"Dredge conflicts, find opportunities to forgive each other, and allow the other party to retaliate." Aurora repeated, but actually did not know how to understand, raised her head and began to wonder, "an Qian, these three points you said are easy to say, but not easy to do!"

Xia an smiles and looks at Aurora's doubts. She wants to take Xu Tingchen and her daily life as examples to make Aurora more clear.

"Master Aurora, living together is a process of constant adaptation. You've seen it, mine... " Speaking of this, Xia an shallow pause, but finally said, "my fiance, Xu Tingchen, we also have a lot of contradictions, I also have a lot of places that I can't stand him."

Aurora was interested, "Oh? It seems that you two are very sweet. Do you quarrel about trivial matters

Xia an said with a smile, "of course, every couple will quarrel over the trivial matters of life. If they can be tolerant enough not to quarrel, they will be saints..."

Listening to Xia's interesting description, aurora can't help laughing.

"Xu Tingchen has obsessive-compulsive disorder. His socks have to be placed in one direction according to the color before he feels comfortable. It's not only his. Every time he folds clothes, he always asks me to put what he wants. But I don't have so many requirements. I think it's just socks. Fold them and put them up. But his obsessive-compulsive disorder doesn't allow him to do that. At the beginning, I really can't stand it and I'm not used to it. Although I didn't quarrel, I was very angry every time I saw him waste his time playing with socks silently. Later, I bought the kind of storage, and only put it in one direction, I could meet Xu Tingchen's requirements. There was no need for abnormal folding and folding in one direction, which was a waste of time It's a waste of energy. Later, Xu Tingchen and I stepped back, and we were able to solve this problem. " Speaking of this, Xia Anqian pauses a little. In fact, Xu Tingchen's obsessive-compulsive disorder just mentioned, he always folds his underwear in one direction every time, but Xia Anqian is embarrassed to say so he changes his underwear into socks

Aurora listened carefully, just like a primary school student listening to the teacher's lecture, Xia Anqian felt a little funny and continued to speak, "in fact, as you just said, your ex husband has obsessive-compulsive disorder of fire, then you can all be very sad. The WiFi socket can control the power supply through the mobile phone at any time and anywhere. In this way, she will feel that all the plugs are in him When you want to use it, you just need to turn on the power in advance on the computer. If you do that, isn't it a good solution? "

Aurora nodded clearly. "Actually, but sometimes I just can't control my anger. After quarreling, I think I shouldn't do this."

Xia an nodded, "yes, in fact, we can't stand each other, but if we think about it carefully, maybe we can't stand many of our habits, while others are very tolerant. We don't have to. For example, I'm not very good tempered. I'm always very tough or do things tit for tat. Xu Tingchen's temper is not good, and he's cold and silent, but He is very tolerant and gentle to me. Every time you want to lose your temper and think about the other party's kindness to you, you will be more comfortable. "

"Yes, it is." Aurora nodded in agreement.

"By the way, what's more, the wedding anniversary you just mentioned is like the festivals you want him to remember. If he always forgets them, you can buy Johnson's assistant to remind him on important days, so that Johnson won't forget important days like wedding anniversary?"

Aurora frowned. Obviously, she didn't quite agree with Xia Anyuan's practice, "hmm? An Qian, if so, isn't it cheating code? What's the point of remembering anniversaries that are not men's own? "

"So, this is the so-called, find a chance to forgive each other. In fact, I think it may have something to do with character. Men are not as careful as women, and they are not as romantic as women. Therefore, they will really forget these days. Nine out of ten men can't remember their wedding anniversary. Maybe some even forget their own birthday. So, if you really want to have an important festival with him, it's not too much to ask his assistant to remind him. If he is reminded by his assistant, he will spend it with you. Why is it necessary to settle something that can be settled happily by arguing? "

