i'm really rich

Chapter 198
In the next few days, He Yuan kept chasing relatives away.

Fortunately, after having a car, the itinerary along the way is much more convenient.

During the period, there were no things that were pleasant to hear and bullshit happened.

At least He Yuan and his family didn't show off or compare each other.

At most, after knowing that He Yuan bought the car, some people went out to have a look, commented on the performance of the car, and then complimented He Jianhua, saying that his son is promising and can buy such a good car.

Every time at this time, He Jianhua put on a straight face and said, "What's the point? You know how to spend money all day long. If you have this money, you might as well buy a domestic one. It sits big and drives. And comfortable", blah blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

During the period, He Jianhua took some time to chat with He Yuan alone.

The two father and son hid on the balcony, habitually, each of them lit a cigarette.

After taking a sip, He Jianhua glanced at He Yuan and frowned: "Smoking is not good for your health. You should smoke less in the future. I think you used to smoke one or two packs. If you continue to smoke like this, what will happen to your health?" I can bear it, what if I don’t have a child in the future.”

"It's much less now, less than one pack a day." He Yuan flicked off the cigarette ash and said.

Ever since he decided to quit smoking, He Yuan began to consciously control his smoking.

But how should I put it, He Yuan has not yet found a reason to quit smoking.In life, he is not a very self-disciplined person. If he doesn't smoke, he can't help but want to do something to kill time.

Before, Tian Rui recommended to him to watch short videos, or play games, or go out to play mahjong...all of which were rejected by He Yuan.Compared with smoking, the addictive nature of entertainment is more harmful. He Yuan didn't want to fall into a bigger pit just after he came out of the smoke pit.

"You can drink a little wine, as long as you don't drink too much, it's better to quit smoking, don't be like your uncle in the future... Look at him, he was a person who couldn't leave his cigarettes at the beginning, but now you let him smoke, he doesn't I will pick one up for you." He Jianhua said.

"Well, if I get busy after the next year, I'll try to quit smoking." He Yuan said.

Seeing that He Yuan agreed, He Jianhua stopped arguing with him on this issue, and instead asked other questions: "By the way, what is the situation at Xiaorui's family?"

When Tian Rui was here before, the family members were very restrained and didn't ask questions.

He Jianhua pulled He Yuan aside when he had some time in private now, and began to ask about the situation of Tian Rui's family.

"It's nothing, it's probably..." He Yuan briefly explained the situation of Tian Rui's family.

What he said was basically what Tian Rui told him before.

As for He Yuan himself, he didn't have a detailed and in-depth understanding of it, and he didn't care much about it.

After He Jianhua finished listening, he squinted his eyes and smoked there.

After a while, he said: "Then does her family have any brothers, sisters or something?"

"No, she seems to be an only child too." He Yuan recalled.

"That's good." He Jianhua heaved a sigh of relief.

"What's wrong?" He Yuan asked.

"If there are other children in the family, it will be more troublesome." He Jianhua said.

"Huh?" He Yuan looked puzzled. He still didn't know that falling in love has anything to do with whether the other party has brothers or sisters in his family.

"Do you know, Uncle Xiong?" He Jianhua asked.

"Well, his dad in my elementary school?" He Yuan remembered.

After all, it is a small city, and after walking two steps, you will meet a few relatives.

For example, Uncle Xiong in He Jianhua's mouth is the father of He Yuan's elementary school classmate and He Jianhua's former comrade-in-arms when he was a soldier.

"His son got married two years ago, and the woman asked for a bride price of 20 yuan," He Jianhua said.

"20? It shouldn't be a lot, right?" He Yuan scratched his head.

Although He Yuan didn't know how much the bride price was in his hometown, the 20 yuan was just less than his annual salary.You can get a daughter-in-law for 20 yuan, He Yuan doubts that there is such a good thing in this world.

"What are you thinking, do you know how much the house price is here now?" He Jianhua glared at him and said.

"Five or six thousand?" He Yuan thought for a while and responded.

Originally, in the first half of last year, the housing prices in my hometown were almost over [-], but since the second half of the year, the housing prices have been falling.Although He Yuan didn't understand it carefully, he also heard Tian Rui mention it.

"Now it has dropped to more than 4000. You can buy a slightly older house for two to three thousand." He Jianhua puffed out the smoke ring, and then smiled at himself, "Besides, in our small place, you think it is In BJ, the per capita income here is only about two to three thousand yuan, and the kind of supermarket cashier, helper, etc., including board and lodging, is only a few hundred yuan a month."

He Yuan heard about this matter from Lu Huihui.

She said that if board and lodging were provided, the salary of an ordinary helper would only be 800 yuan a month.

