My Adorable Sweetheart

Yan Jinyu holds the children and looks at Mi Xiaobai for a while. Then she turns and walks into the sea with the children in her arms.

"I said, be careful!" Mi Xiaobai said weakly, "don't choke them!"

Xiaojin rides on his father's neck, clapping and laughing happily. It seems that he is very excited to enter the water. Xiaoyu is more like his mother, sticking to Yan Jinyu's arms and humming, unwilling to touch the water.

Yan Jinyu only prepared a small yellow duck rowing boat, inflated it and took it into the sea. Considering the different acceptance ability of the two children, he put the fish on the rowing boat first, and dragged Xiaojin's body with his hand to teach her to swim.

In about half an hour, Xiaojin moved her hands and feet as if she were a model. She was still laughing happily. She couldn't swim in the real sense, but the enlightenment education seems to have been very successful. Yan Jinyu is very satisfied, especially looking at this pink little face that looks like her mother. She is really cute.

Xiaoyu's acceptance is a little bit weak, but he seems to have a little interest in everything since he came here for exploration. Although he refused to go into the water at the beginning, he began to get used to it. He carefully followed his father's instructions and rowed. Yan Jinyu was surprised to find that Xiaoyu, who was not very stable in walking, was not uncoordinated at all when he started swimming His performance is no worse than that of Xiaojin, but he is timid. As soon as Yan Jinyu lets go, he is scared to cry, without the enjoyment of Xiaojin.

Yan Jinyu looked at the fish and frowned slightly - the son was too timid.

Is it because of his congenital defects and relax the requirements for him, leading him to think that he should be in such a state?

To tell the truth, a boy is not as brave as a girl, which is very bad. If it is not considered that this may have something to do with his inferiority complex, Yan Jinyu will severely criticize Xiaoyu's cowardly behavior - you can fall down, you can be beaten down, but you can't even lose the courage to stand up.

Although they are all children of their own, there are differences between boys and girls. Girls can be a little more delicate and loved, but boys must be brave and responsible. Otherwise, how can they grow up to be independent men in the future?!

"What's the matter? Honey Mi Xiaobai piled sand on the beach and looked at the shallow water from time to time. He found that Yan Jinyu had been looking at the fish for two minutes. He could not help asking.

Yan Jinyu raised her head, thought about it, and said, "I think Little fish seems a little too timid

Mi Xiaobai was stunned and looked at the fish crying "Mom" glued to Yan Jinyu. He interceded: "after all, he is different from ordinary children. Don't be so strict with him. Give him to me."

Xiaobai reaches out his hand.

"But he can walk already, and didn't you say that his IQ and character are normal?" Yan Jinyu didn't send the fish back. She just stood in the same place and said seriously, "in addition to always wrestling when walking, the fish is no different from ordinary children, isn't it?"

Mi Xiaobai suddenly understood something and took back the hand he had already stretched out.

Mother duobaier, has she started this kind of behavior unconsciously?

She thinks that Xiaoyu is inborn deficient, so she reduces her requirements for everything, especially loves and pities him, as if he can be forgiven no matter how bad he is.

However, he is already two years old and has begun to have his own sense of independence. Because of the influence of the people around him, he will gradually form a kind of character. Perhaps, this kind of character is just muddling along, attributing all the failures to his own congenital defects.

"Yes, he's no different from other children. He's too clingy to me. It's time to exercise." Mi xiaobaiguo interrupted, "honey, you go on, but later they are hungry, want to drink milk."

Yan Jinyu hooked the corner of her mouth and nodded: "well, I know."

In fact, he can't bear to see Mi Xiaobai's canthus. He can also see her reluctant look when she looks at Xiaoyu. However, she is still at her fingertips and doesn't indulge the child's efforts because of her own ideas.

Good, MI Xiaobai is a rational good mother. Yan Jinyu underestimated her. Just now, she was still hesitating whether to communicate with MI Xiaobai. He didn't want Mi Xiaobai to quarrel with him or fight for children because of this.

Mi Xiaobai said, then dropped his head and turned to one side. It seemed that he couldn't bear to see the little fish crying to himself.

About to see his mother ignore himself, the little fish cry more aggrieved, small hand holding his father's arm has been running up, Yan Jinyu patiently comfort him for a long time is useless, patience is almost consumed, if not for MI Xiaobai staring at the shore, he really want to direct iron education, throw him into the water to pour a few saliva, let him well I should take a look.

"Jin Yu..."

Mi Xiaobai's voice suddenly rings out behind her, which scares Yan Jinyu several times. It seems that the evil ideas just now are absorbed by Mi Xiaobai. If she knows that he wants to throw her baby son into the water, isn't this the rhythm of tearing?

So he turned back and said, "why, honey?"After a pause, I was surprised to see Mi Xiaobai standing in front of me: "did you take the initiative to enter the water?"

"Well..." Mi Xiaobai looked at the water almost to the upper abdomen and said in a trembling voice, "I feel the water pressure is very high, the waves are also very big, I will fall at any time..."

"What are you doing here?"

"Mom, mom..." As soon as Xiaoyu sees Mi Xiaobai, she rushes to her body like crazy. Mi Xiaobai shakes back two steps, looks at him in embarrassment, and then looks at Yan Jinyu, "I hear Xiaoyu calling me all the time. He may think I don't want him, so he will cry so sad..."

Yan Jinyu sighed softly: "forget it, you take him..."

"You go on, I won't hold him, I won't plead with him, I just accompany you, let him don't think I don't want him." Mi Xiaobai smiles at Yan Jinyu. "In the future, I hope you will treat the two children equally. When you teach them skills, Xiaojin can do it. Even if it takes twice or three times of time, we also want Xiaoyu to do it!"

Yan Jinyu's eyes softened in an instant, and she felt very happy: "are you not afraid of water?"

Mi Xiaobai turned his eyes and patted his chest: "I can learn to swim, take the initiative to learn, and set an example for Xiaoyu!"

"Have you figured it out?"

"But I want to ask you, why do you insist that I learn to swim?" Mi Xiaobai tilted his head and said, "I feel that you are particularly persistent in this matter."