He instinctively felt that there seemed to be something strange and wrong. However, all he knew about Xu Yawen's family affairs was what Xu Yawen told him. Besides, it was also a family scandal. Xu Yawen was not willing to reveal more. Even as a friend, he couldn't say much about it.
"Yes, I don't know what's going on, and Uncle Zhang didn't say it in detail, but my father is very sad. After all, this may be a son, which can be regarded as making up for his inner regret. After all, no matter how good he used to be to me, he thought I was just a daughter. After all, he still wanted a son to inherit everything from him in a real sense. "
"He specially took Su Manyu abroad to have a baby. In addition to saying that he wanted to avoid me and try to play down the resentment between Su Manyu and me, he also wanted to give the child the best conditions before he was born."
Xu Yawen's expression is very cold, with a lot of resentment, "the result, but suddenly disappeared. It's normal for him to be in a bad mood now. "
This can not blame her, after all, growing up in such an environment, her heart is inevitably with resentment.
"I think he will come back this time with such a mood. Maybe all his grievances will be vented on me."
"And now, the child I'm looking forward to is gone, and now it seems that I'm against his will and doing things that don't meet his requirements. Then he is likely to come back and take over Dacheng Group again. By that time, there will be nothing for me
Xu Yawen's face is very ugly: "although I am the president of Dacheng Group in name, he is the founder of Dacheng Group after all. If he really doesn't want me to take over, there are 10000 ways to let me leave."
After thinking about it, Lin Hai pared an apple for Xu Yawen and handed it to her, saying slowly: "I don't like to overestimate the things in your family."
"But in my opinion, your father may have done a lot of wrong things, including many of his ways of managing the company, which I don't agree with. Feelings belong to feelings, but in principle things must be clearly separated. Human feelings can never replace system instead of management. It's just that how to measure and establish the boundary is something that needs to be explored. You and I must keep learning. "
"But I still think that your father has feelings and guilt for you. He really has high requirements for you, but maybe more of the reason is that he expects you to do better."
"What's more, it may not be just that you are dissatisfied with you as you say, but also that you are protected. After all, you are still young and your identity is there. These two points are enough to make many people dissatisfied with you and think that you are in this position because you are your father's daughter. "
"What's more, what you're doing is really bold and resolute. What's more, it really affects the interests of many people. It's inevitable that these people resent you."
"I don't think your father can have taken these situations into consideration. As a manager, he is more familiar with Dacheng group than you, and he is also more familiar with these people than you. He can't be unaware of these situations. As a manager, no one can tolerate anyone doing anything harmful to the interests of the enterprise, Even if people like Li Jin have been friends with him for so many years and made a lot of contributions, he should not and can not say that he tolerates this situation. "
"I understand that there are many misunderstandings between you and your father, but the principle and bottom line of life, I think this is the most basic thing. If your father can make Dacheng Group what it is today, it is impossible to say that he is a man without any ability and vision. I think your understanding of him may be one-sided for emotional reasons. "
"It's just that he may not be able to do something. Even if he gives it to you, he also hopes that you can bring some good changes to Dacheng Group in your way, which is also his trust in you. But at the same time, as a former manager, he really doesn't want to see so many changes all at once. After all, according to his personality, He's a conservative and may not be able to accept your rapid change. "
"As a father, he may also know the consequences of what you do, and more importantly, what kind of impact you may have on yourself and what other people will think of you. He doesn't want you to rush for success and get hurt. "
Lin Hai doesn't agree with a series of actions of Xu Yawen, otherwise he won't say what audit to do for Xu Yawen, but he also thinks that Xu Yawen is a little eager for success and wants to see the results early.
This has something to do with her character, because she is a perfectionist and a cleanliness addict, so she can't tolerate these behaviors that damage the company's interests and are illegal.
"Of course, it's just my view as a spectator, but I can't stand for you to bear the hurt of those years, so I can't say who's right and who's wrong."
