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Chapter 22 The Shy Bladder

Hi, do you know your bladder?Of course I know it's part of your body, but do you really know it?Did you know that it can also have emotions and feel shy at certain moments?

Don't look at this title with weird eyes because it's not funny at all!
Some people think that a shy girl with blushing cheeks will have a unique charm.A shy boy who is quiet and reticent will appear mature and stable.But what about shy bladders?Guess what will happen if it has the problem of "shyness"!
Let's imagine a scenario together.A well-mannered man goes to a family dinner, where the host is very enthusiastic and there are many invitees.Everyone gathered together to taste wine, dance, and chat.But after drinking two glasses of champagne, the man felt the urge to pee.

He has been hesitating, unwilling to go to the bathroom, even though he knows that the master's bathroom is just around the corner from the house.

But the more consciously holding back the desire to urinate, the more unbearable it becomes.Reluctantly, he came to the bathroom, only to find that it was a public bathroom that could be shared by multiple people, and there were two people lined up outside.

How to do?How to do?He really wanted to turn around and pretend that he had gone wrong, to avoid the embarrassment of queuing here, but he saw that the person who had solved the problem came out.

He bravely entered the bathroom, stood in front of the urinal, but found that he could not urinate even a drop of urine, his bladder was very distended, and he seemed very nervous, especially when the man next to him turned his head slightly After looking at him suspiciously, he became even more nervous beyond description.

"Forget it! Let's run!" He fastened his pants and walked out of the bathroom as quickly as possible.Because the problem was not resolved, he could not continue to attend the party at all, so he had to leave here to find a "comfortable and safe" place.Finally, he found a bathroom with a single room not far away, and the single room had a door.

When he walked into this private place, he was finally released. Standing in the bathroom, he seemed to hear his bladder let out a long breath...

What's wrong with this man?Could it be something like a pathological prostate?

In fact, he is suffering from a disease called "shy bladder syndrome".

You may be puzzled, but in fact there are quite a few such cases.

Before Mr. C visited a psychologist, he didn't know that his "inability to urinate" was a kind of mental illness.

Young Mr. C has suffered from Shy Bladder Syndrome for many years.To be precise, he should have had such signs since he was 13 years old.

When he finished elementary school and went to junior high school, he found that he could not adapt to the environment here at all, and the most unadaptable thing was the long and large public toilet in the school.

Every time he went to the toilet before exercise, he found it difficult to defecate, and the more people in the toilet, the more obvious this feeling was.But the school is full of people, so many students, the rest time is concentrated in that moment, how can there be no one?

In order to avoid going to the toilet when there are many people, Mr. C asked for leave during class, but this behavior was quickly informed by the teacher to the parents.

Everyone thought that C just ran out in the name of going to the toilet because he didn't want to study.His father beat him angrily and threatened him that he would come to the school to supervise him himself, and he was not allowed to ask for leave during class time!

C is very helpless. He can't go to the toilet during get out of class, and he can't pee after class. He can only force himself not to drink water to avoid the urge to urinate.

However, this problem is also difficult to avoid.Because of excessive anxiety, he couldn't concentrate in class at all, and his final exam scores were very poor.His parents thought he had some bad friends that affected his studies, so they transferred him to another school.

However, in the new school, C still encountered the same problem.After suffering for half a year, his grades were at the bottom of the school, which made his parents very troubled.

It can be said that Mr. C spent his adolescence constantly changing schools and being criticized constantly.His parents have always complained that he is ignorant and doesn't study hard, but no one really asks him what kind of thoughts or unspeakable secrets he has.

Later, C left school early and began to make a living in the society.Shy Bladder Syndrome plagued him until one day, he opened up to a therapist.

It turned out that when he was sleeping one night when he was graduating from elementary school, he overheard the sound of his parents having sex. He just started puberty and couldn't help masturbating.But at that time, he didn't know what was going on, he just felt very ashamed.

On the one hand, C feels that this kind of behavior is wrong and shameful; on the other hand, he cannot resist the pleasure of masturbation, so he does it frequently.Therefore, when he urinates in the public toilet, he is very afraid that his classmates will find out that he is masturbating from his behavior.So, he began to avoid going to public toilets.After a while, he found that he couldn't urinate in the presence of others.

He felt very scared, and wanted to tell his parents about it, but he didn't expect that during the process of being criticized by his mother, his mother said to him: "If you continue to do this and don't study hard, be careful that I will tell you about your little things." Let me tell everyone!" Although his mother didn't say what it was, C believed that his mother had discovered it and was talking about it, and since then, his shy bladder syndrome has become more serious.

The brain-burning logic of a genius or a madman
In fact, in this world, there are still many people who have been suffering from shy bladder syndrome, but they themselves do not realize the importance of the problem, and often hide their condition because they are ashamed to speak out.

To a certain extent, everyone will encounter the problem of difficulty urinating, such as when the psychological pressure is too great, or when the body is unwell.But it's not shy bladder syndrome if it happens briefly.A really shy bladder can do a lot of harm to an individual.

The scientific name of "shy bladder syndrome" is "situational voiding disorder".A typical symptom of the disease is the inability to urinate in public toilets.As long as someone is around, I can't urinate even if I just hear the sound.In severe cases, even in their own homes, as long as there are people at home, they cannot urinate.

In fact, this is not an organic lesion of a body organ, but a psychological disease, which is a type of social phobia.Such patients will be overly nervous when urinating in the presence of people, causing anxiety, which makes the sphincter around the bladder contract completely and cannot discharge urine.

The most harmful aspect of this type of disease is that it is closely related to privacy, which makes people ashamed to speak up, and even if they want to ask for help, they will retreat because of "sorry".There are many causes of this mental illness, but most often begin in childhood, especially around the time when secondary sexual characteristics begin to develop.Sensitive children are not very clear about the ins and outs of the changes in their bodies. Some changes that do not look "good-looking" may make them suddenly become shy. At this time, their mentality is extremely vulnerable.

For example, when a boy was dawdling in the bathroom for a few minutes, the mother pushed the door in rudely and without hesitation, muttering, "What are you dawdling about? How long has it been? You don't go to school anymore." Should everyone be waiting for you?" Questions like this are likely to cast a shadow on the boy's heart.Whenever he urinates, there will always be some uneasiness and fear in his heart. His mother's nagging comes to mind, and he is very afraid that the door will be pushed open suddenly.Over time, psychology conflicts with normal physiological responses.

It is undeniable that the destructive power of shy bladder syndrome is huge, but we can completely prevent it from having such a huge destructive power.After researching those people who actively seek help, it is found that the cure rate of this disease is very high. Once you trace the source and find the small crux of the heart, it is easy to untie the knot, build self-confidence, and feel better when you urinate. Get rid of distracting thoughts and return to normal.

(End of this chapter)