Couple reborn in 1977 before marriage

After thinking for a while, Zhou Lian said gently, "well, when I'm at home, the children spend time with the children when they have time. At other times, they mostly stay in the study for a long time!"

"Well, don't you have to do housework?" teacher Fei asked curiously. When she came home, she washed, cooked and accompanied the children. She basically didn't have much time to do her own things!

Some embarrassed bowed her head. Zhou Lian whispered, "I didn't do housework. At the beginning, my wife did it. Later, the conditions at home were better. I wanted to have class and have two children. My wife hired a big sister to help. Now my wife and big sister do all the housework."

The two female teachers looked at Zhou Lian with envy, and fixed their eyes on her beautiful and rare, slender, white and delicate hands. The nails were shining blue, soft and pearly. At first glance, they were carefully maintained. This is really a typical example of "ten fingers do not touch the spring water of the sun"!

"Doesn't your lover have to go to work? Men don't have to make money to support their families. He has to go home and do housework. Isn't he tired?" teacher Xie looked at Zhou Lian curiously and asked.

Looking up at the three former teachers and colleagues with different faces, Zhou Lian gently said: "of course, when we first got married, we lived in our hometown. At that time, we didn't contract production to the household. We all worked with the production team. He got up early every day, washed and cooked, and then came to Kyoto, too. But now he has his own company, and time will be more free."

"Then your lover really hurts you. A man works very hard outside. He usually doesn't want to move when he gets home. His daughter-in-law often loses his temper with me!" teacher Xie said with some emotion.

Looking at teacher Xie, Zhou Lian retorted with some glutinous: "it's not only teacher Xie that you go to work, but also teacher Xie's mother doesn't go to work at home?"

"Come on! There are old and young at home. How can I support a large family with my own salary?"

Listening to what teacher Xie should have said, Zhou Lian glanced and said with some dissatisfaction: "then you're very tired after a day's work, and your teacher's mother won't be tired at work? My wife said that there is a great difference in the natural constitution between men and women. They're all in the same day's work. Shouldn't men bear more? Anyway, my wife won't let you work so hard!"

"Moreover, women are naturally weak in physique. In addition, after marriage, they get pregnant and have children. It's a big life for a small life. They still have to follow the man's surname, work to earn money, be filial to their father-in-law when they go home, take care of their children, and serve men in the middle. Why?" Zhou Lian said with some grievances.

Mr. Xie opened his mouth but couldn't say it. He didn't know how to refute Zhou Lian's words. He said that it has been like this since ancient times. Then he can let the three women's armies in the office run to death. It's good not to talk.

"Isn't that what you say? It's all raised by life's parents. Who can be more noble than who, and what makes the same money. Women have to be busy when they get home, and men have to be uncle as soon as they get off work!" teacher Fan said angrily.

Teacher Zhang looked at Zhou Lian with envy and asked her, "did you marry your lover in free love? Has he always loved you so much?"

"It's not free love. We were in our hometown at that time. The defense between men and women was quite serious. We met on a blind date. According to the standard instructions of parents and matchmakers, my wife once said that the daughter-in-law should be spoiled when she marries home. Otherwise, it's just to find a nanny. Why should she marry her daughter-in-law!" Zhou Lian said lightly.

"That's nice!" teacher Fei whispered. In fact, in addition to these three words, she doesn't know what else to say. No matter how envious, other people's life is always other people's, and no matter how, she won't become her own!

Looking at Zhou Lian's hands that don't touch the sun and spring water, and then looking at her exquisite face, regardless of her age, who can believe that she is already 30 years old, but whether it's her face or her eyes, she's about 20 years old. Sometimes miss Zhang thinks in her heart, this girl really needs heaven's blessing, but now think about what heaven's blessing, But someone really loves it and dotes on it!

Looking at the appearance of the three teachers, Zhou Lian swallowed her saliva and gently asked, "is this the case with marriage? Will there be chicken feathers for a long time? Will people who love again?"

"Well, anyway, it's the first time I've seen you and your lover like this! Marriage is like this, don't say it!" teacher Xie said a little depressed. Who doesn't like good things, no matter what it is!

After looking at teacher Xie, Zhou Lian forbeared, but still couldn't help it. She asked him curiously, "teacher Xie, just like housework, don't you want to go home and help your mother share some? She has also been working for a day and is very tired. What's more, a woman's family is so hard. Don't you feel bad? Don't you want to support each other for a lifetime?"

After listening to Zhou Lian's words, Mr. Xie was completely stunned. Yes, why can't he share some? They went home from work before and after. When he came home, he read books and newspapers, and then waited for dinner. At most, he would help the children with their homework. Then, he didn't wake up. The next day, after washing and eating, he began a new day, Over and over again, I can't say a few words with my daughter-in-law one day. I make trouble every day because of trivial things. Whose fault is this

"In fact, things at home are trivial and grinding, but they are fixed. They are just those things every day. Two people must do it much faster than one person. Then you can use the saved time to talk, talk about your heart and cultivate your feelings. Isn't it okay?"

Looking at the shocked appearance of the three colleagues, Zhou Lian curled her lips and continued: "my wife won't let him do this, but when he works, I will also be around him, talk to him, talk about home, or sometimes read him a poem and tell him that I'm here and I'm right next to you!"

"Both husband and wife are separate individuals. Marriage allows two people who are not related by blood to live together, have children and grow old together. Then try to live happily. People's life is very short. Happiness is a lifetime, and unhappiness is a lifetime. Why not try to live a little happier!"

"In fact, people can live up to 30000 days, and one day will be less. They were married at the beginning, so have a good life. Talk, talk more, and speak out their heart. The other party is the one they want to accompany for a lifetime. There's nothing to say. Listen to what the other party says. Two people are together, compromise, change and work together, just like a balance, If the left and right sides are equal, they will be balanced. No matter which party pays too much or too little, the balance will lose balance, and the marriage may be in danger! "