"I understand you. After all, as a daughter, there may be a lot of emotional things that you can't accept and feel hurt, and you seldom communicate with him, which leads to today's situation."
Xu Yawen bit her lip for a long time and then said abruptly, "I have no way to communicate with him. The simplest truth is that if there is a stepmother, there will be a stepfather. Now he is not only my father, but also su Manyu's husband, and almost her child's father. My mother is no longer here. Even if she is, she can't compare with Su Manyu in his mind. "
"If he really cared about me, he would not say that he was old enough to have a child with that woman." Xu Yawen said angrily, "originally he paid all for me, but because I was his only child, now his identity has been shaken. When he had other children, he immediately turned to serve them wholeheartedly. Before he was born and still in that woman's belly, he looked like a baby. "
"If it wasn't for the child, it would be hard for him to tell whether he remembered my daughter or not."
Xu Yawen said angrily. Although she was very angry, she could see that it was more like a child's longing for the love of her parents. After all, who doesn't want to be the best and favorite in the eyes of their parents.
Lin Hai smiles, shakes his head and says with a smile: "you don't have children yet, so you can't understand the feelings of being parents. That's what parents do. For any child, they want to give all their love, but sometimes they can't be so average, and they can't take into account all their feelings."
"The same is his child, of course, he will pay all the love, I think, in fact, when you were young, he paid no less for you than the child who is now Su Manyu."
"Especially if there is a lack of communication between you and your father, he must take it for granted that you have grown up and become mature and sensible from his own point of view. What's more, he also gave you Dacheng Group. He thinks that's what you want most. He thinks that meeting your wish is the best love he can give you. "
"I don't advise you to do so much. Some things can only be felt by yourself. What I say is just my idea, which may not be the same as what you see and feel, but I hope you can put down all your heart knot and get more happiness. "
Lin Hai's own family has no regrets except for ye Lingtian's departure. He grew up in happiness and love, so he will try his best to consider these problems from the perspective of family affection. Besides, he doesn't know much about Xu Hai, but according to his judgment, Xu Hai doesn't mean that there is a long-term lack of communication between father and daughter, We don't know each other enough.
"Yes, I don't know what's going on, and Uncle Zhang didn't say it in detail, but my father is very sad. After all, this may be a son, which can be regarded as making up for his inner regret. After all, no matter how good he used to be to me, he thought I was just a daughter. After all, he still wanted a son to inherit everything from him in a real sense. "
"He specially took Su Manyu abroad to have a baby. In addition to saying that he wanted to avoid me and try to play down the resentment between Su Manyu and me, he also wanted to give the child the best conditions before he was born."
Xu Yawen's expression is very cold, with a lot of resentment, "the result, but suddenly disappeared. It's normal for him to be in a bad mood now. "
This can not blame her, after all, growing up in such an environment, her heart is inevitably with resentment.
"I think he will come back this time with such a mood. Maybe all his grievances will be vented on me."
"And now, the child I'm looking forward to is gone, and now it seems that I'm against his will and doing things that don't meet his requirements. Then he is likely to come back and take over Dacheng Group again. By that time, there will be nothing for me
Xu Yawen's face is very ugly: "although I am the president of Dacheng Group in name, he is the founder of Dacheng Group after all. If he really doesn't want me to take over, there are 10000 ways to let me leave."
After thinking about it, Lin Hai pared an apple for Xu Yawen and handed it to her, saying slowly: "I don't like to overestimate the things in your family."
"But in my opinion, your father may have done a lot of wrong things, including many of his ways of managing the company, which I don't agree with. Feelings belong to feelings, but in principle things must be clearly separated. Human feelings can never replace system instead of management. It's just that how to measure and establish the boundary is something that needs to be explored. You and I must keep learning. "
"But I still think that your father has feelings and guilt for you. He really has high requirements for you, but maybe more of the reason is that he expects you to do better."
