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Xu Miaoyun responded, and said: "Then I'll go back first, don't be tired, and don't drink, I'll bring you some delicious food." Bo Rang hurriedly said: "Don't do it yourself, be careful of being tired." , I can eat anything." Xu Miaoyun pursed her lips and smiled, and then she was surrounded by people back and forth.

Xu Jinghuan came out from the apse, his face had regained his calm, Bo Rang patted him on the shoulder: "You heard what Miaoyun said, she only hopes that you can live a good life, don't let her down."

Xu Jinghuan agreed, thinking about Xu Miaoyun's words on the way back, but felt very uncomfortable.

As soon as Xu Jinghuan entered the gate, he saw Xu Run'an leading someone out, and he was relieved when he saw him: "Where did you go? Grandma got angry yesterday and said she wanted to see you. The old lady of the Cen family came just now. I don't know what I said to my grandmother, but my grandmother looked very embarrassed and asked me to come to you again."

Xu Jinghuan was a little surprised: "Grandmother is here?" Xu Run'an said: "No, you didn't even see grandma's face, and I didn't dare to take a second look. You just need to admit your mistake and don't talk back."

Xu Run'an felt that Xu Jinghuan might have done something wrong, and Xu Jinghuan was also puzzled. He didn't expect that it was because of the matter between him and Yan Jingyi that the Cen family was also alarmed, and said, "Don't worry, brother, why did I ever talk back to my grandmother."

While talking, I went to Mrs. Xu's place. Both Mrs. Xu and Mrs. Xu were there. Both of them had stern faces, and there was no waiter around them. Mrs. Xu even said to Xu Run'an: "Go outside and keep watch. door, and don't let anyone in."

Xu Run'an looked at Xu Jinghuan worriedly, then closed the door and went out.

Xu Jinghuan asked suspiciously: "Grandmother, eldest aunt, what is it all about? What did grandma say?"

The old lady Xu's expression was calm, and she said, "Sit down first, and tell me why you and Jingyi have been arguing so many times?"

Xu Jinghuan was stunned for a moment. He had quarreled with Yan Jingyi before, fearing that Mrs. Xu would be unhappy, so he only said it was a quarrel without specifying why, so Yan Jingyi naturally wouldn't mention it.Now that you ask this question, you must know why.

Xu Jinghuan knew the old lady's temper, and he didn't hide it. He told about the first time because of the ten shops and the outside, and didn't mention the partiality of Xu Miaoyun, you know.The old lady Xu also loves Xu Miaoyun very much. Knowing that Yan Jingyi quarreled with Xu Jinghuan for this reason, she must have a grudge against Yan Jingyi in her heart.

Mrs. Xu was not surprised when she heard this. She has lived for so long and has seen a lot of couples quarreling, and there are all sorts of weird reasons.There are also those who beat the world upside down just for a basin of footwashing water. What is this for?

Just to fight for breath.

It is said that close relatives and distant husbands and wives.Sometimes the husband and wife get angry, either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overwhelms the east wind. For that breath, they can say any ugly words, even if they regret it, they are unwilling to bow their heads because of that tone, and they become irreversible.

Now Xu Jinghuan and Yan Jingyi are arguing.The reason can still be explained, she said: "You and Jingyi have a clear explanation about the ten shops. She may not care about it, so what's the matter with letting it out?"

Xu Jinghuan said: "I think it's boring to be in the capital, and I want to do some practical things outside, but Miaoyun has not gained a firm foothold now, and I also said it. I didn't expect her reaction to be so big, saying that I don't care about her or my children. , I was naturally angry when I heard that."

The old lady Xu said: "It's not hard to guess Jingyi's thoughts. Now in the capital, you are the uncle of the country. Who wouldn't look up to you? Rather than going out to suffer, naturally she hopes to stay in the capital to live a good life. She I know his character well, it's not because I'm greedy for wealth, but for the sake of my children, I just can't bear to let my children suffer along with me."

Xu Jinghuan complained: "Isn't it better to suffer more? If she wants to raise the child into a playboy, wouldn't it be fine?"

Mrs. Xu said: "Let's not say whether her thoughts are right or not, but you can't say her original intentions are wrong. What's wrong with loving the child? Your father was also very precious when you were first born, and he didn't say that it made you suffer. If you say that, can Jingyi not be angry?"

Xu Jinghuan remained silent, and Mrs. Xu also said: "It's not that Jingyi hates the poor and loves the rich. She has been married to you for almost two years. You can clearly see who she is. You used to stay away from home all day, and she also You didn’t say anything, didn’t you? Life is just daily necessities, Jing Huan, you have to learn to care about others, be gentle and considerate from time to time, she lives with you, no matter how bitter it is, it’s sweet.”

Xu Jinghuan didn't speak, but the old lady Xu said: "Come on, you still don't understand Jing Huan's temper? To whom did he bow his head? I thought that one of these two people was strong and the other was weak, and they just got along. Now it seems that I I'm sorry, Jingyi is not weak, no matter how weak she is, she can't bear Jing Huan's temper."

