Female CEO's personal driver

In the circle, small skills can be shown off in front of the boss, while big skills should be hidden, and the deeper the better.

What is a boss? When you need to work for him, he always pays attention to you with a smile, always moves your fragile nerves with beautiful words, and makes you happy and excited. This man is your boss.

What is a boss? When you don't need you to provide him with any help, but you need his regular help, you are always dismissive, absent-minded and indifferent to your hospitality to him, always have an uncomfortable feeling about your talent performance, suppress you everywhere, and are always domineering to give you some advice. This man is also your boss.

The boss is always the boss and the subordinate is always the subordinate. The boss and you are approachable, and you and the boss are the person in charge without long eyes. Don't forget yourself when you see your boss casually with you.

The boss is the kind of person who can shift the responsibility to others at any time. When some bosses are angry or excited, they can talk freely, talk generously, talk about their unhappiness with their subordinates, and even vent their anger. You think you can open your heart and talk with your heart. That's a big mistake. Once the news gets out, the boss can push it clean, and it's his own misfortune in the end. In addition, some bosses engage in infighting. You bind me and I bind you. You can compete in any way. Those who are subordinates can only watch quietly and don't meddle in it. If you want to hang in front of the side, you should draw a line and line up for you. If you can't eat at that time, go around.

To be a subordinate, the most important thing is to be able to accept anger. Having the boss's instructions is a good quality in your ears. Maybe you don't think the boss deserves your respect, but on the scene, you must protect the face of your superiors. You must not fail to understand the rules and destroy the rules of the game that everyone carefully respects. If you can't do it, Think like this: what I respect is not him, but the seat under his ass, but the black hat on his head, but the scepter in his hand. All I do is to let this seat see and let this seat remember myself. Therefore, the more you look down on people, the more respect you have on the scene, To serve the gods, you should know that the subordinates who are not criticized by the boss must be the most unlucky subordinates; Why does the boss dare to scold his subordinates like his own children? It's because he is his own. Therefore, sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing for the boss to respect his subordinates.

This is the case in the circle. If the boss takes you as a pawn and a grandson, he looks down on you; If the boss treats you as a master, you must be a real grandson. "

"In other words, the more the boss scolds you, the more he attaches importance to you?" Li Wenlong interrupted.

"It doesn't have to be like this. Such things depend on the situation. Some bosses are jealous of virtue and ability. Such bosses can't see that the people below are better than him, so they will try to tease you from time to time. For people like this, you should be more careful. You must be vigilant and clear-minded at all times, and don't be caught by the other party, Otherwise, you will be scolded bloody. Some people with poor endurance may become ill because of depression, so that they lose their fighting spirit and have no upward determination and courage. " Speaking of this, Lin Xuemei sighed, "when you didn't come, a section chief of the company was like this. Originally, his ability to be a boss was more than enough. However, the vice president in charge of him was jealous of his ability and made trouble for him everywhere. However, he thought that the vice president was an ignorant person and had no real ability, So he confronted the deputy general manager in charge of him. As a result, the deputy general manager used a certain relationship. He not only went to his position as section chief, but also got him to another humble place. Moreover, the person in charge of that place was the uncle of the deputy general manager. There, the person who was originally very promising to be superior was pressed for five years, five years, what a good life, It was buried like this. Later, the person in charge thought he was talented and wanted to be promoted and reused, but he found that he no longer had an advantage in age, so he had to give up reluctantly. Now, the man is in his 40s and still sits in the position of section member, and a young man who was originally handsome and handsome has entered the ranks of the elderly early, although he is in his 40s, His hair was all white. In the final analysis, it was because he didn't recognize the situation and didn't realize the importance of contradicting his direct boss. A while ago, I met him once at a meeting in a government office. Now, he does miscellaneous work in the office there. Those vice presidents in their twenties and seventies can call him at will. "

"It's really sad. The vice president is not a thing," said Li Wenlong.

"This is not a personal problem, but a problem of the whole system. In such a general situation, it is such a trend." after the baptism of the circle, Lin Xuemei is very open to many things. "The boss is the authority. The boss's words are golden rules, instructions, dogma and truth. Now, all levels emphasize the legal society and advocate the rule of law, What is the law, according to what law? It is quite common for the boss to do things well, so long as he is good at the boss, it is a common occurrence. The boss can not be a boss. The promotion is simply so. The status quo of the responsible person is doomed to be "has the final say". The subordinate worships the boss, and then the superior gives you the corresponding power, or holds an umbrella over your head to keep you safe. If the boss is uncomfortable one day, the boss will have to take back the little power in your hand, and the umbrella over your head may become a hanging sword, I don't know when the boss will cut off your head as soon as he let go.

