Li Yinhe talks about sex

Chapter 20 Swapping Activities and Gathering for Fornication

Citizens have ownership of their bodies, and they have the right to use and dispose of their bodies according to their wishes.

Recently, in some big cities in our country such as Guangzhou, Shanghai, and Beijing, a new form of entertainment has begun to appear. Two or more couples gather together for entertainment, some of which include sexual activities.

Unbeknownst to these couple-swappers, their practice was once considered illegal.Let me give you an example: In the early 80s, a group of middle-aged people often held sex parties at the home of an assistant engineer and were convicted.The following is the confession of one of the inmates: "When my lover knew that I was living a rough life, he persuaded me many times, and the comrades around me also stabbed me with rumors, but I ignored them all. I thought, this is at most Immoral, not enough to go to jail. Finally, the crimes of our promiscuous gang were exposed. The eight middle-aged men and women we often gather together have committed the unforgivable crime of hooliganism, and five of them were sentenced. The assistant The engineer was shot, his wife got a suspended death sentence, and I got 15 years for hooliganism."

Judging from people's behavior standards and concepts today, the above cases are very problematic.Although this kind of activity is still rare in China, it is not uncommon in the West, and it is called spouse-swapping activity.In these types of events, couples come together for spouse-swapping sex.In the 20s, this type of activity was called "wife swapping," a term that reflected a value system in which the wife was the property of the husband, as if the wife were an item to be exchanged.Then there was another appellation with the value of gender equality: "swapping".In the advertising columns of western newspapers and periodicals, you can often see advertisements for people who want to perform spouse-swapping activities looking for a partner. Sometimes two couples get together to swap spouses for entertainment, and sometimes multiple couples conduct such activities.If they knew that in China, the organizers of their kind of events were sentenced to death, and the participants were sentenced to death with a suspended sentence of 50 years in prison, they would be shocked.Such a verdict is appalling.

According to the survey of western sociology, the activity of changing spouses has the characteristics of class.The participants in the couple-swapping event were mostly middle-class white married couples.The Hunter Report estimates that about 2 percent of married couples nationwide have engaged in at least one spouse swap. A survey by Red Book magazine found that some people have participated in at least one pair-swapping event.The main reasons for spouse-swapping activities are: to provide both spouses with various opportunities for sexual activities in an open and safe manner, and to avoid cheating.Participants in spouse-swapping activities felt that such activities expanded the scope of marital sexual activity without threatening the basic marital relationship.

Under the premise that all participants in such activities are voluntary, the law should never be found guilty.Because citizens have ownership of their own bodies, and have the right to use and dispose of their own bodies according to their own wishes.Such rights do not disappear with the conclusion of a marriage relationship.In the previous example, the narrator said that he thought their activities were "immoral at best, and would not lead to prison", but the actual sentence was not only "prison", but also the death penalty. This consequence must be the responsibility of the parties involved. unexpected.His judgment on the nature of such activities is based on "common sense", but the consequences are beyond his expectations, which is really unreasonable. Evaluations of the activities vary too far.

Keeping pace with the times is to reform the outdated codes of conduct and relevant laws and regulations that violate the new concepts of contemporary people, protect the people's right to create new ways of life and behavior, and make our social life more relaxed and richer. In terms of personality, it is more colorful.I believe that in addition to spouse-swapping activities, the people will create more forms of activities and lifestyles that bring happiness to people's body and mind, and the quality of people's lives will be further improved as a result.

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