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"If you do this, what will happen to my family?"Yang Mi didn't know what to do either.

"First of all, do you want your child to have your last name or mine?"Liang Lin asked Yang Mi what she planned.

"Why are you asking this? I must have your last name."In Yang Mi's opinion, isn't this certain?

"It’s better not to be so sure. I promised Xiao Tong’s parents before that when the time comes to give birth to a child, I will let the child bear her surname."

"Since I promised Xiao Tong that the child she gave birth to will bear her surname, then the same goes for you."

"As long as you are an only child, I can take your last name when you have a child."

"Like you, Fei Fei, Reba, Hani, Xiao Tong, Mao Gui, Chao Yue, Sister Qi, and Sister Lan can all be used"

"Yingbao, Naixiao and Naochen all have younger brothers, so there is no need to worry."

Liang Lin thought so, and he was quite open-minded.

After all, they all followed him together, and they had given up a lot.

After following him, there was no wedding, no way to register, and they were destined not to have everything a woman could have. , and share a man.

In this case, Liang Lin felt that there would be no problem if the child had their last name.

"Don’t worry about this now, we’ll talk about it when you have your second baby."Yang Mi feels that there is no need to worry now.

When the second child is born, she can consider giving her last name to the child.

It is only the first child now, so she does not need to worry. She can wait until 28

"That's right, don't think about this, wait until the time comes."This is also the case in Zeng's opinion. Since they have said so, Liang Lin has agreed to them. Just wait until the second child is born to let the child have their last name.

"As long as our parents don't ask for it, we'll still have your last name."

"If my parents ask, it would be nice to have my last name again."Guan Xiaotong also expressed his position.

"Back then, my mother also wanted to test you, so she asked like this."

"But in fact, you have pampered me so much in the past few years, and they have long been relieved."

"So it doesn't matter whether they have our last name or not."What Guan Xiaotong said is right.

They all agreed very much and felt that their husbands were good enough to them.

However, Liu Yifei asked Liang Lin:"By the way, I went back to worship my ancestors during the Double Ninth Festival last year."

"Didn’t you say that your grandparents, parents, and grandparents will be buried together this year?"

"How is this arranged?"The fact that Liu Yifei asked about this also shows that she cares about it.

Speaking of this, Liang Lin was also helpless:"I went back to worship my ancestors during the Double Ninth Festival last year."

"I’ve gone to my husband to figure it out, and I’ve seen the days, but last year the Double Ninth Festival was during the National Day."

"There will be less than three months to come, there is no suitable day"

"It does happen this year, but it is said that there will be good days in May."

"But given the current situation, it’s hard to say when the lockdown will be lifted."

"Even if the lockdown is lifted in May, it is estimated that large gatherings will not be held in this situation. After all, if there is a joint funeral, there will definitely be a banquet."

"I would like to invite the whole village from my hometown to help, and we will also prepare a banquet."

"So looking at it now, even if we can have a joint funeral in May this year, it will be fine, but we can’t have a banquet."

"If we don't follow the country's arrangements and really do this kind of large-scale banquet event, we will be taking the lead in not following the country's arrangements. It will be bad if word gets out by then."

"I've been thinking about it for the past two days, and I'm afraid I won't be able to do it this year."

Speaking of this, Liang Lin was also very helpless. This year is really a good time.

In addition, Liang Lin also said:"And the child will be born this year."

"It doesn’t seem like a good idea to do this now, right?"Liang Lin doesn't quite understand this either.

"The child is about to be born, so this shouldn’t matter, right?"

"If this is relevant, then I'm afraid you won't be able to bury your grandparents and parents together in the next ten years, because you have many wives. Starting from this year, we sisters will definitely get pregnant and give birth to children one after another."Yang Mi also expressed her opinion.

"yes."Zhao Liying also thinks this is the case. If this is the case, I'm afraid she won't be able to do it in the next ten years.

"Too."Now that I think about it, he also thinks so.

"Otherwise, let's leave it at that, in another two years."That's what Liang Lin thought. He might as well

"We have to wait until 2023, which will be exactly 20 years by then"

"Moreover, in 2023, the child will be about 3 years old. It will be time to take the child back. After the joint burial, the child can also pay homage and burn incense."

That's what Liang Lin thought. He might as well wait until 2022.

Firstly, it's exactly 20 years. Secondly, it happens to be that time when the children are older. When the time comes, they can also let the children offer incense sticks to the elderly. fair enough

"And by 2023, the current disease problem should also be solved."