And the accommodation in the small county is also very cheap, you can rent a well-decorated three-bedroom and one living room for about a thousand yuan.He Yuan rented such an expensive house before, if others know about it, they must feel that he is being taken advantage of.

"20, just save it and you'll have it." He Yuan still didn't think it was a difficult task. After all, there are so many opportunities to make money these years. More than that.

In the final analysis, the reason why people feel that money is hard to earn is that they are incapable, do not want to work hard, and expect the pie to fall from the sky, which just falls into their own mouth...why don't they make you die.

"The woman's family has a younger brother." He Jianhua said lightly.

"Ok?"

"The gift money was given to her younger brother, and then her younger brother got married and borrowed money from them. I borrowed [-] yuan, but I haven't paid it back yet. A while ago, your Uncle Xiong was sick and there was no money in the account. Let them pay back some money. Let me just say, all the money was given to her brother, there is no reason for him to pay back the money, I will make you angry..." He Jianhua shook his head.

"Isn't the dowry money used to buy a house for the couple?" He Yuan blurted out.

In my impression, my married friends basically use the gift money as a house purchase fund.After all, housing prices are so expensive these days, if you don't eat the old, and don't spend money everywhere, you can't afford the housing prices.

"So, if there are other children in the family, especially those with older brothers and younger brothers, you must not look for them." He Jianhua put out the cigarette butts in the flower bed on the balcony and put his hands in his pockets.

He Yuan really doesn't know about this kind of thing.

The circles he came into contact with were basically single children.

And generally speaking, the family conditions are quite good.

Of course, it may also be because He Yuan didn’t get to know it deeply. After all, most people who work in the workplace wrap their bags brightly. Even if they owe 10,000+ on their credit cards, they still have to buy the latest bags and use the best apples. cell phone.

"Xiaorui's family should be okay." He Yuan said.

In fact, He Yuan is not disgusted with helping his family members, just like their family, if someone in the family has an accident, the other families will reach out to help.Just like what happened to Uncle He Yuan back then, if Uncle He didn't help, Uncle probably would have just come out of prison now.

But no matter how you help, there must be a limit. You help me, I help you, there is a back and forth.Like the one in Uncle Xiong's family, who used his own money to buy a house for the other brother's marriage, and made himself ill and had no money for medical treatment, and the other party didn't appreciate it... This kind of woman really can't marry, at least He Yuan doesn't want to find No matter how beautiful this kind of woman is.

Fortunately, when He Yuan went to Tian Rui's house before, he didn't find that she had any brothers.Moreover, Tian Rui's parents also look good, very enthusiastic, and never ask He Yuan about this or that.

No wonder He Yuan felt very comfortable when he was with Tian Rui before. It turns out that her family members are also like this.

Thinking about it, if the family environment is not good, it will also have a great impact on the children's personality.Tian Rui who grew up in that situation would definitely not be what He Yuan is now.

"What do her parents do?"

"Is it a water conservancy project? I remember she said before that she seems to have to run around with the construction team often. But she has retired in the past few years and is living at home."

"Is there a pension, medical insurance or something?"

"Yes..." He Yuan hesitated.

He Jianhua's questions were too detailed, but He Yuan had never understood these things carefully.

"It's okay if you have one, but the worst thing is that you don't have it. This person gets sick easily when he gets old. After a serious illness, no matter how good a family is, it will be ruined." He Jianhua sighed, seeing He Yuan's expression of displeasure Looking thoughtful, He Jianhua straightened his face and said, "Don't underestimate illness, it's very precious now. We're okay, we have medical insurance, and we can be reimbursed if we get sick, like that so-and-so, you know, just Because of an illness, I went to the hospital to stay for half a year, the house at home was sold, and now I’m still living in someone else’s house.”

What He Jianhua was talking about was a neighbor from his grandma's side. He Yuan used to pass by there often when he was a child, and that person stuffed fruit for He Yuan.However, it has been more than ten years, and He Yuan almost forgot it. When He Jianhua mentioned it, he remembered it.

He Yuan straightened up after hearing what his father said.

In fact, it's not that he doesn't know that getting sick is very expensive these days. Like before, one of his subordinates caught a cold. At that time, the business was busy, and that subordinate was the main force of that business.But she had just started working at the time and was very poor. After the dinner, He Yuan bought her two boxes of cold medicine, hoping that she would get well soon... In the end, it cost He Yuan more than 100 yuan for those two boxes of cold medicine .

He Yuan's first reaction was, are cold medicines so expensive now?
When he was going to school outside, when he had a cold, he would buy a box of white and black, which seemed to cost only a dozen yuan.Lie in bed and sleep after eating, and you will be fine the next day.

