Arrogant Meets Passionate

    Chapter 55

    The next day is the weekend. Gu Yingjie couldn't sit still, he wanted to try his luck, so he brought flowers and gifts to Qin's house.

    It was still Mrs. Qin who greeted him with a smile. She said that Qin Wenyi went to play ball early in the morning, and Qin Yufei didn't seem to get up yet. Gu Yingjie looked at his watch and felt a little embarrassed. It was almost ten o'clock.

    Fortunately, Mrs. Qin was very polite. She asked Gu Yingjie if he had had breakfast, greeted him for some tea and snacks, and then said that she would go up and call Qin Yufei.

    Gu Yingjie breathed a sigh of relief and was very grateful. If Mrs. Qin went to call, Qin Yufei should be embarrassed not to come down.

    It turned out that Qin Yufei was really interesting, and Mrs. Qin said, "She said she didn't want to see you yet."

    Gu Yingjie's heart suddenly sank, but maybe a week is enough for him to adapt to such a situation, and it doesn't feel as bad as when he came to her house to find her last time. So he could barely smile, and said politely, "Thank you aunt, I'll come back next time."

    Gu Yingjie left the gift and left.

    After Mrs. Qin watched him leave, she went upstairs. Knocked on her daughter's door: "He's gone."

    Qin Yufei opened the door, wearing pajamas, listlessly: "Oh."

    Mrs. Qin walked into the room, sat side by side on the sofa with her daughter, and asked her, "Mom never asked you, what's going on?"

     "Didn't Gu Yingjie say anything?"

    "He just said it was his fault." Mrs. Qin looked at her daughter, "What did he do? Did he cheat?"

    "No." Qin Yufei was very depressed, why would he ask him if he was cheating.

    "Have an affair with another woman for excitement?"

    Qin Yufei is even more depressed, how the problem with Yin Ting is one way. "It's not ambiguous. But his ex-girlfriend always looks for him and wants to get back with him."

    "Then what is his attitude?" Mrs. Qin asked calmly.

    "I was caught once before, he said he refused, and told her that he had a girlfriend. Later, the ex-girlfriend said that he was bullied by others, and always asked Gu Yingjie for help. Yingjie has been talking to her on the phone for a long time, but I can't even make a call. Last Saturday, I met his mother at the mall. It was the first time I met my parents, and I was also very nervous. I still had to cook and wanted to show it. I especially need him to support me, but because of this ex-girlfriend, he didn't come back late, and when he came back, he was hiding in the bedroom and talking on the phone. I had a bad day." Qin Yufei said and became sad again, "I was in It's a shame in front of his mother."

    "So you think he neglected you for his ex-girlfriend, don't you?"

    Qin Yufei nodded, "Mom, his personality is like this. I feel a little regretful and should not agree to him. I knew before I fell in love with him, he is too affectionate. Yes. Girls are polite, gentlemen, and talkative. In the eyes of others, they are good gentlemen, and they have been in love again and again. In fact, I know that we are not suitable."

    "I know it's inappropriate, why are you with him again?"

    Qin Yufei was silent for a while, "That's right, I just like him very much."

    Mrs. Qin smiled and touched her daughter's head: "What about now? Don't you like it?"

    "But he's entangled with women, I can't stand it."

    "What is his attitude?"

    "He just admitted he was wrong. Said he would never do this again. But I can't believe it."

    "Hmm." The mother nodded in response.

    Qin Yufei hugged her mother's arm, put her head on her shoulder and acted like a spoiled child: "Mom, I thought about it, he has this kind of personality, even if there is no Abby this time, there will be others in the future. Girls. It's easy for him to be soft-hearted when you show affection to him and ask him for help. He is good to me, but he is not bad to others. I don't mean to hope that he will become rude and rude | but he treats everyone well, I feel very uneasy, I will get angry. Then we will quarrel. I hesitated for a long time before falling in love with him, just worried about this. He is such a character, I It's that kind of temper. Mom, I'm stingy and very careful. I didn't tell you before, the boyfriend I was in America, the one I always said I'd bring back to show you, he, um, he cheated I'm so sad, I dare not tell you, I loved him so so much at that time."

    Mrs. Qin hugged her daughter tightly. In fact, her daughter said they broke up later, she guessed it. She could feel that her daughter really loved that boy. Every time she called her family, she was talking about the boy. She said that she would bring him back when she returned to China. She said that his family was very ordinary. She asked her mother to help her and tell her father. Say, do your father's job well, and don't despise others. She said that the boy is very hardworking, and as long as he is given a chance, he will surely perform well at work. She hoped that her father would give the boy a chance.

