The Story of Dafujin Parenting in Qing Dynasty

Chapter 23 Little Sixth Brother Jiahui 7
This law can be said to be strict, but this grandfather and his grandsons and granddaughters have explained that the eldest son is the root of the chaos in the family. If the backyard is not stable, it is difficult to stabilize the front.

There are many examples where backyards are the cause.

Meeting a powerful woman may even make your heirs bleed like rivers.

Warn the children and grandchildren not to underestimate women, many times losing at the hands of women is because of underestimation.And I found several examples of facts. If the rear is unstable, you will spend more time in the backyard and spend less time on other things.

Grandpa even told them many ways women fight, which impressed these hairy children and amazed them at the same time.

Facts have proved that the backyards of the children who received this education were relatively harmonious, and the marriages of the married girls were also well managed.

The grandfather told his eldest brother, second brother and third brother about his personal experience.

The grandfather was not the eldest son of the great-grandfather, but the son who finally won in the backyard of the great-grandfather.But the victory is also a miserable victory.The reason is that the great-grandfather doted on the concubine and the concubine, and the concubine was the wife of the great-grandfather's cousin, who was taken into the backyard by the great-grandfather after his cousin died in the war.complete
After all, such things were very common at the time, and no one could say anything.But this aunt is a skilled person. Her previous son died of illness during the war, and now she can only rely on her great-grandfather to give birth to a son as soon as possible.

At the beginning, she was very respectful to her grandmother, and her grandmother didn't make things difficult for her.After the woman gave birth to her son, she slowly began to change, and her husband became less and less considerate.

In fact, this woman aimed at the position of head wife from the beginning.

In this struggle between wives and concubines, the eldest son died, and the great-grandfather was reprimanded by the elders to terminate it.

From the moment the eldest son died, the great-grandmother's heart for the great-grandfather was completely cold. She knew that the younger son would not be able to keep it going on like this. After all, the sons of the other two concubines of the great-grandfather were also folded in the backyard. , only one sick concubine daughter survived.

Her body was hit, and her life expectancy was short. She spent five years planning, and she didn't hide these things from her grandfather.

In this way, the great-grandmother killed the great-grandfather first, and then at the price of her own life, accused the concubine born of the aunt of murdering the aunt's mother. The ancestral hall.

Great-grandmother knew very well that there were also elders in the clan who were attracted by this aunt, and she estimated that this matter might only suppress them for a few years, so she cut off the son's path to succession.

It turned out not to be as great-grandmother had expected. Not long after the funeral of great-grandmother expired, the mother and son were released.

However, many things can be done in three years. With the help of my mother's family, my grandfather gave all of my great-grandmother's dowry to my grandmother. The family's property is basically in the hands of that aunt, and my grandfather is not in a hurry to take it. If you come out, you can't get it back.

Directly reported to the elders of the clan and separated the family in the name of fulfilling their parents' last wish. They joined the army at the age of 11, and they couldn't find anyone when they came out. They had help from their wives in the army. My grandfather was young and mature, he was straightforward and righteous, and he was ruthless on the battlefield, so he quickly emerged.

(End of this chapter)