The night is glazed with warm light

Chapter 70 She is suppressing her emotions.

After the two returned to Fengshan, Mogu told Kate what happened during this time.

Including Lu Qingnuan who was able to leave Fengshan at the age of 15 and then entered a noble school, but after a few years, he didn't have a single friend.

Including when her parents divorced and left her alone half a year ago, she locked herself in the room except for eating and drinking, and didn't speak for almost a month.

Including that she has made three friends recently, but they are not close.

Including when she met Gu Yan.

Including when she quarreled with Lu Qing and found out that her name was not on the Lu family account.

Including her mother, when she needed it most, because of work, she refused to visit her.

But the most emphatic thing is Ye Lizhi.In Lu Qingnuan's heart, it is like dawn.

He also told Kate about her changes and behavior after meeting Ye Lizhi.

Hearing Ye Lizhi's name, Kate's eyes flickered.

Carefully record these one by one, and then stare at those pages, meditating.

Recalling the soft color on Lu Qingnuan's face when he was holding the pendant.

Kate already had her own judgment in mind.

His eyes are serious and his tone is gentle
"From Mr. Mu's statement, I can make some judgments for the time being.

You know, people with mild depression usually have symptoms of low mood.

Expressed as gloomy, unhappy, loss of interest.

Lowered self-esteem, feelings of worthlessness, helplessness, and worthlessness can also be added to the low mood.

And accompanied by self-blame and guilt, decreased active speech, weakened social skills and so on.

Ms. Lu was diagnosed with mild depression when she was 15 years old.

These symptoms are common in patients with mild depression.

This is also the reason why I didn't directly tell Ms. Lu my real identity at the beginning, because she wouldn't have too many conversations with me in an unfamiliar situation. "Kate looked at him.

"A person's ability to bear is limited. This year, Ms. Lu suffered several heavy blows.

After her parents' divorce, she felt abandoned.This will make her feel like a person who is not worth cherishing and has no value.

The dispute between her and Mr. Lu deepened her sense of worthlessness, and she deeply felt the pain of being abandoned.

During this time, she fell in love with a gentleman named Ye Lizhi and longed to be close to him.So she bought a house, bought a shop.

However, she was blinded in a car accident. Even if the doctor made it clear that there was a great possibility of recovery, it still brought a lot of blows, and the impact on her was undoubtedly profound.

Usually, when we face our lover, we will try to show our best side in front of him.

Then, let's think back to before Miss Lu was 15 years old, in order to get the love of her parents, she was always obedient.

He was imprisoned in Fengshan for 15 years without any resistance. "

Speaking of this, Kate paused for a while, put her elbows on her knees, and clasped her hands, giving Mo Gu some time to think.

Then he continued:
"Let's go back to the present.

Ms. Lu began to regain her composure the next afternoon when she learned that she was blind.

This is obviously not normal.

Usually, when people are subjected to similar disasters, they must be very painful, and accompanied by extreme irritability and emotional loss.

He even loses his temper with himself, and loses his temper with those around him.

However, Ms. Lu didn't. Should we think that she has extraordinary perseverance, or should we think...she just suppressed her emotions? "

Kate looked at Mo Gu with infectious blue eyes.

Mu Gu was silent.

Kate looked directly at him quietly for a moment and continued, "I think it should be the latter. Miss Lu is getting along with that Mr. Lu carefully. She is worried that her collapsed and out-of-control appearance will be seen by the one she loves. She is also afraid of causing trouble to that person. .

So she was trying to suppress her emotions.It's just occasional sarcastic remarks to the close maid.From this point of view, perhaps the nightmare two days ago was a sharp thorn that punctured the balloon. "

Kate's words stopped here, and he felt that Mo Gu would be able to figure it out.

Mu Gu didn't say anything, just spit out a few words "What should I do?"

"She needs a sense of security." Kate spread her hands "to make her believe that she will not be abandoned again."

"How?" Mu Gu raised his eyes.

"Look at that Mr. Ye." Kate said, "Depressed patients need to relieve their guilt and find the meaning of living in this world and the value of survival. Obviously, that Mr. Ye can give her these."

"So?" Mu Gu raised his eyebrows

Kate didn't answer, but looked at him and mentioned someone "Do you know John Mill?"

Mo Gu just looked at him.

Kate smiled, "Bentham's utilitarianism is very famous in the philosophy circle, and Mill's father was Bentham's disciple, so Mill was also a young disciple.

A genius, he learned Latin at the age of eight, later wrote a history of Rome, and at twenty..."

Kate spread her hands. "He's having a nervous breakdown."

"He fell into depression for five years, until he was 25 years old, he came out of depression. This is also due to the fact that he met his wife, they fell in love, and lived happily ever after. It was also under the influence of his wife that he determined to perfect utilitarianism .”

After finishing speaking, Kate put down his hand that he used to raise in the air when he told things, and he smiled and looked at Mo Gu. "Although Ms. Lu is not like Mi Er, who has entered into a nervous breakdown due to an overactive brain, we might as well help her in the same way,
Ms. Lu almost grew up in an environment without love, so what she lacks, we should give her as much as possible. "

"So?" Mu Gu repeated those two words.

"This is the most effective way at present." Kate spread her hands.

"I don't want to tell him about her depression." It's the same as getting sympathy.

Kate couldn't deny it. "She needs someone to take care of her."

(End of this chapter)