My Adorable Sweetheart

"Good boy." Mi Xiaobai's heart is sour, but he still reaches out his hand and hooks Han Nian's little finger with his little finger. "My aunt will pick you up with you, and I promise you that after breakfast tomorrow morning, you will see Xiaojin's sister and Xiaoyu's brother."

Han Nian's fear in his eyes didn't diminish at all, but he still nodded, and then his eyes returned to calm and empty.

Well, bear with it, MI Xiaobai. Just three days. Calm down.

Han Yannian decided to go home with Han Yannian for two days.

Then at home in the evening, MI Xiaobai starts to bombard Yan Jinyu, imploring Him to put off the next three days' work and accompany her to do the adoption properly, because many things must be done by the adoptive father and mother.

Yan Jinyu agreed, but her attitude was very weak. Until she heard that MI Xiaobai had begun to think about the room allocation and decoration of Han Nian, she said, "Xiaobai, are you sure you want to adopt that child?"

Mi Xiaobai said without hesitation: "sure, brother Yixuan is dead. Millulu is dead. Who will adopt him if we don't adopt him?"

"He has distant relatives who are related by blood, and a welfare home can take him in."

Mi Xiaobai is stunned, and the excitement disappears. She looks at Yan Jinyu and says, "don't you agree to adopt him?"

Yan Jinyu is noncommittal: "I just hope you can think clearly."

"Didn't you agree to adopt Han Nian before? You say I can make the decision How can you not keep your word Mi Xiaobai frowned, "do you even begin to believe in feudalism and superstition? Do you think this child is unlucky? Some people say that I am a sweeper! Hum

Yan Jinyu shook her head: "I have no objection to your adoption of Han Nian, but I hope you will think it over. Now Han Nian is different from Han Nian before."

Yan Jinyu's rational analysis said: "this child, he is indeed lovely and innocent, but he has the blood of MI family. From MI yean, MI Lulu, and even Mi Huihui, the crazy and violent character of MI family is likely to be inherited to him, and what kind of psychology and memories will this child have in the previous stimulation? Let's face it I don't know. I once thought that we could educate him well and guide him to be an honest and kind person. But to tell you the truth, Xiaobai, I'm not very confident about what kind of children will grow up after such complicated experiences. "

Mi Xiaobai bit his lip and said sadly, "but he also has brother Yixuan's blood. Although brother Yixuan has done wrong, he is gentle and kind in nature. Maybe he will become a good child like his father."

"Maybe, well But it's just that maybe it's a probability event, and no one can guarantee it. " Yan Jinyu repeated the key words in MI Xiaobai's vernacular, "Xiaobai, I'm very happy that Han Nian can survive, and I also see that you are actively desperate to adopt him, but your mind is simple and kind, so you always think that others will be like you, but things are often not as good as you think. When we think about problems, we should see that it is good On the one hand, we should also see the bad side of it, so Xiaobai... "

Yan Jinyu looks up at Mi Xiaobai and stares at her seriously: "tell me, once han Nian's situation is different from what you think, once he grows up to be a violent, selfish, heavy minded and unscrupulous boy, destroying our family happiness and coveting our property, do you have any countermeasures?"

Mi Xiaobai looks at Yan Jinyu, speechless.

She was still a little angry, and Yan Jinyu turned back. She thought Yan Jinyu was too narrow-minded, but after listening to Yan Jinyu's profound analysis and conversation, she felt flustered and at a loss.

Yes, once the reality is not as beautiful as the ideal, does she have any countermeasures?

Her thinking is perceptual, but Yan Jinyu's is rational, there is no right or wrong.

Yan family is such a powerful and powerful family. It's not easy for Yan Jinyu to adopt a child who has no blood relationship for her. But once the child grows crooked and insults Yan Family's expectation of him, how should she choose?

Yan Jinyu didn't object to her, Yan Jinyu just wanted her to be considerate.

On the one hand, Han Nian is innocent and pitiful, and on the other hand, she is rational but cold. She is at a loss and doesn't know how to choose.

"Adoption is a big thing, because it will change the fate of the child's life." Yan Jinyu saw that MI Xiaobai was at a loss and said calmly, "if you don't think about the countermeasures well, I hope to leave this child in the welfare home, which will be subsidized by us all the way. We will see him at the weekend. When he grows up, we can send him to study abroad to gain insight. We will become kind-hearted uncles and aunts, but we will never become his family. This superficial relationship will be more complicated It's good for him to have a sense of respect and gratitude for us, but it won't give birth to some thoughts of mischief. "

Yan Jinyu said: "another way is to be adopted by relatives who are related to him or ordinary kind-hearted families. We keep in touch with each other and pay attention to the growth of Han Nian."

When Mi Xiaobai heard this, her tears almost came out - he was not willing to give Han Nian to others. She felt that there would be no one in the world who would like to treat Han Nian better than her.Yan Jinyu was eating. Looking at Mi Xiaobai's crying, she put down the bowl and chopsticks, supported her chin with both hands, and said seriously, "of course, we can't adopt him, but you must promise me that he is only an adopted son since he was a child. He is different from little goldfish. He doesn't have a surname of Yan and has no blood relationship with us. It's just because we make friends with his father He can't change his surname, he can't call us mom and Dad, we can provide him with all that is no less than xiaojinxiaoyu in material, but he can never rely on any of our Yan family, he is just him, an adopted child. "

Mi Xiaobai bowed her head and obviously didn't agree to treat Han Nian like this. She thought it was more cruel, so she begged: "but I think only when Han Nian is fully integrated into us can we forget the past. We love his parents, he is our lovely child, we are a family, he is not an outsider."

Yan Jinyu shook her head: "he is more than two years old, Xiaobai. Even if he forgets the series of tragic and painful things about his mother's death, he will certainly remember that we are not his biological parents."