Aurora still can't understand, so Xia Anqian continued to take Xu Tingchen as an example. "Xu Tingchen has a problem. He likes to put his mobile phone under his pillow after using up his iPad. I said that he didn't listen to him several times. Sometimes when he was sleeping soundly, he was always hit by his mobile phone or iPad. He was really angry and wanted to raise the table and quarrel every minute. However, once again in the morning, I was awakened by Xu Tingchen's iPad, which was still under his pillow. I went to the guest room to have a sleep. When I went back to my bedroom to wash, I saw Xu Tingchen carefully put away my scattered drawings on the table. I was suddenly relieved. He had a short memory and didn't hear about it, but he also had time to arrange it carefully for you. In order to avoid a fight, I would be much calmer when I saw Xu Tingchen putting the iPad in disorder, and when I think of Xu Tingchen helping me with my drawings. Master Aurora, I think Johnson must have moved you sometimes. Although he will throw away the bottle opener, think about it, he must have carefully arranged something for you or made something for you. So, if he makes you angry, you will feel much better when you think about his good time. "Aurora suddenly realized, "well, Johnson has actually done a lot of careful things for me. The most impressive time for me was that he fried eggs for me in the morning. Then he got up early and fried eggs for me. But I didn't know it at that time. I also complained that the fried eggs would cause cancer. That morning, Johnson slammed the door and left you. I did a lot of wrong things... "

Jiang Yuening listens to the dialogue between Xia Anqian and Aurora, but she can't help sniffing, "cut, isn't it just the communication between two housewives? How to get along with her husband? This Aurora, it's just like this. It looks so beautiful, and she's divorced. " However, Jiang Yuening is more and more uneasy. Jiang Yuening feels that "seeing Aurora talking about such a private family situation with Xia Anqian shows that Aurora trusts Xia Anqian very much. If aurora will make such a fair and just judgment in the future, Jiang Yuening is still very suspicious."

And Xia an shallow and Aurora chat is happy, simply did not care about the back still sitting in the back of the evil river moon Ning.

"Well, what does it mean to allow a man a little revenge?"

Xia Anqian took a sip of coffee. "In fact, when men and women get along with each other, women are more picky, and men are more likely to be disciplined. Let's take Xu Tingchen and I as an example. Xu Tingchen is a riddle destroyer at home. Many times, he will drive me crazy, so I always miss him. Men, no matter how arrogant they are outside, always have the idea of little boy's prank in their bones. In fact, I hate the smell of Geranium. Xu Tingchen also knows that several times when I fell asleep in order to draw a design draft, Xu Tingchen, who seemed to be watching the company's statements carefully, started to act. "

Aurora heard it very interesting, "Oh? What would he do? "

Xia Anqian looked helpless, "because I always read him, so he must want to revenge me a little. In fact, if I was sleepy, he could wake me up normally and let me continue, but he didn't do that. Several times when I was about to fall asleep, Xu Tingchen secretly put the geranium hidden to the tip of my nose. After I was awakened by smoke, Xu Tingchen thought that nothing had happened. He sat on the sofa with a serious and innocent face, and looked at the report form and didn't know what happened. At the beginning, I didn't find it or put it in my heart until once At that time, I was not sleepy. I bowed my head for a long time, and my neck was very tired. Then I lay prone on the table. I closed my eyes and heard the sound of the rate of knowing. I just wanted to see what Xu Tingchen was going to do. So I was so playful that I pretended to sleep. As a result, I found that Xu Tingchen quietly came to my side and put the geranium on my nose. I moved deliberately Xu Tingchen ran back to his seat in a panic. I sat up and stretched. Looking at Xu Tingchen sitting there, I couldn't help laughing. In fact, I knew that time, but I didn't expose the feeling that Xu Tingchen enjoyed. It turned out that the effect was very good. "

Aurora frowned, "huh? Good results? How good? "

"It was Xu Tingchen who was in a good mood after his success, because he succeeded in revenge. Every time I was awakened by the smell of geranium, Xu Tingchen was in a good mood to hum a song. Then when he saw me wake up, he would be in a good mood to make coffee. When he came back, he asked me with a cold face, "Hey, you look sleepy. Have a cup of coffee." You said, I can expose him, but after exposing him, he will be in a bad mood. If I don't expose him, then I can still drink his own coffee. Of course, I choose not to expose him. "

Hearing this, Aurora couldn't help laughing, "ha ha, look at Xu Tingchen so serious, so he is so childish?"

Xia an shallow nodded, "yes, in fact, it's not just Xu Tingchen. Every man is. There is a naughty little boy living in his bones. He can't help being as naughty as putting bugs in a girl's pencil box or playing with girls' hair when he was a child. What we need sometimes is to allow him a little revenge, which is harmless and irrelevant."

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