Buddha crossing a predestined person: Dharma and wisdom in life

Chapter 78 Compilation of Buddhist Wisdom Proverbs
◎〓The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.

◎〓 Rather than saying that others make you suffer, it is better to say that your self-cultivation is not enough.

◎〓 If you don't worry about yourself, others will never be able to worry about you.Because you can't let go of your own heart.

◎〓 Discipline yourself well, not others.

◎〓If you don't forgive all beings, if you don't forgive all beings, you will suffer yourself.

◎〓Don't say that others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful, so what about practicing yourself?How much do you know about life?
◎〓Buddhism is an confession to one's own conscience, not for others to see.

◎〓People who do not have enough blessings will often hear right and wrong; those who have enough blessings never hear right and wrong.

◎〓Cultivation is a little bit of work.

◎〓If you practice in good times, you will never become a Buddha.

◎〓You should always be grateful to all beings who gave you adversity.

◎〓You have to accept your fate at any time, because you are human.

◎〓You must always forgive all living beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.

◎〓This world is inherently painful, without exception.

◎〓When you are happy, you have to think, this happiness is not eternal.When you are in pain, think about it, this pain is not eternal.

◎〓 Only by knowing yourself, subduing yourself, and changing yourself can you change others.

◎〓Today’s persistence will cause tomorrow’s regret.

◎〓You can have love, but don't be persistent, because separation is inevitable.

◎〓Don't waste your life on something you will regret.

◎〓When you let go, there will be no worries.

◎〓There is no discrimination in the heart, which is the real asceticism.

◎〓The first concept of learning Buddhism is to never look at the faults of all beings.You look at the faults of sentient beings, you pollute yourself forever, and it is impossible for you to practice.

◎〓If you see the faults and right and wrong of all living beings every day, you should quickly repent. This is practice.

◎〓People with serious karma always look at the faults and shortcomings of others; those who truly practice never look at the faults and shortcomings of others.

◎〓Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.

◎〓When you know confusion, you are not pitiful, but when you don't know confusion, you are the most pitiful.

◎〓 Arrogant people can be saved, but those with low self-esteem cannot be saved.

◎〓You should not be dissatisfied with others all the time, you should always criticize yourself.Dissatisfied people are suffering yourself.

◎〓All evil laws are vain, so don't be too inferior.All good dharmas are also vain, so don't be too arrogant.

◎〓When you are troubled, you have to tell yourself that all this is false, what are you troubled about?
◎〓When you have not learned Buddhism, you see that everything is not going well.After you learn Buddhism, you should see everything smoothly.

◎〓 You have to tolerate those who have different opinions from you, so that life is easier.If you keep trying to change him, it will be very painful for you.You have to learn how to endure him, and you have to learn how to tolerate him.

◎〓Acknowledging one's greatness is acknowledging one's own ignorance.

◎〓Cultivation is to correct one's wrong ideas.

◎〓 It is difficult for a doctor to heal a dying person, and it is difficult for a Buddha to save sentient beings.

◎〓 If a person cannot forgive others from the heart, then he will never feel at ease.

◎〓People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.

◎〓It only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be merciful.

◎〓When you advise others, if you don't take their self-esteem into consideration, then the best words are useless.

◎〓Do not mix your wisdom with arrogance.Do not let your modesty lack wisdom.

◎〓There is no need to look back to see who is cursing you?If a mad dog bites you, are you going to lie down and bite it back?

◎〓Being jealous of others will not bring any benefits to yourself.It is impossible to reduce the achievements of others by being jealous of others.

◎〓Never waste a second of your time thinking about anyone you don't like.

◎〓How many people will say the same sentence when they are about to leave this world, this world is really helpless and desolate!

◎〓Love is not a charity, it cannot be given casually.Feelings have no formula, no principle, no reason to follow.But people are still persistent and pursuing until death.

◎〓Please speak out your dissatisfaction and grievance with a compassionate and gentle attitude, and it will be easy for others to accept.

◎〓The one who creates opportunities is the brave.People who wait opportunity is stupid.

◎〓It is not true wisdom to be able to say but not to act.

◎〓Listen more carefully to what others have to say, and don't rush to express your own opinions.

◎〓The same bottle, why do you put poison in it?The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?
◎〓If we can’t get something, we will always think that he is beautiful, that’s because you know too little about him, and you don’t have time to spend with him.One day, after you have a deeper understanding, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined.

◎〓There is only smoothness in this world, there is no perfection.

◎〓Practice must be patient, be willing to be indifferent, and be willing to be lonely.

◎〓If you are alive for one day, you are blessed and you should cherish it.When I cry that I have no shoes, I find someone without feet.

◎〓If you pay more attention to others, you will spend less time reflecting on yourself, do you understand?
◎〓Don’t open your eyes so wide all the time. Let me ask you, after a hundred years, those same eyes will be yours.

