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"Do you know who our captain Wu is? What right do you have to dictate here?"

Finally found an opportunity to attack Li Mengnan, Nanlihe's ridicule was extremely mean.

For Li Mengnan's obstruction, Wu Yingxiong didn't think it was disobedient, he waved his hand to stop Nanlihe, and said politely: "Student, why do you think it's inappropriate for me to go up?"

As a negotiator in the bureau, Wu Yingxiong often takes over such cases of persuading people who commit suicide. He knows that the success or failure of such cases does not mean that you will succeed if you are strong. In fact, every success is accompanied by great randomness.

For example, a suicidal person who is seriously ill and has no money for medical treatment may have no desire to die. As long as he promises to help him solve the problem of treatment costs, it is very likely to dispel the other party's suicidal idea;

But if the reason for the other party's death is that he was abandoned by his relatives because of a serious illness, then the cost of treatment is not the key, and the family card must be played to make the other party feel that life is not loveless, and to rekindle hope for life.

Negotiation experts can only use professional knowledge and experience to judge the psychological tendency of the suicide to a certain extent, but the actual persuasion effect varies from person to person, and sometimes it may not be more effective than the classmates and friends around the suicide.

Choosing the right person with the right method at the right time is the key to successful negotiation.

In the profession of negotiator, there is no such thing as a trump card... Unlike many colleagues who are smug with some achievements, Wu Yingxiong has always positioned himself very well.

Li Mengnan had seen too much of the high-ranking bureaucrats of the government's public authority departments, and he didn't expect Wu Yingxiong to really take his reminders seriously, but the other party's humble attitude of asking questions made him look high.

"From the existing information, we can know that this girl named Ju Xiaoxing is an introverted, even conservative, person who is not good at communicating with others. She rarely participates in group activities, let alone any clubs. The biggest pastime in daily life is Reading in the library... People with such personalities often have a certain degree of autistic tendency, and because of their emotional thinking, once women have this symptom, they will show more serious symptoms than men."

As soon as Li Mengnan opened his mouth, Wu Yingxiong immediately became serious. Although Li Mengnan's analysis was almost vernacular without any professional terms, it was obvious that he had not studied psychology systematically, but his judgment of the other party's personality tendencies was quite accurate.

"This kind of people has a very weak sense of existence, and they are often easily ignored in the circle of friends. Over time, they will develop a considerable degree of inferiority complex, and become extremely sensitive to other people's opinions...even if any Deviations in thinking will quickly develop in extreme directions, and they will get stuck in the horns of their own imagination and cannot get out."

Wu Yingxiong nodded again to express his agreement. The group described by Li Mengnan is quite common, especially among teenagers. The more cowardly and inferior children are, the more serious they will be when they have psychological problems.

In contrast, this kind of suicide is relatively less harmful to society. He once took over the vicious case of a college student who stabbed three roommates to death in the entire dormitory. bad words.

"Is there anything neglected about that girl on the roof?" At this time, Wu Yingxiong no longer regarded Li Mengnan as an ordinary student, but a colleague who could talk to him on an equal footing.

Li Mengnan smoked the cigarette to the last butt, threw it on the ground and stamped it out, and said, "I believe in your negotiating ability, Officer Wu, but you have overlooked one point - the person you are going to negotiate with is an introverted and conservative girl." , but her biggest knot is a private matter that even ordinary girls are ashamed to talk about. Please put yourself in the shoes and think about it, is it really suitable for you to go up?"

"Saving people is the most important thing now. What are you writing here? It's not suitable for Team Wu to go up. Could it be that you go up?" Nanlihe was furious when he saw Li Mengnan's despicable appearance.

"No, this classmate is right." Wu Yingxiong originally felt that something seemed to be missing, but after Li Mengnan's reminder, he suddenly realized, "The heart knot of this suicide is a female privacy issue. Old men in their 30s and [-]s go up to talk to her about the baby in their stomachs, and it’s no different from going up and pushing her..."

"No way?"

"Really?"

Several police officers around couldn't help being stunned. They didn't expect that the ace negotiator in the bureau would listen to the analysis of a college student, but after thinking about it carefully, it seemed to be so reasonable.

"Looking at it this way, we need to find a woman who doesn't know the person who committed suicide at all, who is convincing at a certain age, and there is no generation gap. At the same time, it is best to have a certain ability to deal with emergencies."

After all, he is a professional, Wu Yingxiong thought for a moment and came up with the conditions required for the best candidate.

"Captain Wu, why is this?"

The choice of women is still within the understanding of the police officers. After all, it involves privacy. It is easier for women to talk to each other, but the other conditions make them a little confused.

Just as Wu Yingxiong wanted to explain to these trainee police officers, he suddenly saw that Li Mengnan beside him did not show any doubts, so he guessed that the other party should have understood his intentions, so he couldn't help laughing: "Student Li, please explain to me."

It's not that Wu Yingxiong wants to be lazy, he just wants to free up his mind to think about whether there is a suitable candidate, and by the way, he also wants to know how well this young man named Li Mengnan can analyze human psychology.

In the police system of Sanshan City, there are a lot of police officers who can charge forward and fight tough battles, but few people are capable of delicate tasks like negotiating experts. This is not a job that can be done well according to the scriptures. It requires extremely keen insight Power and accurate judgment, quick-witted and flexible ability to deal with emergencies, excellent eloquence, and even some performance skills are required.

From a certain point of view, negotiators are somewhat similar to charlatans walking around the streets, except that one fools smart people into foolishness, while the other fools foolish people into sobriety.

Wu Yingxiong has always wanted to find a disciple in the police station who can inherit his mantle, but some things are hard to come by. Many young police officers who practiced with him worked hard enough, but they were still not talented enough. Unexpectedly, by accident, he would meet a good seedling here, and he couldn't help but love talent immediately.

Li Mengnan does not have the word modesty in his dictionary. Now that Wu Yingxiong has called his name, he does not pretend to shirk, and said in a casual tone: "It's actually very simple... If you don't know someone who commits suicide, you can give him a psychological hint that he won't leak the secret, relax. Mentality, it is easier to confide in the heart; have a certain age of persuasion, and at the same time there must be no generation gap, that is, you must talk as a friend of the same age, so as to avoid the sense of preaching brought by being too old and the sense of distrust brought by a young age; It’s easier to understand if you have certain mobility, if you get close to the suicidal person by chance, and the other party suddenly struggles at this moment, even if you don’t have the strength to subdue her, at least you can’t be dragged down by her as a backstop, right?”