Inside and Outside the Siege: A Woman's Battle for Marriage

Chapter 7 Pragmatism is the primary condition for work (1)
Values ​​= the way of life
Chen Jing leaned against the window and flirted on the phone.After repeated failures and hard work, she finally got rich recently. She is also a man in his 40s. His net worth is not as prominent as that of Zhang Zhonghou, not even Zeng Deyi. For her, she was satisfied, and she finally got on the last train of sugar daddy during school - if she didn't get on it, she would be graduating soon.

Chen Jing, who got rich, began to change her face from head to toe, completely changed her image, got rid of all the cheap clothes, accompanied by Zhang Lina, went shopping for several rounds, and bought a round of shopping spree. .Bought back fashionable and high-end clothes, shoes, bags, and cosmetics.

Once the image has changed, the person will be full of energy, elated, speak loudly, and have full confidence.She often bought snacks back to the dormitory to eat, and invited them out for dinner.

Chen Jing began to answer calls from men in the dormitory without any hesitation, laughing wantonly, flirting loudly, like an escort girl sitting on the stage.She seemed to be telling the nation that she had managed to get rich.

Zhang Lina was learning to drive recently, and she said that Zeng Deyi was going to buy her a car.When she was on the phone, her husband would call her long and short, sweet talk, and extremely nasty, as if Zeng Deyi was really her husband.

For these, Xu Qiuying has always maintained the four no principles: no discussion, no evaluation, no envy, and no participation.

This Saturday morning, there were only Zhang Lina, Chen Jing, and Xu Qiuying in the dormitory.Zhang Lina suddenly asked Xu Qiuying: "Qiuying, have you dealt with Zhang Zhonghou?"

Xu Qiuying already had some contempt for Zhang Lina and the others' words and deeds. When she saw her asking this question, she felt even more disgusted, so she said angrily, "What is my Zhang Zhonghou? It's inexplicable. I'm not interested in old men at all."

Zhang Lina chuckled and said, "Tch, who is interested in old men? We are all interested in money."

Xu Qiuying threw a sentence: "You talk about money. For money, can you compromise?"

"What is humiliation? It should be called grievance and begging for money!" Zhang Lina patted Xu Qiuying on the shoulder and said with a smile, "Qiuying, don't be stupid. These days, why are you pretending to be innocent? Isn't money good? In this world , only money is the most trustworthy, and everything else is fake." He turned his head and smiled at Chen Jing, "Chen Jing, don't you think so?"

Chen Jing nodded and said, "That's right. If you have trouble with anything, don't have trouble with money." After finishing speaking, she sighed and said, "I now realize that money is really a good thing." She climbed onto her bed and fell on the ground. On the bed, he muttered to himself again, "Money is really a good thing, a good thing..."

Zhang Lina said, "Chen Jing, how much does your guy give you every month now?"

Chen Jing said proudly: "10000."

"It's similar to mine." Zhang Lina suddenly remembered something, took out a "Nursing Agreement" from the desk and said, "By the way, Chen Jing, you have to sign a contract with him."

Chen Jing stretched out her head and asked, "What contract?"

"The agreement between you and him." Zhang Lina handed over the "Nurture Agreement" as she spoke.

After Chen Jing finished reading, she smiled: "Well, it's very detailed. But it shouldn't be necessary between me and him, right?"

"It's not a question of whether you can use it or not. It's about gentlemen who have their words first and restrain each other so that they don't get into conflicts sometimes." Zhang Lina said tactfully, "Men always eat what's in the bowl and stare at the pot. You should be careful and be realistic. It's better, don't always be our women who suffer." He handed the "Nursing Agreement" to Xu Qiuying and said, "Qiuying, take a look too, it will be useful when the time comes."

Xu Qiuying took the two pieces of paper suspiciously, glanced at them, and was immediately dumbfounded.

nurturing agreement
Party A: Zeng Deyi
Party B: Zhang Lina
In order to maintain the relationship between Party A and Party B, protect their respective interests, and not affect their respective study, life, work and family, after careful consideration and friendly negotiation between Party A and Party B, the following agreement is hereby formulated and abided by:

1. In order to facilitate Party B's study and living, Party A provides Party B with a house.It is required to have at least one bedroom and one living room, with corresponding furniture and home appliances and other supporting facilities, and the location should be near the university (Haitian University) where Party B is studying.

2. Party A shall regularly pay Party B living expenses of RMB 10000 (￥[-]) per month.Unless Party A is willing to take the initiative to donate, Party B shall not ask Party A for additional fees and gifts for any other reasons.

3. Party B is not allowed to fall in love, find another boyfriend, make friends of the opposite sex indiscriminately during the foster care period, and is not allowed to have sexual relations with any other men except Party A (hugging and kissing are not allowed). Once found, Party A will Immediately terminate this agreement and have the right to demand compensation from Party B for all economic losses.