    When a mother hears her daughter say this over and over again, she naturally understands how deep it is. Qin Yufei was already planning the future at that time. After she missed the book, she brought the boy back to China to arrange work for him and pave the way for his future. Her future is with him.

    And then suddenly one day, she said that they broke up and they were not in a relationship. Mrs. Qin didn't say anything at that time, and didn't ask any further questions, but she actually fully understood in her heart. She thought that her daughter would never mention it again, but she didn't expect to say it today.

    "He, he slept with Vi, they have been together for a while, but I have been kept in the dark." Qin Yufei simply said.

    Mrs. Qin touched|touched her daughter's head: "So you think Gu Yingjie will do the same? Will he cheat?"

    Qin Yufei shook his head, thought about it but said, "I, I'm not sure."

    Mrs. Qin asked her, "Is he gentle with girls, or ambiguous? Can you judge this? Gentleness and ambiguousness are two different things, and joking and **** are two different things."

    Qin Yufei frowned, thinking for a long time: "I can't judge." When he encounters such a thing, he is so angry that he can't judge.

     Mrs. Qin said, "Then how can you ask a man with normal social skills not to have contact with girls, and how can you prevent other girls from showing affection to him?"

    Qin Yufei was stunned for a while, then looked up at his mother.

    Mrs. Qin smiled at her: "you can't even control yourself, can you?"

    "Mom!" Qin Yufei is not happy, is she his biological mother? Why do you speak for others.

    Mrs. Qin ignored her protest and continued: "Today, even if it's not Gu Yingjie, it will be another man. Your boyfriend, the conditions must be good, and the charm must be there, Mom. I believe in your vision, you will not like a person who is disgusting, ugly and unqualified. Think about it, the condition is good, attractive, how can no woman like it. It is impossible for a normal man to see a woman smile at him and let him People go away, if a girl confesses to herself, she will be killed, right? Then he must have a personality defect and a psychological problem."

    Qin Yufei pouted: "That didn't make him so exaggerated."

    "So polite refusal is reasonable, even if it is you, a boy politely confesses to you that you don't like him, but the other party did nothing wrong, and the person is not bad, and you also You can't rebuke the other party unreasonably, right? This is educated, you can say gentleness. But if you don't expressly refuse, but you are noncommittal and hang the other party's appetite, this is called ambiguous. There are teasing and hinting, which is also ambiguous. The same is true for laughing and making love. When a joke is funny, normal people will laugh, but the normal relationship between men and women does not include the teasing and hinting just mentioned. You see, it is actually quite A good distinction, isn't it?"

     Qin Yufei did not speak, she could not refute, but she was still unhappy. Then she is stingy, and is super sensitive to this kind of thing, and she can't tolerate it at all.

    "Yu Fei, Mom is not helping Gu Yingjie. Mom has no opinion on whether you want to break up with him or not. Feelings are like people drinking water, knowing whether it is hot or cold. But Mom thinks Now is the time to talk to you about love and marriage. You need to think clearly about the reason you broke up with Gu Yingjie. Will this reason not exist when you get to the next man? In other words, the next one will be better, but the devil knows if it will be better. What you have to judge is whether this one is good enough now."

    Qin Yufei blinked, thinking about Gu Yingjie. She really liked him and thought he was nice. Except that he was nice to everyone. She really felt that it didn't matter if he kicked the women who showed his love to him, no matter what kind of upbringing and politeness he was.

    Mrs. Qin smiled when she saw Qin Yufei's dissatisfaction. "Daughter, there are no perfect people in this world, men and women are the same. There is nothing but happiness, and growing up is the same. Look at your father, let alone when he was young, he is now at his age and takes good care of it. Well, I don't have a big belly, I'm clean, elegant and temperamental, and my career is so successful. I don't know how many little girls come up. It's just that you didn't see it, but I know it. I called him to ask questions, When he was on a business trip, he texted him if he could go to his hotel room to discuss business. He showed me his phone."

    "Why show it to you!" Qin Yufei frowned and was angry, his father was so disgusting.

    Mrs. Qin smiled: "he just wanted to show off how attractive he was. He didn't cheat, he didn't feel sorry for me. He rejected those people."

