Female CEO's personal driver

If you have a good personal relationship with your boss, don't expose it easily, whether in public or private places, even when you are alone with your boss, if the boss doesn't take the lead in showing off the attitude of old friends, don't pretend to show off your relationship with your boss. In this case, It can only arouse the boss's disgust, and may even destroy the good relationship established before, because the boss's mind is very strange, and you will never think of what he is thinking. If you use your relationship with the boss to swagger in front of people, the boss will think you are bullying people and will have ideas about you. Once you have ideas, you will be finished, so, Even if you have a series of relationships with your boss, such as classmates, fellow townsmen, and even comrades in arms, if it's not at a very special time, don't move out these so-called "personal relationships", otherwise in the boss's opinion, you're taking advantage of the personal relationship between two people, and the boss doesn't like this kind of person the most, even if you have a personal relationship with me, I may definitely take care of you, but you must not take the lead in raising it. Even if it is really raised, I have to find a suitable reason to tell you at the right opportunity, and then let you remember this relationship.

Xie Qiang had a personal experience of this. When he first came to work, he once encountered such a thing. At that time, he transferred a leader. The next day, a female comrade in the unit began to grow wings and publicized his kinship with that leader. In fact, he was a distant relative, such a distant relative, If there are no special circumstances, it is estimated that they will not contact each other, but everyone in the circle knows that even distant relatives can sometimes become close relatives. Didn't you say that no one asks when they are poor in the downtown, and rich have distant relatives in the mountains. In the circle, as long as they are a little related, they will find a way to get close to this woman. Therefore, the big guy also looks at this woman differently, Especially when the woman told her position as the section chief in her mind, everyone seemed to think she was already the head of the Department. Who knows, from the disclosure of the woman to arrogance and then to decadence, she never saw any special care from the boss, and she was still the ordinary employee, She didn't want to be a section chief in a department as she said, but a male employee in the unit who was unknown on weekdays suddenly jumped from an ordinary employee to the section chief position that had been vacant, and that position was the position that the woman had always said. People were confused and went around to find out what method the man used, but, No powerful clues were found after inquiring. In the end, the leader solved the secret himself.

The head's grandmother and the male worker's grandmother are close sisters. The relationship between the two people is like this. The seemingly distant relationship played a role at such a specific moment, and the male worker was also very lucky. At that time, he happened to catch up with the head's grandmother's birthday. As a close sister, he was so old, Naturally, I hope I can go over and have a look, so the male worker "ran into" the top leader. Even so, the male worker is still respectful to the top leader and has not "called brothers". Even in the future, he has never looked for anything. What was the past or what was the past? It was just a chance encounter.

With such a relationship, the leader himself felt that if he didn't do anything, he would be too sorry for the grandmother who raised him, so there was the matter that the self righteous woman didn't get promoted, and the unknown man was promoted to section chief.

Xie Qiang has always kept that in mind. Therefore, even when he later learned Lin Wanjiang's true identity, he never made any request in person. Every time, Lin Wanjiang took care of it at an appropriate time. Especially when Lin Wanjiang first came to Central Plains Province, Xie Qiang didn't even lean on it, but always drifted away in the marginal area as Lin Wanjiang, At that time, he was not angry because he understood Xie Qiang's mind. The reason why Xie Qiang didn't rely on it was to wait for the opportunity. If Lin Wanjiang couldn't stand it, he would vote the key vote in his hand. Facts proved that he was right. It was precisely because he didn't publicize that Lin Wanjiang paid special attention to him, Every time he meets the most important thing, he will let him do it. Xie Qiang also knows that this is not only trust, but also a kind of capital accumulation. As long as the capital accumulation is enough, it will naturally go smoothly in the next promotion. Most importantly, there is a feature in the circle. As long as there is something to do, he can basically get benefits, This law even appears in any matter, so everyone scrambles to ask the superior boss to burden themselves, so someone keeps going to the superior to work, because as long as there is something, there will be a contact surface. If there is a contact surface, we have to coordinate and deal with the relationship in all aspects. How to deal with the relationship?

China's relationship handling methods are almost the same. It's nothing more than drinking and eating. If you add some weight, you'll be honest after drinking, take a bath and take it. All these are inseparable from the word "money". As long as you can take the money from your own hands, who won't put it in your own pocket? It's like a classic dialogue between the president of a bank and his son. The son of a president asked the president, "Dad, look, all the money in your bank belongs to those customers and depositors. How did you earn a house, a Mercedes Benz and a yacht? " The father said, "son, there is a piece of fat in the fridge. Bring it." Here comes my son.