Xu Jinghuan said: "Don't worry, grandma, I will have a good talk with Jingyi, and I won't quarrel with her again."

Mrs. Xu waved her hand and said: "I know you want to compromise, just endure it for a while, but you can bear it for a while, but you can't bear it for a lifetime, you should make trouble, even if you are 70 or [-] years old, you will still make trouble, and you will still make trouble The world is turned upside down, out of control, don't mention this, your grandmother and aunt came over today, saying that Mrs. Yan San went to Cen's house, saying that you were not considerate of Jingyi, and wanted the Cen's family to persuade you, but I didn't expect the Cen's family to protect you , I told Mrs. Yan San that she only cares about you, and now I’m here again to ask me to mention Jingyi, what can I say? My grandson and grandson and daughter-in-law quarreled, I don’t know why, but I heard others tell Me, what does it feel like in my heart?"

As he said that, tears came to his eyes, Xu Jinghuan hurriedly said: "Grandmother, grandson didn't hide it from you on purpose, just because he was afraid that you would worry."

Mrs. Xu said: "Afraid I'm worried? Now I'm not worried? You have to know that if you have a misunderstanding, you should make it clear as soon as possible, otherwise the longer the delay, the harder it will be to end. Jingyi cares about those ten shops, so give it to her. Is this missing? The most important thing is that your husband and wife are of the same mind. If she doesn't want to let it out, then you can coax her with words. When the order comes down, she will follow her when she goes, and stay at home if she doesn't. She will do whatever she wants, and you will Why take it seriously? Now that I have a child again, I really don't know what to do before I stop."

Xu Jinghuan felt very uncomfortable, thinking of Xu Miaoyun's thoughtful words.Thinking about what my grandmother said, I just felt that I was incompetent, and my own affairs could not be resolved, so that my grandmother and younger sister would worry about me, and for a while, I just kept my head down and didn't speak.

The old lady Xu reprimanded and comforted her again, asking Xu Jinghuan to go back and think about it, and said, "Don't be serious about what is right or wrong with Jingyi, I will persuade her what I have to say."

After Xu Jinghuan left, Mrs. Xu sighed.Said: "With Jing Huan's temper, I'm afraid that even if they are reconciled now, there will be troubles in the future."

Mrs. Xu said: "Jing Huan is at fault, but Jingyi is a little ignorant of the general situation. She cares about what should be caressed about, and she can't care about what should not be caressed about. She also understands Jing Huan's temper. Crying and fussing, Jing Huan pushed him further and further away."

Mrs. Xu said: "At first we only said it was a good marriage, who knew it would turn out like this?"

Mrs. Xu didn't say anything to Yan Jingyi, but Mrs. Xu went to see Yan Jingyi instead.When Yan Jingyi saw Xu Jinghuan sending Brother Mao to Mrs. Xu, she was impatient and did not dare to have a child.Seeing Mrs. Xu, he hurriedly said, "Auntie, can you see Brother Mao?"

Mrs. Xu said with a smile: "Don't worry, Brother Mao is doing well, the old lady is watching for herself, you just take care of yourself, seeing that you have lost weight, the old lady will feel very distressed when she finds out."

Yan Jingyi couldn't help but shed tears after hearing this: "Grandmother still cares about me."

Mrs. Xu said: "What are you talking about? You are Jing Huan's wife, can you not care about you? Jing Huan is a child. I also watched him grow up, and his life was very hard. He supported the second room at a young age. Every day before dawn, I get up early to study, and go to bed very late at night. Why? Isn’t it just to honor the ancestors? It’s just this temper, one-sided, and used to making up your own mind. The old lady often said, just don’t get married After getting married and still living like this, how can I live this life? Even a fairy girl has to run away in anger. Later, the old lady was so happy when she settled down with you, saying that you are a virtuous, gentle, generous and sensible person. If Huan can't do it, he can be tolerant, it's common for husband and wife to have disagreements, if you let me go today, I will let you go tomorrow, won't this day go on?"

Yan Jingyi was taken aback, and tears fell more urgently. On the one hand, she was grateful for Mrs. Xu's thoughtfulness, and on the other hand, she felt wronged for herself, and felt that what she said touched her heart.

Mrs. Xu wiped her tears with a smile, and said: "When you quarreled, the old lady said that Jing Huan must have done something wrong again, otherwise Jingyi is a good boy, how could she make trouble? Don't be sad, old lady. His wife has taught him a lesson, saying that a wife is half a blessing, Jing Huan is his blessing to marry you, he has bad things, look at the old lady, look at me, don't bother with him, let alone another Brother Mo, don’t you think so?”

Yan Jingyi cried: "It's my fault for letting grandma and aunt worry about it. I'm also at fault for this matter."