◎〓If you want to know about the robbery of swords and soldiers in the world, you should listen to the sound of the slaughter gate in the middle of the night.Don't just blame yourself for being sick and disasters, but look at the number of sentient beings who died under your sword.

◎〓It is a great loss to oneself to hate others.

◎〓 Everyone has life, but not everyone understands life and even cherishes life.For those who do not understand life, life is a punishment for him.

◎〓People who think they own wealth are actually owned by wealth.

◎〓Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of emotional attachment can you be free.

◎〓Following the fate is not muddling along, following the rules, but doing everything and obeying the destiny.

◎〓Don’t be too sure about your own opinion, this way you will have less regret.

◎〓When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.

◎〓It is shameful to cover up one's shortcomings by means of harming others.

◎〓People in the world should be responsible to the law.Practitioners are responsible for cause and effect.

◎〓When you are poor, you use your body to give, such as sweeping the floor, sprinkling water, moving things, etc. This is also a kind of giving.

◎〓A person who is full of jealousy, who is not honest in his heart, and whose words are not correct cannot be regarded as a person with good facial features.

◎〓 Silently caring and blessing others is an invisible kind of charity.

◎〓Tell more jokes and handle things with a humorous attitude, this way life will be easier.

◎〓The way to get along with others lies in infinite tolerance.

◎〓Don’t deliberately guess what others think. If you don’t have the wisdom and experience to judge correctly, you will usually make mistakes.

◎〓To understand a person, you only need to see whether his starting point and destination are the same, and you can know whether he is sincere.

◎〓The truth of life is just hidden in the plain and tasteless.

◎〓For those who don’t take a bath, the perfume will not smell good if they rub it hard.Fame and respect is originated from true skills.Virtuous and natural fragrance.

◎〓 Instead of rejecting the fact that has already happened, it is better to accept it. This is called accepting fate.

◎〓Buddhas and Bodhisattvas only bless those who are willing to help themselves.

◎〓Adversity is a necessary process for growth. Those who are brave enough to accept adversity will grow stronger day by day.

◎〓 You should thank the person who told you about your shortcomings.

◎〓A person who can imagine for others will never be lonely.

◎〓If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as you can see the shortcomings of others, then your life will be extraordinary.

◎〓To forgive others is to leave space in your heart for maneuvering.

◎〓Time will always pass, let time flow away your troubles!

◎〓If you insist on taking simple things seriously, then you will be very painful.

◎〓 There is no cure for a person who perpetually distorts the good intentions of others.

◎〓People are not bad, they are just habits. Everyone has habits, but they are different in depth.As long as he has a heart for the Tao, forgive him if he can, and don't regard him as a bad person.

◎〓If you tell a lie, you have to make up ten lies to make up for it, why bother?

◎〓Actually, people who love beauty are just falling in love with themselves.

◎〓There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be admired.When you talk too much, others will criticize you; when you talk little, others will criticize you; when you are silent, others will still criticize you.In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.

◎〓 Those who praise us and praise us are not famous teachers.Those who can teach us and instruct us are good teachers. Only with them can we make progress.

◎〓What you have now will become someone else's with your death, so why not give it to those who really need it now?

◎〓Practice for praise, like fragrant flowers and grasses being trampled on.

◎〓To spend a day in vain, doing nothing, is like committing the crime of theft.

◎〓 Those who can keep themselves low are the real dignity.

◎〓Create a lot of karma, that is, don't hurt anyone.

◎〓Silence is the best answer to slander.

◎〓To be respectful to others is to be solemn to oneself.

◎〓If you have a selfless love, you will have everything.

◎〓Hatred can never be resolved by hatred. Only compassion can resolve hatred. This is the eternal truth.

◎〓It is better for you to accept your fate than to complain. For the unchangeable facts, you have no better way than accepting your fate.

◎〓 Don't bring your own troubles because of the ignorance and doubts of all beings.Don't hurt yourself because of the ignorance of all beings.

◎〓If others say that we are not good, don’t be angry or sad.There is no need to be happy when you say that we are good, there are good in bad, and bad in good, it depends on whether you can use it?

◎〓If you are clearly right, but others insist that you are wrong, you have to confess to others, this is what cultivation is all about.If you can endure everything, you will make progress.Even if you are clearly right, you still have to ask others for repentance, and that is practice.

◎〓When your mistakes are revealed, don't lose your temper. Don't think that being willful or noisy can hide or overcome your shortcomings.

◎〓Don’t always feel that you are very unfortunate. There are more people suffering than us in the world.

◎〓A stupid person always wants others to understand him.A wise man tries to understand himself.

◎〓Others are always right, I am always wrong, this way is less troublesome.

◎〓 Coming is accidental, leaving is inevitable.So you have to let it be if things stay still and stay still to let it be.

(End of this chapter)