The Story of Dafujin Parenting in Qing Dynasty

Chapter 35 Returning to the Door 2
"Emiang, my daughter didn't touch her hands at all in this homecoming gift, it was all arranged by the uncle. Don't worry, Erniang, I will guard my heart."

Er Niang looked at me with the eyes of my daughter who has finally grown up: "There are also things in the tent, don't be too rigid, this is also very important, if you are too reserved, you will not be in harmony, and you should take the initiative when you should.

It wasn't your grandmother who kept Mrs. Song by your side for two or three years before. You know her background, and you know who trained you before.

Men just like to be dignified outside and elegant inside.You have to take care of it yourself. "The last sentence was what Er Niang whispered in my ear.

Although it was a bit embarrassing to talk about the things in the room with Er Niang, but I still nodded seriously, Er Niang saw that I had listened, and nodded in relief.

Mrs. Song is the out-of-date oiran that my uncle found in Qinhuai River, and my uncle just needed them to develop the family business. He needed these brothel girls, so he was brought back by my uncle. Mrs. Song was the best of that batch. When I came back, I took it to my grandmother's residence in Huangzhuang to train the rules in the mansion before coming to me.

In addition to teaching Hezhuo the things in the tent, he also teaches Hezhuo dance, in order to make Hezhuo more temperament and charm.

This is not unusual, most of the women in the palace of Emperor Kangxi, especially the concubines who are wrapped in clothes, have undergone similar training.

In fact, from my point of view, Mrs. Song is a beautiful woman, she is a woman with beauty in her bones.

"Also, Concubine Hui entered the palace in her early years and protected the uncle from growing up safely. It can be seen that she is a powerful one.

Comparing my thoughts, all ten of us tied together are not as good as her, so we must be sincere and filial in front of the empress,
The empress will feel your sincerity, and so will the men. "

"Those people in your backyard, don't take it too seriously, and don't take it too seriously.

The most important thing is the man's heart. The women in the backyard rely on the man's heart, so they will work harder than you and be more open.

You give them a lot of what you should give them as a Fujin. Of course, your own things are reserved for your own children, so don't take them out foolishly.

If there is a woman in the backyard who is pregnant, you must not hurt your offspring, and you don't have to be generous and considerate to help her have a baby.

Treat it with a normal mind, especially if you haven't stood still, don't touch it, let the people in the brother's office handle it. "

"Your priority right now is to take good care of your body, cultivate your relationship with Elder Brother, and be filial to Concubine Hui." That's how mothers are. They worry about their children's poor lives, and wish they could pour all their experience into them.

Many of them were said to me after the draft, but it is harder to say than to do. Only by doing it can you experience all the flavors of it.

Although I don't have a Taoist partner in the cultivation world, I have been in love and married in my first life, and I know a little about men's thoughts, and I have my own experience in managing marriage.

But there is a monogamous system, although stealing cats and seductive foxes are unavoidable, but there are not so many intrigues on weekdays.

It's different here, there are many legal third parties, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will often intersect in your marriage, and there is also the relationship between families, especially I married the future Daqian, the eldest son of the emperor, who will be married in the future Zhu'er, who has been imprisoned for 26 years, is even more complicated.

But we and Zhuo are not ordinary people, she is a monk, and now she has reached the middle level of foundation building, and her life expectancy will be 300 years in the foundation building period, so the marriage of dozens of years is not all she has, it is more normal.

(End of this chapter)