In any circle or unit, there are no contradictions, only interests, no right and wrong, but only utilization. The so-called utilization is that the boss uses his subordinates to work for him, and the subordinates use his boss to obtain corresponding interests. Apply a wise saying of the Western business community: first, the boss is always right. Second, if the boss is wrong, please refer to Article 1, What does this mean? It means that the boss can't be wrong at all. The reason why he is wrong is that his subordinates may think that the boss is wrong. Therefore, don't try to hold the boss's pigtail unless you really control the boss's little secret, but yes, even that, Maybe you've been cleaned up by the boss for various reasons before you get any benefits from controlling this little secret. Now, isn't it popular to be sick, hospitalized and resigned? That's what it says. As long as the boss wants to pick you up, he can definitely find a reason to clean you up, and you're perfect, It's hard for you to be dumb to eat Coptis chinensis. This is the realm, a realm that people in high positions need to cultivate, and there are many already possessed. "

"Well, I have a deep understanding of this." after listening to Lin Xuemei's words, Li Wenlong nodded heavily. "I remember when I was in the army, the instructor once told us that he took an exam. One of the questions was this: the two armies fought on the battlefield. As the head of the front-line command, If you find that a boss's command is wrong in the battle, what should you do? There are three options: first, execute, second, do not execute, and third, report while executing. Sister Lin, you said, "if it's you, which one should you choose?"

"Of course, the first answer was implemented." without thinking, Lin Xuemei blurted out.

"Why?" Li Wenlong asked in surprise, "shouldn't we choose three according to the consistent way of thinking?"

"Choice three must be wrong, right?" Lin Xuemei tilted her head and smiled.

"Yes, the correct answer is execution." Li Wenlong sighed. "At that time, I couldn't turn around for several days after listening to the instructor give the correct answer. At that time, I wondered what was wrong with the implementation and reporting here."

"Of course it's not right. All localities insist that the boss's words should be implemented to the letter, not to mention the army. In the army, military orders are falling like a mountain. You think the boss's plan is wrong, but what if the boss gave you a wrong plan to implement, let you be cannon fodder and buy time for other troops? So, The correct answer to this question should be execution. "

"Well, that's it. Later, the instructor explained to us that" Li Wenlong nodded. "However, later, the instructor also said that in fact, this question more reflects the boss's words, that is, you can't disobey such a truth. Even if you risk losing your life, you have to implement it, and you have to implement it to the letter."

"Yes, the boss's hobby is your hobby, and the boss's action is your compass. Haven't you heard that the shortcut to promotion in the circle can be summed up in three points: the boss fishes you go to the countryside, the boss uses money to divide dirty, and the boss is a good woman. You whore. If these three points are well controlled, you can be closely tied with the boss. As long as you become an online grasshopper with the boss, do you think the promotion will be far away? These days, who will run the relationship has the most face, and many people will shake their relationship with the backstage intentionally or unintentionally, so as to make the people around you look at you. "When she said, Lin Xuemei decided to test Li Wenlong's look, intentionally or unintentionally, knocking the cup gently.

Seeing this, Li Wenlong quickly got up and poured out the water in Lin Xuemei's cup. At this moment, the relationship between the two people virtually became an upgraded relationship with their subordinates, without any emotional factors. All the actions Li Wenlong did were very natural. He felt that this was what a driver should do, Lin Xuemei is satisfied that Li Wenlong can do it all the time and clearly realize that he should put his position right. At least in Lin Xuemei's eyes, it is very good. You know, many people rely on their relationship with their boss. They don't take their boss as their master in private and feel that they can be on an equal footing with their boss, In fact, you are very wrong. Even if there are only two people, the boss has a strong sense of superiority. If you really treat your boss as a friend, you can wait to go home and take your children!

"At that time, we were like this in the army." put down the kettle in our hands and Li Wenlong took over the conversation. "When we just entered the army at that time, the monitor would ask you if it had any relationship. If it had any relationship, especially in the year when we went to study, we fought there, and each one was harder than the other. I remember at that time, A friend was a field commander. He thought he was very good. He swayed his arms around all day and didn't look at others. A few days later, a monitor who went out to study came back. He heard that there was such a No. 1 hanging soldier. Without saying a word, he was beaten. After being beaten, the boy shouted to the monitor to wait to be cleaned up, Then he cried and called to find the team leader. As a result, the team leader was sent back with two words. Guess what, the monitor of others is the relationship of a chief of staff of the military region. Because of his lack of education, he can only be the person in charge of the sergeant. In that team, even the team leader should be afraid of three points, but he is very low-key on weekdays. "

"Indeed, some people are relatively low-key and don't like to expose their relationship to others. Do you know Jiang MI in our unit?" Lin Xuemei said with a smile.

"Chief Jiang of the finance department, why don't you know!" Li Wenlong asked in surprise, "does she have a strong background relationship?"

"Well, his old man was the big head above," Lin Xuemei nodded. "But look at her, she still just stayed in our company as a section chief."