After a round of questioning, He Jianhua got the information he wanted.

On the other hand, He Yuan, who was at the side, was in a daze when asked, and he didn't understand many things in detail.

Is it so troublesome to fall in love now?
Feeling so tired of falling in love, He Yuan suddenly doesn't want to fall in love anymore.

"Overall, it's not bad, but her family is from a rural area, which is a bit troublesome...By the way, she works in a hotel, right? Then you add up the two and see if you want to change jobs. The hotel industry is a bit unstable. Or you can ask your brother and the others to see if they can do anything." He Jianhua said.

He Yuan's aunt's son contracted a hotel at the foot of the mountain, and he has been doing this for more than 20 years.

"Okay, let me ask later." He Yuan said.

In fact, He Yuan didn't think there was anything unstable about it. After all, there are many people who rely on the mountain to eat in his hometown. There are hotels everywhere on the mountain and down the mountain. They say they are working, but in fact they are just messing around. If the home doesn't work, just change to another one.

"By the way, when are you going to get married?" He Jianhua asked again.

"Married?" He Yuan blinked.

"Why, haven't we talked yet?"

"No... isn't this a bit too fast?" He Yuan said.

Only then did he confirm that the relationship was not long, half a year hadn't arrived yet.

He Yuan felt a little rushed to start talking about marriage so soon.

"You are not young anymore. After this year, you will be 28. When your child comes out, you will be almost 30. Besides, Xiaorui is about the same age as you, right? It is not good for your health to have a child at [-]. What's more, I will retire at this time next year, and while I can still walk, I will help you take care of your children, so you can go to work with peace of mind, and you don't have to worry about family affairs." He Jianhua said earnestly.

He Yuan's family usually counts their actual age, not their false age.

Calculated according to the false age, He Yuan is already 29, rounded up to thirty. Having a child in your 30s is definitely considered late marriage and late childbearing in my hometown.

He Yuan was dumbfounded.

Before this, I was still asking about Tian Rui's family. Why did they talk about getting married and having a baby in a blink of an eye?
"This...don't be in such a hurry, right? We get along pretty well now, and I want to wait another year or two..." He Yuan subconsciously said.

"Since we had a good chat, let's set the date of marriage first." He Jianhua interrupted He Yuan.

He Yuan still wants to argue with reason.

Although the relationship between him and Tian Rui has been confirmed, He Yuan still can't accept the marriage so soon.

After all, among the friends around me who are getting married, which one hasn't been talked about for three to five years.A little shorter, like Yuyu, have been talking for at least two years.

He and Tian Rui haven't been together for half a year, and they are going to get married so soon, He Yuan feels like Pengpeng, when he meets a woman on a blind date, he immediately knocks her out and brings her into the wedding room, like a primitive person.

He Yuan couldn't accept it.

"We are still young, and we still have to think about work..." He Yuan thought of a reason, "Besides, our jobs are not stable now, and we don't even know where we will be in the future. When our work stabilizes, then ..."

"I'll talk about work later." He Jianhua interrupted He Yuan again, and said, "Get married and start a business, why do you put it first? It means that you have to get married before you can start a career. Your work belongs to work, and you get married first, and then you get married. After giving birth to a child, bring the child to us, and you can work hard on your own.”

Although he felt that his father's words were unreasonable, He Yuan didn't know how to refute.

"Life is so stressful now, how can I have the mood to have a baby." He Yuan smiled wryly.

No, the cost of having a child is very high these days.

A few days ago, Lao Cheng posted a photo of her daughter in Moments, saying that his daughter graduated from a "PHP" course.

He Yuan's first reaction was, shit, your daughter is so young, she has already started to learn "PHP". Do you want to work in the Internet industry like her father?
In the end, after asking Lao Cheng, I found out what it was elementary natural spelling.

Then He Yuan zoomed in on the photo and took a look, and found that the certificate was all in English...

He Yuan was a little dazed at the time, he remembered that Lao Cheng's daughter had just started kindergarten.Are the kindergarten children so powerful now?
Before, Lao Cheng and He Yuan cried about being poor, saying that he would spend hundreds of thousands of dollars a year on his daughter.He's only in kindergarten now, and when his child is older, he doesn't know how much it will cost.

He Yuan doesn't think that his children should be like Lao Cheng, who wants them to receive BJ-style elite education.

After all, these days, if you spend millions on your child, you may not be able to earn back those millions when he comes back to school.

What's more, according to Lao Cheng's standards, it's not a matter of several million. It is estimated that when she grows up, Lao Cheng will spend at least tens of millions on her.

As expected of a person who has more than a dozen suites in BJ, he does things with such grandeur.