    Qin Yufei bit his lip, wanting to say how you know, but you can't see it. But when she came to her lips and thought that this was her parents, she seemed to be inciting their relationship by saying this. But Mrs. Qin knew what her daughter wanted to say. She said, "This is the main point I want to tell you. Yu Fei, women must have wisdom. This kind of wisdom depends not only on the brain, but also on the heart. Use your brain to judge. , Be considerate with your heart. You know how much your father wants a son. When I gave birth to you, you couldn't have another son, and your father was very disappointed. Now you don't know, that time was actually the biggest crisis in our marriage. "

    Qin Yufei listened quietly.

    " I said, even now he doesn't worry about no one to give him his arms, let alone back then. He never cheated, but there were more than one ambiguous contact at that time. If I didn't deal with it then Well, now you and I don't know what's going to happen, and he doesn't know what's going to happen. In short, it won't be what it is now. I thought about it at that time, whether he will dislike me and my daughter for the rest of his life, even if he is safe in the past two years. , but in the future, will you find another woman to have a son?" Mrs. Qin smiled, "Now more than 20 years have passed, and it turns out that he did not. He is also very good to you, isn't he?"

    "How did you do it?"

    Mrs. Qin touched her daughter's head: "This method and countermeasure, of course, different methods are different for different people. As for your father, he must be strong, big man. Pretending to be generous and pitiful, as if I was blaming me for not giving birth to a son, but I was very pitiful and quietly showed him my knowledge. The reason for having boys and girls is the man's reason. Then I pretended to plan a life without him. , how can I live with my daughter, can't hold him back, he is a successful entrepreneur, how can he do without a son? Of course, I also secretly let him imagine how miserable the abandoned women and children are, not only Life was difficult, and he had to be ridiculed and ridiculed by everyone. At that time, he was stimulated to hate the heartless man who abandoned his wife and children."

    Qin Yufei thought about it for a while, and yes, a few years ago, a man in the company went to the company and scolded her husband for looking for a mistress for abandoning the family. Her father fired him in a fit of anger. Could it be that it was all taught by her mother back then?

    Mrs. Qin continued: "not only to make him feel sorry for you, but also to let him know how miserable he is after being carried away by the female jackal outside. These things can't be explained in a few words. Clearly, but sometimes women really don't need to be afraid to soften their posture. Being soft doesn't mean that you ask him. When you are considerate of his shortcomings and faults, you should also let him know the bottom line. My bottom line is very simple, any form of I can't accept cheating. Your dad knows. We almost broke up, he was scared, and we've been fine since then. Of course there are quarrels, there are cold wars, there are frictions. But you say Why do I have confidence that he would not dare to cheat or not cheat? This confidence is what I have been running for 30 years. Running a family is no easier than running a company. Judgment, patience, timing, countermeasures, concessions, rewards, punishments, only these can work well ."

    Qin Yufei frowned: "But what's the point of this, it's too tiring, it's too boring to live like this."

    Mrs. Qin smiled: "how can you be tired. Say what you think is a big thing, in fact, everyone lives like this every day. So do you. When judging things, one day you don't need to be patient. You drive to the road and there is a traffic jam, you endure it. Your customers are difficult, you endure, think of countermeasures, even if you don't cooperate, you have to think about how to say no, right? Even when you eat, you can't put food in your mouth immediately when you are hungry, so you have to endure it. If you don't have fried fish sticks, you can eat fried chicken wings instead. Isn't it a concession? Do you feel tired and can't go on? These things, no Is it done in a blink of an eye and a second thought? It will really make you feel tired and feel really unbearable, but in fact, you will not be able to bear it at all.”

    Qin Yufei was stunned. Suddenly, I thought that I had been enduring Gu Yingjie's harassment, and had been enduring not to say goodbye to him. So it's not that she couldn't bear it, she even looked forward to his daily text message to see what he would say.

    If you really can't bear it, you won't be able to bear it at all.

    "There is another very important point, a very, very important point." Mrs. Qin said, "If all your judgments and countermeasures are effective, it must be because you have a deep relationship. Otherwise, everything is in vain. He loves you, so he will be willing to be taught by you."

    Qin Yufei pursed her lips, she felt that Gu Yingjie loved her. So can she tune him | teach him? Kick those nasty women away with a kick?

    "He will do as much for you as you have done for him." Mrs. Qin put her arms around her daughter lovingly, "You must first judge whether he is worth doing a lot for him. Women who give selflessly are stupid, and women who only want to ask are stupid."

    So she has to change first? "What if I just can't stand a little trouble?"