4. Party A requires Party B to accompany Party A at least every Friday night to Sunday night (except special circumstances such as examination period, menstruation period, and illness period).Party B is also obliged to accompany Party A at other times under the premise of not delaying Party B's study.

5. Party A and Party B are only male and female friends during the contract period, and Party B has no obligation to bear children for Party A, so Party B can ask Party A to take the initiative to take contraceptive measures.In case of any accident, Party A shall bear the medical expenses and nutrition expenses of the abortion (the expenses shall be reimbursed on an actual basis).

6. Party B shall not interfere with Party A's private life in any form, including Party A making other girlfriends, and not calling Party A's home at will.However, if Party B is infected with sexually transmitted diseases or other diseases due to Party A's unclean sexual behavior, Party A will bear all medical expenses, nutrition expenses and related economic losses.

7. Based on the voluntary principle of both parties, Party B has the priority to become Party A's professional mistress after graduating from university.The specific situation depends on the development of the relationship between the two, and a related agreement will be drawn up separately, and the specific details are out of the scope of this agreement.

8. This agreement is in duplicate. Both parties A and B are obliged to keep it secret, otherwise all consequences will be at their own risk.

The above agreement is hoped that Party A and Party B will abide by it together, and each other should also take care, pity, considerate and understand each other.

Signature of Party A: Zeng Deyi
Signature of Party B: Zhang Lina
Zhang Lina put the "Nursing Agreement" into the desk and said: "Qiu Ying, Chen Jing, please don't talk nonsense, we are good friends, so I just showed it to you."

Chen Jing said, "Don't worry, who's talking about you?"

Xu Qiuying also said: "This is your private matter, we will not talk nonsense."

Zhang Lina said with a wry smile: "Don't think I'm too realistic, that's how real life is. We can't change the reality, we can only adapt to it."

Xu Qiuying didn't say anything, but her heart was full of embarrassment.For money, has the world really deteriorated to such a state?Can women really be so naked?Is it really possible to have sex with any man without love?It's just unbelievable.

To be honest, although she never made any remarks, she looked down on people like Zhang Lina, Zhang Ting, and Chen Jing from the bottom of her heart.She looked down on all the depraved female college students.In her heart, she also despises the small cars queuing up to pick up female college students at the school gate.She feels that people need personality and dignity to live in the world, and they need some correct values ​​and ideals. You can't talk about money in everything, and you can't put money first in everything.If one is completely a slave to money, what is the point of living in this world?
But after thinking about it carefully, she felt that what they said made some sense.In this world, money is very important. Although she hasn't tasted that money is omnipotent, she has already tasted that without money, she can't do anything.Among other things, her annual tuition fees are all borrowed by her parents. In order to borrow hundreds of dollars from relatives and friends, her father asked her grandpa to sue her grandma every time.Every time she starts school, she sees her father's sad face full of vicissitudes, and she knows how difficult it is to have no money.

But do you change your values ​​because of this?Do you want to change the way you conduct yourself?Can you not have dignity and personality?I can not do it.Xu Qiuying said in her heart.

Refuse not to be sloppy
Zhang Zhonghou pondered over Zeng Deyi's words in his heart, and felt that what he said was right, his speed was indeed too slow.If this continues, Xu Qiuying may not be able to be dealt with in half a year.Come to think of it, he has to pick up the pace.

Just do it.When learning English on Saturday, Zhang Zhonghou gritted his teeth, took the opportunity to grab Xu Qiuying's hand and said, "Xiao Xu, you are so beautiful, I like you so much."

Xu Qiu felt as if he had been drenched in boiling water, and quickly shook off Zhang Zhonghou's hand, and said in panic, "Mr. Zhang...don't be joking."

Zhang Zhonghou said: "It's not a joke, it's true... I like you. I've never been so fascinated by any girl before."

In order to make Zhang Zhonghou completely give up, Xu Qiuying resolutely expressed her attitude: "Mr. Zhang, you are a married person, don't say such things to girls again. I am not interested in married men."

Zhang Zhonghou tried to hold Xu Qiuying's hand again and said, "Love and marriage are two different things. In our generation, there is only marriage, not love."

Xu Qiuying has seen it in magazines a long time ago. Married men lie to little girls, and they like to start talking about their own marriages. Why do I have an unhappy marriage, I am living in the depths of marriage, and I want to break out of the siege Lah, etc., in order to win the sympathy of the little girl.snort!I can't be fooled by you!
"I'm sorry, Mr. Zhang, whether it's marriage or love, I'm not interested in this topic at all. Really." Xu Qiuying said bluntly, "Stop thinking about it."

(End of this chapter)