Mrs. Xu said with a smile: "I already know what the reason for the quarrel is, and there is nothing wrong with you. It is his fault for not discussing it with you, but Jingyi, you also understand that Jing Huan is not the kind of child who doesn't know the importance. Well, if the Xu family didn't have him, they wouldn't be where they are today. Everything he does is justified. If he doesn't say anything, then you should take the initiative to ask, just like this outsider. Since he said it, then you have to ask Ask why? If it makes sense, it’s understandable for you to listen to him. If it’s not right, you have to persuade him. If you can’t persuade him, then you have to tell the old lady. Is this the reason? You object when he speaks, what does he feel like? Tell me, is there something wrong with what you did?"

Yan Jingyi choked with sobs and couldn't help nodding: "I know I'm doing something wrong, but I'm just doing it for the sake of the child. He doesn't tell me anything, and I have no foundation to live with. If I'm alone, it's okay to eat bran and swallow vegetables .”

Mrs. Xu said with a smile: "You're talking stupid again. Can he tell you to eat bran and swallow vegetables? Jing Huan is just a stupid kid. He thinks it's better to do one thing than to say ten nice sentences. He said that two days ago, he gave Zhilan the money for Mao Geer's full moon wine, and asked her to take good care of it, and asked her to help you buy some supplements to replenish your body. He is kind to people, but he doesn't know how to say , but you can't say that he doesn't care about you. He takes one step at a time and counts three steps, but his mouth is a stuffy one. It's also cultivated since childhood. Don't blame him. Be more considerate of everything, and tell the old lady if you can't. Since the old lady vented your anger for you, don’t hide and feel wronged by yourself. We are a family. If we have anything to say, we will explain it clearly. Isn’t that good? To put it mildly, this is family harmony , we live comfortably by ourselves, and when we grow up, our family is kind and friendly, and we won't let those villains find faults and provoke us, right?"

Mrs. Xu picked up a lot of things about couples who had rifts and were taken advantage of by others. Yan Jingyi also understood that Mrs. Xu was doing it for her own good. She said these things today as an elder, praising her virtuousness Knowledge in general, for what?

It's nothing more than letting her and Xu Jinghuan live a good life. She can't continue to make trouble even if she looks at Mrs. Xu's words. In addition, she feels that Mrs. Xu's words are all in her heart. Holding back the tears, I feel that Mrs. Xu understands the grievances I have suffered, instead of just scolding her for being unvirtuous, I am extremely grateful in my heart.

Mrs. Xu saw that she was crying hard, and said with a smile: "Don't be sad, it's important to take good care of your body. When four or five children are born in the future, how dare Jing Huan treat you badly? Several children can't spare him .”

Yan Jingyi smiled through tears, seeing that Mrs. Xu was about to leave, she wanted to send it out in person, but was stopped by Mrs. Xu.

Mrs. Xu went back to the courtyard. Xie Zhilan and Xu Jinghan were writing the guest list for Mao Geer's Full Moon Wine. Seeing her come back, Xie Zhilan hurriedly took the tea herself, and said with a smile: "Mother said for a while, it must be thirsty."

Mrs. Xu said with a smile: "It's easy to say something, but hard to listen to it. It's all said and done. I just hope that Jingyi can untangle her heart, and the two of them can live a good life."

Xie Zhilan said with a smile: "After Youniang's persuasion, the siblings must have turned around. I'm afraid the two of you will reconcile tomorrow, and come to kowtow to grandma and you to admit your mistake."

Mrs. Xu said with a smile: "It would be great if it was really like what you said, and the old lady doesn't have to worry about that."

Xie Zhilan said some more words for fun, and sent two gift lists up for review: "One is the gift list for Zhenzhen's marriage, and the other is for the wedding gift list of my niece. Something's wrong."

Mrs. Xu took it and didn't look at it, and said with a smile: "I don't worry about your work, but these two girls are like our Miaoyun's sisters. It is not an exaggeration to add a little bit to the old routine. It is also a matter of face for Miaoyun. "He said again: "Cen's family is here today, you prepare a gift to send back, and say that the old lady has done everything that needs to be done, so that the Cen's family can rest assured." Xie Zhilan hurriedly agreed. (To be continued. If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for recommendations and monthly tickets. Your support is my biggest motivation.)

ps: I read the comments in the comment area, and everyone seems to be very responsive to the conflict between the second brother and the second sister-in-law. In fact, I don’t have the kind of smearing the second sister-in-law to write a true love for the second brother, or the obedience of the female lead and the reverse female lead’s death Meaning, and I also like the role of the second brother very much. It will not make him become a new love Chen Shimei or live a life of grievances. The stage where he shines is the world, not a small family. If Yan Jingyi can understand, then everyone will be happy , if you don’t understand, I think it’s very interesting for Second Brother Xu to become a melancholy and black-bellied middle-aged handsome uncle who is hard to find a confidant. Finally, let’s clarify that Second Brother Xu does not fall in love with younger sisters, and only cares and loves Miaoyun purely. .