    "Then you can find someone who is undisturbed. Look at Qiu Zhengqing, he can't be moved by eight winds. He is probably the kind that refuses women very ruthlessly, thinking that the other party is very ignorant. I guess." Mrs. Qin's tone was a little naughty. "Isn't this your ideal type?"

    Qin Yufei pouted, Mom, you are so old that pretending to be cute is really unbearable.

    Mrs. Qin laughed: "Actually, it's all good, you will figure it out yourself. Even if it's a lovelorn, you're not afraid. You must have felt sad when you lost your love at the beginning, but now it's different. I fell in love, and I found someone I like again. So it’s okay to fall out of love. I also thought at the beginning, I’m not afraid of breaking up, I’m so beautiful, my daughter is so cute, if this man is gone, maybe I can find another better one.”

    "But you just said that the ghost knows what's next. Now this is more important."

    "Yes, that's right." Mrs. Qin plausibly said, "Now this is more important, you must pay attention to it, and don't just throw people away as garbage. But it's not the world if you lose it. Doomsday, the days are still to pass, and there are still good men. Women, they can endure the pain and loss, and then they can enjoy happiness. These emotional experiences correspond to each other. Only when you have experienced bitterness and tasted sweetness do you know that it is true How sweet, how sweet."

    Qin Yufei gritted his teeth and thought seriously. Mrs. Qin bumped her with her shoulder, "You are my daughter, I don't believe that there is a man who is more difficult to handle than your father. Gu Yingjie sees a warm and gentle man, so he should be very good at teaching. Your father was only called one back then. Stubborn."

    "Then, he promised to change this time, so I will forgive him?"

    "That won't work."

    "Why not?"

    "You leave him alone. You care about yourself first. Forgive when you're ready, or you're just accusing."

    Qin Yufei asked, "What if you are not well prepared?"

    "Then break up."

    "..." Qin Yufei's heart sank, and he suddenly felt sad.

    "If you're not ready, why do you trap yourself and the other party? Let's find something better."

    Qin Yufei's eyes turned red. Without Gu Yingjie's life, she really couldn't imagine it.

    "Are you afraid?"

    Qin Yufei nodded.

    "What about him, will he be afraid?"

    Should I? He kept begging her for forgiveness in such a hurry. So Qin Yufei nodded again.

    "After a long time, I won't be afraid." Mrs. Qin said.

    Qin Yufei was hit in the head again.

    "So, you still have to solve it as soon as possible. No one can stand being dragged on for a long time, and your heart will fade. You don't have to think about others, think about yourself. ."

    Qin Yufei could not deny it. If she changed her temper, it might not last a week at all.

    "Go to him, tell him what you think, don't make any decisions. Then you go on a trip, change place, and let yourself calm down. It's his problem, or yours Problems, or do you all have problems? Then ask your own wisdom, what to do.”

    Qin Yufei thought and thought, suddenly grabbed her mother: "Mom, why did you never teach me this."

    "I'm not waiting for you to bring your boyfriend back, mother and daughter can learn from each other. As a result, you haven't. I have nothing to teach and I'm also very depressed."

    "I'm going to sue Dad. He's been tricked by a woman for decades."

    "Then he will die of pride. A man with a bad temper and a bad temper has a woman as good as me who has deliberately calculated him, calculated him to be healthy, have a successful career, a harmonious family, and a filial daughter , he has to go to the ancestral grave to pay homage and kowtow to thank him."

    Qin Yufei couldn't help laughing, hugging his mother coquettishly: "Mom, I don't want to wait for the next one, the ghost knows what the next one will be like. I just want this now."

    "If you're sure he's worth your effort, go for it."

    Gu Yingjie did not know that the mother and daughter of the Qin family had such a conversation. He drove to the mall and wandered around. First, he didn't want to let himself idle, and second, he wanted to find a gift that would make Qin Yufei happy. After walking, he was tired, and when he was resting on a bench, a man sat down beside him and spoke loudly on the phone: "It's actually very easy for a man to get a woman, it's just a trick."

    Gu Yingjie didn't take it seriously. If you pretend to be sick, Qin Yufei will shoot him to death.

    I don't know what the person on the other end of the phone said, the man on the phone continued: "It's not that you really die. Death is unpredictable and makes her afraid that you will have an accident. Wouldn't it be enough? Buying a gift and going out and getting hit to death isn't a common occurrence."

    Gu Yingjie was moved. He suddenly thought of Qin Yufei's sadness. The reason why she wants to go to America to see the star lights.

    The man next to him walked away, Gu Yingjie looked at his back and thought it was strange, but he was very happy, he thought he had found a way.

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