Ye's meal, she clenched her lower lip.

Now, she is really melancholy.

Finally a sense of crisis?

Xia Ying hummed: "of course, what I said is that if you continue in this state, you don't need to count on it. But if you change your strategy to the point where you respect him, it's absolutely OK

"Really?" Ye was excited in an instant.

Xia Ying picks her eyebrows. "Why, are you interested in Song Jinyan?"

Ye's face was red and she nodded. "My husband is very powerful, intelligent and capable. Which woman will not be attracted to him?"

"So your problem is in the heart!" Xia Ying is on his way.

Ye was stunned again.

Xia Ying sighed: "younger sister-in-law, do you know, why did he marry you at first?"

"Because of my identity, as well as my quiet and clever, it seems that I am a virtuous wife who is good at manipulation." Ye said, her voice choked up, "in fact, I have been very hard in accordance with his goal close."

"Come on! How long can you pretend that you are not of that temperament Xia Ying make complaints about her.

"What's more, what the Song family needs is not a virtuous wife. What he needs more is a person who can fight with him and help him in his career! And you, aren't you

"Am I?" Ye blinked.

Xia yingding nods. "Of course you are. Didn't I list your strengths just now? Obviously, you can't use the existing advantages, but you have to beat yourself into a good wife and good mother. If you are not uncomfortable, he will feel uncomfortable! I don't care about you

But thinking of the day when he first entered the door, ye shook his head. "My husband clearly doesn't like me like this."

"But you held him down, didn't you?"

Ye was stunned again.

Xia Ying nodded. "Yes. The way of getting along between husband and wife is also the relationship between people! In any case, either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind prevails over the east wind. If you keep giving in, you will only make people think you are bullying and don't take you seriously. "

"But if you're strong, try it? Song Jinyan even if you look bad, but your ability is what he needs, he will still be close to you. As long as you have a chance to get close, it's easy for you to take some private goods with you. "

"And

She had a pause. "Don't forget, your aunt."

Thinking of his aunt who is still in Ye's house, Ye's spirit is immediately shaken!

"Yes, I have to find a way to get my aunt out!"

"So you have to be more independent. Otherwise you think, even if you try your best to take over your aunt, others see you as a little daughter-in-law, they all look down on you, who will try their best to serve your aunt? "

Ye began to think seriously.

Xia Ying also said: "so if a woman wants to live in this world and let the people she cares about live a good life, it is very important to hold the right of speech in her hand. This is the foundation of your existence in this family. "

"By the way, if song Jinyan really can't bear you to be separated from you, you can still rely on this ability to gain a foothold in the world. You are a dodder if you rely on a man wholeheartedly. Once a little wind and rain comes, you will be destroyed. "

"Clearly, with your ability, you will not be so!"

Hearing all her words into her ears, Ye's eyes began to shine.

"Sister." She whispered, "how do I feel that the way you and I talked about getting along with husband and wife is just by-pass. Your real purpose is not to let me be a dodder flower?"

"Oh, do you hear that? If you can hear it, you are still saved! " Xia Ying nodded.

"If song Jinyan was not my brother, what I would have said to you was - don't worry about what this dead man thinks of you, just hold on to everything you can grasp! Women don't have to rely on men all their lives. "

"On the contrary, with your ability, you can make some remarkable achievements, and it is no problem to stand side by side with him. Then why do you have to be careful to please him?"

"What you really should do is let him take the initiative to please you! If he doesn't please you, go find a man who is willing to please you. He is not the only man in the world

Ye was stunned.

"Sister, have you ever said these things to your brother-in-law?"

"Yes! And that's what I've always been with him. He is kind to me. If the family can accommodate me, I will stay. Once I can't hold me, I'll go! If you don't want to stay here, you have to stay! " Xia yingding nods.

Ye's face was envious. "Sister, you are so good. No wonder my husband respects you so much."

"This is what I got from my real ability." Xia Ying said without modesty, "and you really don't think that as long as I treat him better and give him a few stutters, he will call me a sister sincerely?"Ye shook his head. "Of course not. My husband is not such a shallow person."

"So! It is said that elder sister is like a mother. I must care about him and love him in my daily life. But when necessary, I must stand up and protect him. When he does something wrong, I must teach him a lesson and criticize him severely. I have to be more powerful than he is to hold him down Xia Ying nodded.

With that, she raised her chin and looked at Ye. "I've told you so much. Do you understand what I mean?"

Ye thought for a moment. "I see."

"Sister, what you mean is that I can grow up to be a woman who can stand side by side with my husband, not dodder flowers attached to him."

"And only by showing my own usefulness can I make him pay full attention to me, look me in the eye, and even You can't do without me. "

Speaking of here, there is no need for Xia Ying to say anything more, Ye has been excited to stand up.

"I see!"

She was so excited that she saluted Xia Ying. "Thank you, sister. I see what you mean."

She left in a hurry.

"Well, I haven't finished speaking yet." Xia Ying hurriedly low shout, but also can not call back Ye's anxious steps.

Oh!

She sighed again. "Well, I've already said what I should have said. As for how much I really understand and how to do, it's her own business. I shouldn't have interfered too much."

She clapped her hands, got up and went back to her room.

When Xia Ying and ye sat together to talk deeply, Gu Yuanlong had come to Gu Tuo.

"You said before, when you left the provincial capital, ye Changwen's son gave you a mysterious gift?"

Gu Tuo nodded. "That's it."

He took out the box under the bed.

Gu Yuanlong opens his hands, and the little guy's eyes are dark.

"This is what he has been thinking about and told you that you must get it?"

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