Goddess' Super Master

Happiness really has nothing to do with a person's material. Happiness is only related to the needs of the current person.

Just like a group of people running to the toilet with their stomachs, those who can occupy a pit are happier than those who do not occupy the pit. At this time, people with bulging wallets will not feel happy if they have no pit under their feet.

This is the relationship between desire and security.

How many people are happy like a little fool when they earn 3000 yuan a month at the age of 20.

As he grew up, the happy little fool could earn 30000 yuan a month, but he felt unhappy. He felt so poor and urgent.

Because of desire.

The more money you earn, the more people desire to live. When you earn 3000 a month, you feel very luxurious occasionally taking a taxi, but those who don't drive a BMW with a monthly salary of 30000 feel they have no face.

Happiness is equal to the ratio of what a person has to his own desires. A person's desires are twenty times more. Even if the money increases ten times, the happiness is still reduced.

What Zhao Xiaoyao said is this kind of happiness. Ordinary people are easier to get happiness than them, because ordinary people don't have so many desires. What they want to have is simpler, easier to get and meet, so they will be happier.

People who eat three thousand yuan a month will feel happy when they eat a hot pot, and thirty thousand of the people who earn thirty thousand a month may need to eat a Michelin 3-star restaurant to feel what happiness is.

People who earn only 3000 yuan a month will not feel old if they buy 300 yuan clothes for two years, while people who earn 30000 yuan a month will feel outdated even if they buy famous brand clothes for one season at most.

It's fun to date someone who earns only 3000 yuan a month, go to a clean restaurant for dinner, and then go to the noisy pedestrian street to buy a stall. However, people who earn 30000 yuan a month don't go to a high-end restaurant or spend thousands of yuan. They feel ashamed!

It's not crowded to live in a shared house with people who earn only 3000 yuan a month, and people with an income of 30000 a month will feel bitter if they don't have a house, even if they live alone in a rented house with a monthly rent of 6000!

If the level of desire is different, the difficulty of getting happiness is different.

"What we lack is the same happiness as ordinary people, so although we have more material than ordinary people, it doesn't mean we must be happier than ordinary people." Zhao Xiaoyao shook his head.

Kaixin looked at Zhao Xiaoyao blankly: "what determines our happiness..."

"What determines your happiness is definitely not the money and material you have, but whether you are satisfied with your current situation and whether you enjoy the process of chasing." Zhao Xiaoyao said: "the more difficult the process of chasing, the higher our happiness will be."

"Anything like me can be obtained without chasing, so... There is no sense of happiness." Kaixin took a deep breath, and she suddenly wanted to understand a truth today.

Zhao Xiaoyao smiled: "don't let those readily available materials destroy your happiness. Things outside your body are not important at all. Your own happiness is the most important."

"So you have your pursuit and find your happiness?" Kaixin looked at Zhao Xiaoyao curiously.

Zhao Xiaoyao smiled: "yes, I have my pursuit. Material things are meaningless to me. As long as I want anything, I can swipe my card, so I won't be happy, but other things I pursue are different..."

"What are you pursuing?" Kaixin asked. She wanted to pursue the same as Zhao Xiaoyao.

"What I pursue is not necessarily what you want to pursue." Zhao Xiaoyao shook his head: "you have to find what you really want to pursue before you can understand what happiness looks like after you get it."

Kaixin really yearns. She really wants to know what kind of experience that hard won "happiness" is.

"There is a very simple way to let you feel it." Zhao Xiaoyao smiled: "tomorrow you will go to KFC, which has the most people in the city, order a pile of food, and then grab a seat. When you grab an empty seat, you will have a sense of happiness."

Kaixin looked at Zhao Xiaoyao with a puzzled face. She really didn't understand Zhao Xiaoyao's words.

"Then you drink a few more cokes, wait until you can't hold it, and then queue up in the bathroom. When you wait for 20 minutes to get the right to use the bathroom, you will also have a sense of happiness." Zhao Xiaoyao added.

"Neuropathy does that." Kaixin turned his eyes.

"You're spoiled. You've never tried waiting in line for public toilets. Of course, you don't know what kind of happiness you'll feel after you get the right to use them." Zhao Xiaoyao said, "I'm just saying that you may not be able to experience it. When you experience it yourself, you will certainly understand what I mean."

"That's too crazy," Kai Xin said suspiciously.

Zhao Xiaoyao shrugged his shoulders: "I just give you some advice. Whether you want to try or not depends entirely on you. But if you don't try, you will never understand what kind of feeling I say 'happiness' is, that's all."

Although Kaixin shook her head on the surface, she had decided to have a try in her heart.

Although it sounds ridiculous, she really wants to know what that feeling is like.

Otherwise, if she doesn't even know the so-called "happiness" all her life, won't she live in vain?

"OK, I won't say more. If you really don't want to know everyone, I won't force you." Zhao Xiaoyao said, "but if you want to find the happiness of ordinary people, you can line up in line. When there are no seats, you can get the treatment of going to the back kitchen through my privilege, which is also a kind of happiness."

Kai Xin is said by Zhao Xiaoyao. Now she has an impulse to eat.

It's just over seven in the evening.

And Kaixin really didn't eat. To be honest, she was a little hungry.

"Last time I went to your restaurant, I only tasted barbecue. I don't know if your hot pot is also very good." Kaixin suddenly asked.

Zhao Xiaoyao understood: "is it great? You can only know after you have tasted it. No matter how good I say, it's useless if you don't taste it yourself."

Kaixin looked at the time again. She didn't directly say that she wanted to give Zhao Xiaoyao a chance to invite her. However, her stomach was very frustrated and gave a grunt.

"Go, go now. I'll let you know what little happiness is. Little happiness is that you can eat a big bowl of fresh and tender boiled mutton when you are hungry!" Zhao Xiaoyao grinned and pulled Kaixin away.