to work, there is nothing to be busy at home."

The dowry has been sent out, and the rest is waiting for the wedding car to pull the bride.

Let me point out that in their place, when the man comes to marry the bride, the bridegroom's sister-in-law and four unmarried girls come, and the groom does not come.

The man's sister-in-law brings people to marry, and the woman brings her natal sister-in-law and younger sisters to marry. The number is the same, which is actually equivalent to the best man and bridesmaid groups in later generations.

This is the difference between a man and a woman. One marries, one gets married, one adds, and one subtracts. In comparison, the woman's side is much lonely, which is the root cause of many families' patriarchy.

Those families who value their daughters will inevitably hide in the house and cry when they watch their daughters get married.

Yao Suqiu has lived two lifetimes, and she has seen a lot of weddings, especially those in big cities where both men and women are present, and it is much more lively to watch.

Moreover, perhaps because of the relationship between the only child, the parents of both parties put all their energy into making arrangements for the children, which made them feel at ease.

Unlike their place, when the daughter gets married, the woman can only send the daughter to the car or sedan chair eagerly, and they have nothing to do with the rest.

The liveliest place is the groom's house, with the constant suona and laughter that can last for several days. This is their local wedding custom.

Although Yao Suqiu doesn't like this custom very much, she doesn't plan to let her eldest sister innovate. Besides, her eldest sister and her brother-in-law are local aborigines, and they have already engraved this kind of marriage custom in their bones. Not used to it.

Listening to Yao Suqiu's narration, Dai Jun frowned slightly, and then he didn't know what to think of, so he leaned close to Yao Suqiu's ear,

"In the future, when we get married, we will do it in a hotel. At that time, please invite your uncle and aunt to stay in the hotel in advance, and let them witness our marriage together, including your brothers, sisters and relatives."

"Okay, when we get married, we have to create something new, it's too boring like this."

Especially for the woman, when the suona blows, the daughter follows the wedding procession, and the natal family is suddenly deserted and desolate.

(End of this chapter)