"What's more, it may not be just that you are dissatisfied with you as you say, but also that you are protected. After all, you are still young and your identity is there. These two points are enough to make many people dissatisfied with you and think that you are in this position because you are your father's daughter. "
"What's more, what you're doing is really bold and resolute. What's more, it really affects the interests of many people. It's inevitable that these people resent you."
"I don't think your father can have taken these situations into consideration. As a manager, he is more familiar with Dacheng group than you, and he is also more familiar with these people than you. He can't be unaware of these situations. As a manager, no one can tolerate anyone doing anything harmful to the interests of the enterprise, Even if people like Li Jin have been friends with him for so many years and made a lot of contributions, he should not and can not say that he tolerates this situation. "
"I understand that there are many misunderstandings between you and your father, but the principle and bottom line of life, I think this is the most basic thing. If your father can make Dacheng Group what it is today, it is impossible to say that he is a man without any ability and vision. I think your understanding of him may be one-sided for emotional reasons. "
"It's just that he may not be able to do something. Even if he gives it to you, he also hopes that you can bring some good changes to Dacheng Group in your way, which is also his trust in you. But at the same time, as a former manager, he really doesn't want to see so many changes all at once. After all, according to his personality, He's a conservative and may not be able to accept your rapid change. "
"As a father, he may also know the consequences of what you do, and more importantly, what kind of impact you may have on yourself and what other people will think of you. He doesn't want you to rush for success and get hurt. "
Lin Hai doesn't agree with a series of actions of Xu Yawen, otherwise he won't say what audit to do for Xu Yawen, but he also thinks that Xu Yawen is a little eager for success and wants to see the results early.
This has something to do with her character, because she is a perfectionist and a cleanliness addict, so she can't tolerate these behaviors that damage the company's interests and are illegal.
"Of course, it's just my view as a spectator, but I can't stand for you to bear the hurt of those years, so I can't say who's right and who's wrong."
"I understand you. After all, as a daughter, there may be a lot of emotional things that you can't accept and feel hurt, and you seldom communicate with him, which leads to today's situation."
Xu Yawen bit her lip for a long time and then said abruptly, "I have no way to communicate with him. The simplest truth is that if there is a stepmother, there will be a stepfather. Now he is not only my father, but also su Manyu's husband, and almost her child's father. My mother is no longer here. Even if she is, she can't compare with Su Manyu in his mind. "
"If he really cared about me, he would not say that he was old enough to have a child with that woman." Xu Yawen said angrily, "originally he paid all for me, but because I was his only child, now his identity has been shaken. When he had other children, he immediately turned to serve them wholeheartedly. Before he was born and still in that woman's belly, he looked like a baby. "
"If it wasn't for the child, it would be hard for him to tell whether he remembered my daughter or not."
Xu Yawen said angrily. Although she was very angry, she could see that it was more like a child's longing for the love of her parents. After all, who doesn't want to be the best and favorite in the eyes of their parents.
Lin Hai smiles, shakes his head and says with a smile: "you don't have children yet, so you can't understand the feelings of being parents. That's what parents do. For any child, they want to give all their love, but sometimes they can't be so average, and they can't take into account all their feelings."
"The same is his child, of course, he will pay all the love, I think, in fact, when you were young, he paid no less for you than the child who is now Su Manyu."
"Especially if there is a lack of communication between you and your father, he must take it for granted that you have grown up and become mature and sensible from his own point of view. What's more, he also gave you Dacheng Group. He thinks that's what you want most. He thinks that meeting your wish is the best love he can give you. "
"I don't advise you to do so much. Some things can only be felt by yourself. What I say is just my idea, which may not be the same as what you see and feel, but I hope you can put down all your heart knot and get more happiness. "
Lin Hai's own family has no regrets except for ye Lingtian's departure. He grew up in happiness and love, so he will try his best to consider these problems from the perspective of family affection. Besides, he doesn't know much about Xu Hai, but according to his judgment, Xu Hai doesn't mean that there is a long-term lack of communication between father and daughter, We don't know each other enough.
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