Lisko's American life
Chapter 1610: relationship between husband and wife
Regarding the issues of how to get along with his wife and how to maintain the harmony of the family, Lisko can only be regarded as a newcomer, and he has just entered and exited the threshold. There are too many things to learn from his father-in-law and also learn The other party uses this attitude to maintain the family atmosphere and the daily mode of getting along as much as possible.
In fact, many people think that if you want to ensure a stable and harmonious marriage, you only need to find a marriage partner who loves or loves you, even if it is over, but you must know that each person has his own unique character before marriage. The way of marriage is to make two people full of stones with their own edges and corners, and become more and more smooth in the process of constant friction with each other, so that each other is just the piece that the other lacks, and the two people can perfectly fit together to form one A complete pattern is the best way to ensure that this relationship can last forever.
Although Lisko and Zhang Li have never had any major problems with their current marriage relationship, Lisko feels that this relationship is not suitable for the two of them in their daily life. The reason why there were no more intense quarrels and some disagreements between the two was also because the two were restrained and deliberately maintained the harmony between the two.
However, the relationship between the two people cannot be maintained for a long time. It is obvious that it is not a long-term solution to rely on everyone's mutual concessions to ensure a smooth and smooth married life. Therefore, Lisko also I desperately hope to find a different way of getting along, so that the couple's life will become more harmonious and harmonious.
In this process of learning and slowly turning around, any family that can guarantee his long-term marriage is the predecessor he has learned from. Almost everyone is his target, and he can hope to learn from each other's relationship mode. Some experience So that you can find a way that is more suitable for you.
In fact, many people think that in the life of husband and wife and the way of getting along in the family, two people become more harmonious is the premise to ensure the long-term marriage, but in fact, in Liske's view, this may not be the case. I believe that people who have been married I have had a deep experience. In the family mode of getting along, only if the woman feels happy, the two people will get along more harmoniously. If the woman herself has some ideas about this marriage, or it is not so Happily, there may be more conflicts between two people than usual.
Almost every man is looking for a more harmonious mode of getting along with his wife. In this mode of getting along, his wife becomes less stubborn on some issues, the wife is in a happy mood, and the life of the whole family becomes There is a lot of harmony, but if you make the other party feel unhappy, you can have countless conflicts with the other party whether you are eating, resting, or every part of your daily life at home.
After having this idea, Lisko will try his best to observe the relationship between the old man and his mother-in-law in a quiet manner in the rest of his life. He finds that no matter what mistakes the old man makes, even if There are many ways to do things, which are not as expected by their mother-in-law, but they can always use a very relaxed attitude to make the other party not care about this matter at all.
Well, men always seem careless in life, and not only are they not as delicate as women, but they even seem reckless in some places. In the eyes of many girls, such an attitude is worthy of reprimand and refutation, but Zhang You can do it No matter what choices and decisions she makes, she can make Li Feng willingly support him. This attitude and way of getting along really make lawyers feel envious.
Moreover, when Zhang You encounters some problems, he will always take some extremely witty ways to dispel the resentment and other emotions in his wife's heart. You must know that when women encounter some problems, most of them will lose their reason. Driven by a wave of anger, this is also the specific source of conflict in many couples' relationship patterns.
But Zhang You took this method to make his wife calm down temporarily when she encounters a problem. After the anger in her heart has really cooled down, the whole person's rationality has returned to his head, and the way he looks at the problem is also Changes will occur. Most conflicts and quarrels are provoked because of momentary anger and lack of careful thought. When this problem is resolved, the number of quarrels that can occur is very small.
The other party's way of dealing with problems has also benefited Li Ke a lot. In fact, in the way of getting along with Li Ke and Zhang Li, there will definitely be some situations of competing opinions, but both of them are extremely restrained. Their emotions, Once such signs appear, they will choose the solution to the temporary cooling problem. Compared with the solution of two people, it seems that Zhang You's solution is more sophisticated, not only will it not destroy the impression of the two people in each other's minds, In this way, it is also possible to let the other party understand that each other is mutual understanding and tolerance~www.readwn.com~ In fact, after getting along with each other during this period of time, Lisko has also discovered many problems between himself and Zhang Li, probably because of the way they got along at the beginning. It has always been relatively safe, and many problems only burst out in an instant after the marriage is combined. If there is no suitable solution to these problems, it may also cause the two people to get along very contradictory and awkward.
The biggest source of problems between the two may be due to the unequal status and status. In many cases, Zhang Li can't treat Lisko like an ordinary couple. On the one hand, it is because of the wealth of the other's family and the assets it owns. Far beyond the standard he expected, on the other hand, because the social status of the two sides is not equal, Lisko is a genius writer who does not know enough in the eyes of many people, and also has a superb investment talent.
It is also the influence of this inherent label that makes Zhang Li sometimes, even if he wants to lose his temper with his boyfriend like an ordinary couple, he will take into account the identity of the other party and subconsciously become atrophied. a lot of.
Compared with the love between husband and wife, Zhang Li felt that when facing Lisko, he would feel respected and fearful most of the time.
Everyone has their own unique edges and corners, but when Zhang Li faces Lisko, he will try to cover up his edges and corners as much as possible, so that he can become what the other party expects and likes.
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