"Put it back." The son sent it back again. When he came back, his son asked, "what do you mean?" The father replied, "do you have oil on your hand?"

After the money, if you can't leave anything, you can only say that this person is too stupid.

This is the real reason why some people want to do things very much.

Of course, people at Xie Qiang's level won't make small profits for this. He wants to accumulate capital. As long as the capital is accumulated to a certain extent, it's difficult to be superior. What he wants is that level, not some ethereal things.

If you want to be a boss, you should be open and can't help it. It's like the story of a grain boss in ancient times. Once, a grain boss was punished for the sinking of a grain ship. A superior boss rated the boss as "middle and lower" in the exam. When the boss learned about it, he neither put forward any opinions nor showed any fear. The superior boss then thought, "the sinking of the grain ship is not his personal responsibility, nor can he be saved by his personal strength", so he decided to change it to the "medium" level. The boss still didn't express his opinion. He didn't say a false thank-you or look moved. When the superior boss saw that he was very appreciative, he blurted out a compliment: "well, it's rare to be flattered or humiliated! Rare! " He immediately changed his achievements to the "middle and upper" level.

To be open is to keep an ordinary heart. When we open the history books, we will see that some people hide their gains and losses, honor and Disgrace in their hearts, while others forget themselves because they are favored and frown because they are humiliated. Only by maintaining an ordinary mind, can we be open-minded and avoid being surprised. Flattery is a high-level realm that can be opened. It is not a negative avoidance or disillusionment with the world of mortals, but a calm and calm away from fame and wealth and noise.

To bear it is to bear poverty and loneliness“ "Fame" and "profit" have great temptation. The desire for fame and wealth often makes people lose their reason and fall head over heels. Therefore, we should grasp ourselves at any time and under any circumstances. If the boss is full of fame and wealth, lust for profit and greedy for money, he will relax the transformation of world outlook, decline his ideology and morality, distort his outlook on life and values, ignore Party discipline and national law, pursue fame and fortune by all means, and eventually be corrupted by the temptation of power, money and beauty, resulting in moral degeneration, deviant behavior He violated the law and discipline, destroyed his future, and was despised by the party and the people.

If a boss wants to be open-minded, the first problem to be solved is to treat himself correctly, treat those things that seem unreasonable correctly, and treat the unreasonable as reasonable, especially Xie Qiang. Even if he is such a big boss, he has to be respectful and careful in front of Lin wanjiang, and behave like his grandson, Many people find it incredible and always feel that they can't understand this behavior. However, as a real stakeholder, they have to bear it, they have to bear this "humiliation under the face", they have to live in the barometer of the boss, they have to focus on the boss, take the boss as the premise, know how to advance and retreat at the right time, and know when they can be brothers with the boss, When should we take the boss like our ancestors? Only when we can bear the humiliation of our crotch can we become a general. Therefore, after working together for so many years, Xie Qiang took out the identity of an old friend for the first time. Because he knows it's suitable to do this at this time, because Lin Wanjiang reveals his personal feelings. In such a case, if you don't know how to treat it with a working attitude, it's too embarrassing for the boss. The boss can show his heart in front of you, which is an alternative trust of the boss. If you don't take the trust of the boss seriously, Then the boss won't take you seriously. The boss won't take you seriously. What future do you say you have? Maybe you still have a chance after the boss leaves here, but you should know that opportunities are fleeting. If you can't seize this opportunity, you will be a bit slower than others, because there will still be an age limit if you want to be in the top position in the circle, just like it was exposed on the Internet. What is said is that the age limit of the main subject is 35 and the deputy is 39, Department level is 44 years old, department level is 49 years old, and department level is 59 years old. If you haven't reached the specified level in the corresponding age group, you'd better find another job. Therefore, for those who want to ascend, age is also a very important part, and the boss's term of office is generally three to five years. During the three to five years of the boss's term of office, if you can't ascend smoothly, you will be three to five years old out of thin air. I believe everyone in the circle knows the consequences. Therefore, Xie Qiang doesn't dare to play tricks, He will soon reach the so-called ridge. If he can't smoothly enter the ranks of senior officials and bosses during Lin Wanjiang's term of office, he is likely to lose this opportunity forever.

When the boss reaches the vice ministerial level, if he can't firmly grasp the opportunity, he can only say that the previous rice and white flour have been eaten for nothing, and Xie Qiang, of course, is not willing to be a bucket. Therefore, he will take out the identity of an old friend to comfort Lin Wanjiang at this critical moment.