First Marriage, then love: wife, never divorce

“cough cough cough” ru Yu was drinking water and almost choked on it again. She glared at him and said, “don’t tell me you’re serious? ”

“Don’t tell me you’re serious? ” Ru Yu put down the cup in her hand and looked at him suspiciously. “Do you really intend to marry me? ”

“Of course I’m serious. Do I look like I’m not serious? ” Lei Zhenyu put down the chopsticks in his hand He looked at ru Yu and continued the previous topic with a serious expression. “I told you just now that I think we’re suitable for marriage. Marriage is marriage, not love. Marriage doesn’t have to be guided by love, but by the subjective condition of being suitable. ”

“A marriage without love, do you think it can last? ” Ru Yu shook her head She looked at Lei Zhenyu with a mocking gaze. “Or, Zhenyu Jun has stayed in the United States for too long and is used to the American lifestyle of racing against time, so even a marriage can directly cut off the long section of the previous relationship and enter a fast-food marriage. ”

Lei Zhenyu listened to her sarcastic words and did not make a fuss. He continued to sit upright He patiently said to her, “there is nothing bad about a fast-food marriage “although many people think that the premise of marriage must be love, they’re actually wrong. Love is an overly emotional thing, and emotional things tend to go bad. Marriage is rational and sacred. Marriage is a rational thing. As long as you stick to it, you’ll definitely be able to do it. But as for love, sometimes, even if you try your best to stick to it, you might not be able to hold it. ”

“Hehehe, Zhen Yu Jun is a lawyer after all. He has analyzed love and marriage so thoroughly. ” Ru Yu’s words were obviously filled with sarcasm. “unfortunately, Zhen Yu Jun’s theories are probably just empty words, right “In fact, marriage is also a kind of emotional thing, just like love. It is not something that you can definitely hold on to. I myself am a living example. I held on to my marriage for three years, but in the end, all I got was betrayal and cheating, ending in a divorce. ”

Lei Zhenyu still looked at her with a smile on his face. He did not argue with her sarcastic words After she finished speaking, he patiently explained, “Madam Che Ru Yu, of course I know about your situation. And what I said about sticking to the marriage is not for one person to work hard. Because marriage is the responsibility and obligation of two people. As long as the two of US work hard to stick to this marriage, as long as neither of us is willing to give up this marriage, at the same time, both parties must discuss and resolve any issues. We must treat this marriage in a rational way. Cheating and betrayal are not allowed. ”

Lei Zhenyu’s expression turned grave as he stared at ru Yu Then, he said seriously, “Madam Che Ru Yu, what I said about holding on is completely different from what you said about holding on. I think that as long as both of US follow the bottom line of marriage and adhere to the principles of marriage, then even if our marriage doesn’t have any so-called love, I believe that we will be able to persevere. ”

“hehehe. ” Ru Yu could not help but laugh out loud. Her gaze was cold as she stared at the confident Lei Zhenyu opposite her She said lightly, “since Mr. Lei is so confident and has analyzed marriage so thoroughly, I believe that there are many people in this world who want to stick with you. So, there’s no need for you to look for me, a woman who has just been demoted to second-hand status. ”

“There are many women like that. ” Lei Zhenyu was not angry. He looked at ru Yu sincerely and said firmly, “but, right now, I only want to stick with you! ”

Ru Yu was stunned when she heard this, then she laughed again While wiping her mouth with a tissue, she said calmly, “Zhenyu, you just came back to the country, so you might not have much free time. If you have more time and are bored, you can find other girls to talk about your commitment to a loveless marriage. However, I have no interest in your theories and suggestions. ”