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Li Zhongxin's contact between mother and sunny seeds, as well as the family and the like, he is not worried.

Li Zhongxin believes that they don't have to consider what kind of firewood salt sauce vinegar, no need to consider making money, don't have to consider money, who spends, the difference is basically not existing, whether it is a sunny, or he Mother, for such a thing, Li Zhongxin believes that they will not have contradictions because of such a thing.

However, Li Zhongxin knows that the habits between the mother and the sunny children have a lot difference, this is easy to trigger a contradiction point.

There is no longer life for a long time, how is it well, live together, life habits are different, and how will it be some things.

According to the thinking and understanding of most people, the mother-in-law is in different families, each has its own life background, life habits, and the mother-in-law in a life, this has a gradual understanding, mutual adaptation process. If the adaptation is poor, it will not accept each other, it will be tense, and the contradiction is born.

Li Zhongxin felt that in the relationship between his mother-in-law, his son plays a very important intermediary role. If the son's intermediary effect can strengthen the emotional contact between his mother-in-law, it is easy to become a contradictory focus, and there is a dilemma of the enemy.

Although the mother and child are deep, it is difficult to avoid the fact that this relationship becomes complex after marriage. Because between husband and wife have more common in activities, intend, expense, and interaction.

On these issues, the consistency of the couple often exceeds the consistency of the mother and child view. This is because the son and mother are separated by a generation, in mind, this is easy to cause the son's intermediation.

If the mother does not understand, it will produce the mentality of marry the wife forgetting the mother, and mistakenly think that his son has went to his own feelings, and he is in a child.

In short! The relationship between her mother-in-law is quite difficult to get along with, it is definitely not the kind of the mother now and imagined. Even if it is very well-behaved, as long as the mother-in-law is long, there will always be more contradictions.

The mother is a strong person in a lifetime. It can be said that it is a kind of person who is unmanned. It is his father. In front of her mother, she can't afford my body. It can be seen that the mother's strength has to be a point.

And fine! Growing together from Xiao and Sanjing Yadi, it is like a small princess, basically can say this, what is needed to be made by people, and there is no gas since childhood.

Now how is the relationship between Qingzi and his mother, it is estimated that there will be problems after he married, and now the mother should be too optimistic.

But! Li Zhongxin has had an idea for such a situation. As long as he is married to him and the sun, then they have a lot of time in Jiangcheng's home, especially in the sunny, don't go into the sky, sway, and Parents have too much time.

Li Zhongxin is thinking in this way, Wang Yaqing and Qingzi should operate this.

First of all! Both the mother-in-law should recognize that the other party has independent personality and economic status, the relationship between the two sides is an equal interpersonal relationship, rather than a party must depend on the other party's dominance and dominant relationship. It is important to recognize this. If the two or one lacks the correct understanding of this relationship, it is considered that the other party must or should be listened to himself, so that this equal interpersonal relationship is considered to be dominated by the relationship, it will inevitably Action, attitude, thereby causing the disorders of both parties.

Second, the mutual respect between the mother-in-law requires both parties to negotiate processing, such as economic expenses, involving the whole family, etc., to develop a democratic home, and personal personal affairs, they should not interfere with each other, personal enjoy independence right.

The last thing is the most important, the sunny child is a wife, but the mother-in-law is because the mother-in-law is old, but the family is experienced; Wang Yaqing is doing a mother-in-law, don't always put the son in front of the daughter-in-law, to see the strengths of the daughter-in-law, more respect Views. That is to say, both parties should cooperate with each other and respect each other. The mother-in-law lives together, it is inevitable that some uncoordinated things will happen. At this time, the two sides need to understand each other.

The so-called understanding is to stand in the other party's position to consider the problem. It is necessary to use the body, do not want to do it, don't do it, don't do it in the principle of people, to deal with the relationship.

Li Zhongxin said like the parents, and began to abandon him, Li Zhongxin was very speechless, but in such a thing, he couldn't say anything, and now he can't sin your parents. On the side, if you guilty, your parents are sinned or herself.

What is the sun? Li Zhongxin felt very well, after all, Qingzi is now in the loyalty of the three wells, which is the kind of people who can have no people. Even if the three wells and the small villages are all this, if there is no big action, they are nothing more than approval On the document, almost all things are handed over to the people below, they simply do things at all.

To form such a situation, Li Zhongxin is actively promoted, Li Zhongxin always thinks, the highest leadership must do! Not all things must be pro-person, but to give those people to the following people to do, take people from the heavy work.

Only take people from the heavy work, then this talent can think about the development of enterprises, rather than getting things, do things, do things, everything, no What ideas and ideas.

There is also a saying that this thing is called the authority of the prostitute, only the operation of our company outside, only looks at the development of the company outside, will have different ideas.

It is because of such a reason, Li Zhongxin believes that as long as he said to Qingzi and Sanjing Yadiazi, then, the three wells and elegants and the sun will agree to this matter, and even the three wells will also lead the village when the three wells will receive the village. Huixiang and Potantar flowers and other people came to China and Li Zhongxin lived in China's Spring Festival.

"Mom, this thing! You don't worry, I will give you the two old brought it back, when I am in the New Year, when you love how to play, just don't put me on the belt, in On this matter, I have listened to you everything, and strive to come back to Jiangcheng earlier. You can't see it? "Li Zhongxin said with his place and Wang Yaqing.