"Why?" Li Wenlong was surprised to grow up, and secretly smacked his tongue in his heart: he said that there was such a powerful Lao Tzu, and he was still in the real power department. According to his own speculation, he had to get a person in charge to do it. Why was he just a section chief in an enterprise? This time, he asked himself to compromise in order to enter the vice president, Isn't that weird?

"Why do you say?" Lin Xuemei smiled and took a sip of the water Li Wenlong had just poured her.

"I don't know," Li Wenlong shook his head and said in his heart that he didn't see how rich Jiang MI was. Although she dressed better than the rest of the section chiefs, she was definitely not a very luxurious one. Moreover, it is said that the little money she got in the unit didn't dare to have a public showdown with her husband. By the way, her husband is a big person in charge, and it's not right, Last time I saw her husband pick her up, it seemed that he drove a Xiali? Li Wenlong really doesn't understand this time.

"Hehe, this is a secret that few people know." Lin Xuemei said with a mysterious smile, "now is not the time to tell you. You will understand it slowly in the future. What I have to admire is that Minister Jiang's careful mind is definitely not under my father. Such a cadre who only works as the executive vice minister of the Municipal Organization Department is really a bit inferior."

At this moment, Lin Xuemei looked a little old-fashioned, as if she were the old man who once toured the south.

Jiang MI, is there a secret behind this beautiful woman who once wanted to seek her help? Li Wenlong is very interested in people. He always likes to explore other people's privacy, especially when people are more interested in each other's privacy. Although as a man, Li Wenlong still has some gossip psychology. Beautiful women and the descendants of the high responsible person are really imaginative.

"I tell you, don't think about Jiang MI. You can't touch such a woman." looking at Li Wenlong's distracted expression, Lin Xuemei couldn't help knocking.

"Don't worry, sister Lin, it won't," said Li Wenlong with a smile. "Since you were here, all women have been eclipsed in front of me."

"Come on, you! I don't know your nature yet. I said, "how many times has Hanyu come?" At the glance of Li Wenlong, Lin Xuemei said coyly. However, she is still sweet in her heart. Women are always easily confused by sweet words. Although she is the head of the Housing Authority, Lin Xuemei is a woman and naturally has the nature of women.

"Containing jade, what containing jade?" Li Wenlong wanted to pretend to be stupid. When he saw that Lin Xuemei wanted to be angry, he quickly changed his mouth and agreed: "you mean the sister Hanyu above? Is that your friend? "

"Not her. Who else?" Lin Xuemei said angrily, "this girl thought I didn't know. She came to you for a tryst when she had nothing to do. She thought it was very hidden."

Li Wenlong's heart clicked: originally, Lin Xuemei knew everything, but why didn't she say it all the time? Is it because she took into account my face? Or is it?

"Things in the past have been lifted in a stroke. I don't care how many times you have, and no matter what step you have reached in the end. Anyway, there must be no more in the future." Lin Xuemei at the moment is completely a posture of defending her home.

"No, it's been a long time." when Li Wenlong said this, he felt a little sorry. To tell the truth, as a man, no one can withstand the charm of Hanyu on the Kang, and no one can resist the madness of Hanyu on the Kang, especially a mature young woman, an enchanting and charming woman. All together, Let Li Wenlong want to stop and can't forget.

"Miss her, don't you?" How can Li Wenlong's expression Hide Lin Xuemei's golden eyes? Looking at Li Wenlong's expression, she knows what the other party is thinking. He couldn't help but owe his body and twisted Li Wenlong's ear.

"Nothing, nothing" this time, it seems that Lin Xuemei is really a little angry, because no woman can tolerate her man sitting in front of her, but she thinks of another woman in her heart.

"Nothing, look at your relaxed and happy appearance, it's obvious that you can't extricate yourself from it." Lin Xuemei angrily twisted Li Wenlong's ear, then sat back in her seat, turned her head away from Li Wenlong.

"Sister Lin, it's all my fault. I really don't dare to think about it again in the future, let alone do it. Sister Hanyu came once..." as he said, Li Wenlong seemed to realize something and it was too late to stop, because he found that Lin Xuemei opposite seemed to roar.

"You mean, you mean that woman really came?" Lin Xuemei said gnashing her teeth.

holy crap

It turned out that she had covered herself just now. She didn't know that hanyu had come. Now, everything has been exposed. It's over, it's over completely. Li Wenlong wanted to slap his two ears and said that he couldn't hide anything!

However, the words have been exported, and it's too late to take them back. We can only take one step at a time. No matter it's a strong wind or rainstorm, we can accept it as we should!

"Well, she really came once." Li Wenlong gritted his teeth and told Lin Xuemei that hanyu had come once. Of course, he omitted Hanyu's giving him money. As a man, Li Wenlong still has some self-esteem and doesn't want to be regarded as the object of being wrapped. Although he is not wrapped, he already has the fact of being wrapped.

"Just once?" At this moment, Lin Xuemei felt an inexplicable emptiness. Just now, everything she had was just routine, but she didn't expect such a thing to happen.