He Yuan is no match for Lao Cheng, but under limited conditions, he also hopes that his children can receive a better education.Even if they are not as good as Lao Cheng and the others, it is acceptable to be a little worse than them.

This is up to He Yuan himself.

However, given He Yuan's current conditions, he feels that he is still a long way from this ideal...

"The poor and the poor live, the blessed and the blessed live. You, sometimes you just like to dig into the horns. I told you before that you are much better than other people of your age. You are [-] to [-] a month. You used to Those classmates are only two or three thousand now, what are you not satisfied with?" He Jianhua said, "Don't always look at the people above, but also look at the people below. Don't always stay up late, smoke, it is harmful to your body. No, look at your body shape, what a healthy guy you used to be, now you are fat like this, too fat is not good, you will suffer from a lot of diseases, you should also lose weight, now you are a little overweight."

He Yuan actually wanted to say that when he came back last year, he weighed 170 catties.

After this period of fitness, he has lost weight to more than 120, hovering between [-] and [-].

However, compared with the previous one hundred and four, there is indeed a big gap.What's more, He Yuan is a standard fat person who puts on his face first, and the flesh grows on his face, so he looks a little fatter than his actual weight.

"What are my qualifications, don't you know? With my education, if I hadn't worked hard enough, I would probably be riding a battery car and delivering food on the street now." He Yuan rubbed his nose and smiled self-deprecatingly .

When he was in school, He Yuan had no idea about majors.

They are key schools, and what everyone thinks about is which good university to get into.

The minimum is to start with two books, what kind of one, heavy books, Chinese University of Hong Kong, overseas universities...

When the results came out, He Yuan found out that he had only taken a junior college course, and he was still a second college student, and suddenly felt that the whole sky had collapsed.

But after he came out of the school and got promoted step by step, He Yuan felt that education is not that important.Like the employees under him at that time, there were several high-achieving students such as graduate students, and they were working under the hands of one of his junior college students.

And they haven't done it very well.

This made He Yuan find a sense of superiority.

But He Yuan didn't realize the importance of academic qualifications until he entered a larger platform.

Indeed, academic qualifications are not everything. How well you will live in the future depends more on your own efforts than just relying on a paper diploma.People who have not graduated from elementary school also have many people who become bosses and earn a lot of money.

However, no one tells you how much effort you can save if you have an extra degree.

Take the salary for example. When He Yuan entered the industry, it was 6000 yuan a month. After working for about a year, he was still working hard from morning to night. With special hard work, it finally rose to [-] to [-] yuan.As a result, when he was co-renting, he had a roommate who had just graduated from the School of Finance of Erben, and the starting price was [-] yuan. If various subsidies were added, it would be at least [-] to [-] yuan a month.

Just like this, he still felt that he was underpaid. He said that he mainly didn’t like the atmosphere of big companies. Like some of his classmates, they went to PetroChina and Sinopec. The basic salary starts at [-]. During the Mid-Autumn Festival, the moon cake coupons are thousands of dollars.

If you enter some big companies, you can get a monthly salary of [-] to [-] a year.

This is without much effort.

At least he doesn't need to be like He Yuan, who can only sleep for four hours a day from morning to night, and is so busy that he doesn't even have sex.

Moreover, the career ceiling of these people is much higher than that of He Yuan.

In a situation like He Yuan's, in a large company, the annual salary of 30 is basically the end.In the future, if you work on your qualifications and performance, you may be able to get a 50 yuan.And those who come out of heavy capital, with an annual salary of 50, are only the middle class of others.

For example, in a department above He Yuan, there is Bai Fumei who has returned from overseas as the editor-in-chief, with an annual salary of 50 yuan, and this can only be regarded as a middle-level management within the entire company...

This is still the basic salary, without the commission, if the commission is added, it will be at least a million a year.

Many times, a person working hard in the present moment cannot receive results in the present moment.

It was as if He Yuan was working hard there when he was taking two thousand and four, but he couldn't see any results.

But what about after a while?
If He Yuan didn't work hard at the beginning, would he have been able to get a monthly salary of [-] to [-] to [-]?

Similarly, if those students who paid a lot of money did not work hard in school, can they get such a high salary after they come out?

He Yuan has missed many opportunities, and he doesn't want to miss the next one.

He only knew that his hard work today was just to prevent him from saying, "If I was... now..." such words.

If I bought a house then, I wouldn't have to work so hard now.

If I had studied better then, my salary would be higher now.

If I worked hard at the time, I would be a top management now...

He Yuan doesn't want to recall the past, but just wants to grasp the present.

Children without umbrellas must learn to run hard.

(End of this chapter)