"By then, whatever you do will be appropriate."In Liang Lin's view, 2023 is also the right year

"Yes, yes, but you also have to see if there is a suitable date in 2023?"

"Yes, you also have to check whether there are suitable days in that year."Zhao Liying also thinks so.

"I'll take a look and ask my husband about it then."Liang Lin doesn't know either. He has to find someone to find out.

"Anyway, with this year’s situation, we will definitely not be able to return to Qingming Festival."

"But for Double Ninth Festival, you have to look at the situation."As he said that, Liang Lin took out his phone and looked at the calendar.

"This year’s Double Ninth Festival is…October 25."

"According to the time calculation, Feifei and Mimi must have given birth on October 25th."

"But the problem is, if Yingbao is really born on October 16, then she must be in confinement during the Double Ninth Festival."After looking at the calendar, Liang Lin felt a little bit difficult.

"Oh, it’s okay. I’m not saying you can’t leave me during my confinement period."

"It doesn't matter if you only go back for two days."In Zhao Liying's view, this is nothing. (To read Baoshuang novels, go to Feilu Novel Network!)

"That's right, I'm just going back for two or three days, it doesn't matter."

"If I can’t go back for Qingming Festival this year, I will definitely go back for Chongyang Festival."Yang Mi also told her.

Yang Chaoyue on the side said:"To be honest, when I was dating my husband, I didn't actually go to ancestor worship with my family. Next year, our family will also go to the Qingming Festival, but I rarely go."

What Yang Chaoyue said is actually the choice and approach of many young people nowadays. Nowadays, many young people are unwilling to go back to visit their ancestors' tombs and worship their ancestors.

Let alone their ancestors, many young people do not even go back to pay homage to their ancestors." My parents visited the graves of their ancestors.

"In fact, you can think about it this way"

"Sorry to say something unlucky"

"Even if we leave in eighty or ninety years, our children and grandchildren will not come back to offer you incense on days like Qingming, Double Ninth Festival, or death anniversaries."

"How will you feel now? Will it be uncomfortable?"

Liang Lin asked Yang Chaoyue to think about it for a moment.

After he finished speaking, he also said:"Although we will all be gone and dead by then, we don't know whether or not our descendants will come to help us. Incense"

"However, now that we are doing well, we can use our actions to invisibly teach our children about the fine traditions and customs of loyalty to the country, such as offering incense sticks to our deceased elders and ancestors, so that they can become children who understand Respect and remember the deceased elders"

"Don't you feel proud to have your child become such a person?"

After hearing this, Yang Chaoyue also felt that this made sense.[]

A hundred years later, I will be gone and buried, and I don’t even know if my descendants will come to offer incense, even if it is said to be superstitious.

But this is the tradition and custom passed down by Zhongguo for thousands of years.

No matter if we are no longer here a hundred years from now, we still don’t know that our descendants will come to offer incense.

But it is good if you can use your own behavior and actions to influence and teach your descendants and children to become a person who knows how to respect and remember their deceased elders.

These need to be passed down. It does not mean that if we die a hundred years later, we will not know whether our children came to offer incense, so we do not need to do these things.

Because you can influence your children and become such a person, then your children are filial, and this is success.

"You are still too young. Liu Yifei said to her with a smile.

"In fact, I haven’t gone back to my hometown for more than ten years, and I have offered incense to my grandparents."

"It was only after I got together with my husband that I discovered that he was very good at returning home to worship ancestors during the Qingming Festival and Double Ninth Festival. I also thought that a hundred years later, my children would be able to come back and offer me incense sticks. I was very touched, although maybe I didn’t know or see it at that time"

"But I can think of my own children doing this, and now I am very happy and proud."

It depends on how you look at this kind of thing.

Moreover, benevolent people have different opinions on these things. Some people think that if you go back to burn incense for your ancestors during the Qingming Festival, can it really bless him with health, safety and wealth?

Of course. Yes, this is not certain, or even impossible.

But in fact, the purpose is not at all, but this is the deep-rooted romance of Zhongguo people.

It is also the tradition and fine virtues that Zhongguo people inherit from a few years ago.

Some people I feel that if I go back to worship, it will not really bless me with wealth, so I don’t go to worship.

This depends on the individual’s mentality, personality and behavior in the world, and cannot be generalized.