Entertainment: The most bitter actor, the whole network

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Now, the old lady has completely understood.

She looked a little excited.

“You mean, for Xiaoshuang to go to school, and also to buy clothes for her?”

Lin Gu nodded.

In the eyes of the old lady, two turbid tears suddenly flowed down.

“Good-hearted people, good-hearted people”

“Thank you, thank you.”

After speaking, the old lady wanted to kneel on the ground and kowtow to Lin Gu.

Lin Gu didn’t dare to accept this, he quickly jumped to the ground and supported the old lady.

Help her back to the kang.

Lin Gu said seriously.

“Grandma, Xiaoshuang’s grades are so good, our family is in a difficult situation, so we have to support it, right?”

“In the future, if you have any difficulties, please contact us, just talk to Village Chief Wu!”

“No matter what difficulties, we can always overcome them. We can’t delay our children’s schooling and education.”

The old lady nodded vigorously.

“Yes, yes, it’s not that I don’t want Xiaoshuang to go to school. I can’t afford it. If you can help me, I am very grateful to you. They are all living Bodhisattvas!”

This matter is settled like this.

Next to him, Zhao Yunshan’s eyes were straightened!

He felt that what Lin Gu said was no different from what he said!

Why did the old lady react completely differently after hearing this?

Hearing what he said, he said angrily that he was not allowed to read it.

Hearing what Lin Gu said, I was so moved

Although he came to help, Zhao Yunshan was still a little bit aggrieved

Looking at Zhao Yunshan’s appearance, Lin Gu smiled, and secretly said to Zhao Yunshan.

“It’s not that the old lady doesn’t feel sorry for her granddaughter, but do you think she can hear what’s going on in your way? The old lady is so old, if she is in a hurry, she might forget that Xiaoshuang went to school because of us. ”

Zhao Yunshan’s complexion was a little red.

He suddenly understood something.

Lin Gu turned around and smiled gently.

Doing charity is definitely not simply throwing money down and getting it done.

Solving difficulties, solving the difficulties in the life and heart of the poor, this is the essence of charity!

If you use a lofty attitude and a charity attitude.

Then doing charity may not be a good thing.

Chapter 160: Li Shuang: I can only eat meat once a year, I want to eat it with my dad during the Chinese New Year!

Chapter 160

160: Li Shuang: I can only eat meat once a year. I want to eat it with my dad during the Chinese New Year!

Would anyone like others to “give alms” to themselves?

No.

Even those who really can’t survive, they only beg for charity from others because they want to survive!

But in fact, no one would want to accept other people’s charity.

Like the old lady, who used to be a very powerful person in ten miles and eight villages, the anger in her heart is even stronger!

You treat me like this?

Then I’ll fight against you!

Don’t care if you are here to do good deeds, your attitude just won’t work!

Some people may think that it is not good for others to help you with this attitude.

But if the old lady is a cultured, insightful, and capable person.

Will it still be difficult at home?

As the saying goes, poor people must have something to hate.

The reverse is also the same

Any person who makes people feel uncomfortable and hateful will have something to make people feel pitiful.

Even those murderers, they were not born murderers

Although the words are not pleasant to hear, it is the truth!

In a normal society, such ethics and morals can of course be said casually.

It is possible to suppress these people even with the pressure of the fishing boat.

But poor households, this is really an “abnormal” group, not abnormal in the general sense, but their living environment, psychological state, way of doing things, etc., are different from normal people.

Upper decision decided by the economic background.

If you don’t have money, you can do anything

For example, in the countryside, it is easy for everyone to quarrel over trivial matters.

Where there is a lot of noise, it is possible to use a knife directly!

Why?

Because, 133 is probably a few hundred dollars

These things are not a problem in the city, among those knowledgeable, cultured and insightful groups.

Because they all “understand”.

But, for a group like the old lady, what does she know?

You said “Special Support Plan for Poor Students” to her, but she couldn’t understand a word.

If you don’t speak well in a way she can understand, the old lady will never cooperate!

This is also the main reason why many grassroots staff work slowly

If you don’t understand these people, then you won’t be able to enter their circle of life.

If you cannot understand their way of thinking, then it is impossible to have any normal communication with them.

What Zhao Yunshan said, in terms of meaning, is no different from what Lin Gu said.

It is to let the family support Li Shuang to go to school, and Li Shuang’s school expenses, I hope the project will pay for it all!

However, with Zhao Yunshan’s method, the old lady just didn’t agree.

And the reasons are all the ones that sound ridiculous to normal people!

Because Zhao Yunshan’s tone was too urgent and fierce, the old lady thought that this person was not good to her family;

Because she couldn’t understand what he said, the old lady felt that he had extra intentions for her!

And what Lin Gu said, although the meaning is similar.

But his tone is good, and his words are understandable to the old lady.The old lady trusted him.

The old lady can slowly understand what Lin Gu said.

After all.

In this day and age, even the elderly can barely understand what the young people say.

But the premise is that you have to speak well, using words and ways they can understand!

After listening to Lin Gu’s words.

Zhao Yunshan blushed.

Since he, an “old guy” who has worked for many years, is not as good as a “newcomer” like Lin Gu in dealing with grassroots issues.

This made Zhao Yunshan feel guilty, but also began to reflect on his behavior.

After all, Zhao Yunshan didn’t have any bad intentions.

But if you don’t have bad intentions, you can definitely do good things?

uncertain!

Zhao Yunshan recalled so many things he had experienced in these years, and found that if he talked about it in Lin Gu’s way, although not all problems could be solved smoothly.

But it shouldn’t be a problem to solve more than half of it!

As for the possible grievances and misunderstandings in this process

Over the years, he has suffered less grievances, hasn’t he?

Doing charity work is difficult at both ends!

It is difficult to take money from other people’s pockets, and it is also difficult to distribute the money reasonably and fairly!

Those rich people in the upper class are all monkey spirits.

But after all, they can communicate well.

As long as it makes sense and you meet more kind people, you may get a lot of money.

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What about the following people?