My Adorable Sweetheart

As soon as Yan Jinyu grasped Mi Xiaobai's hand, MI Xiaobai was stunned.

"Evasion can't solve the problem, Xiaobai."

"But is there any better way?" Mi Xiaobai said sadly, "honey, have you seen that kind of news? Campus violence is worse than we adults think. When I was a child, I just remarried with my mother and transferred to a new kindergarten, because I was always abused by Mi yean, thin and weak, and looked like a good bully, it attracted a lot of exclusion. Those bad children would come to pull your hair or rob you for no reason Things, but thanks to my quick and smart running, and then there was little bully Chunchun to support me, so I got through that hard time safely. But Xiaoyu was originally dull and inflexible, and he couldn't run fast. If he was blocked by five or six children one day, the consequences would be unimaginable. Even if we want to protect ourselves, we can't be around all the time. "

"In this case, you should know that neither the teacher nor our parents can completely change this matter. If they don't want to have future trouble, they have to rely on themselves." Yan Jinyu leaned over Mi Xiaobai's ear and said something. Mi Xiaobai glared big eyes, "is that ok?"

"I don't know." Yan Jinyu gently smile, "but the method is always more than difficult, we always have to try."

In the room, Xiaoyu sat at the desk, looked over the messy and broken schoolbag, sighed, and then went to the box to take a band aid and stick it on the wound of his forearm.

Yan Jinyu knocks on the door and enters. Xiaoyu immediately stands up and puts the torn exercise book into the drawer: "Dad."

Yan Jinyu didn't miss the little fish's little action, and his sharp eyes instantly understood everything, but he just put a plate of snacks on his table: "dinner is not ready, this is the biscuit baked by my mother."

"Thank you, Dad." Because Yan Jinyu always dotes on her daughter and is strict with her two boys. In addition, Xiaoyu has been more dependent on her mother since she grew up, so he has been a little stiff in front of her father. Today, when her father came to his room, it must be because of the fight, so he was even more embarrassed. So he quickly picked up a few biscuits and stuffed them into his mouth, "mom did it and did it really It's delicious. "

"Well, you eat more." Yan Jinyu said.

Xiaoyu secretly glanced at his father and found that his father was staring at him, so he could only eat quickly to hide his nervousness.

"You're seven and a half years old, and in a few months you'll be eight." Yan Jinyu watched the little fish eat for a while. She didn't mean to leave. Instead, she opened a chair and sat down. She said seriously, "my father is busy with work. He's always away from home, which makes my mother very hard. But I think you're old. We should talk about it."

After a pause, he added, "as a man."

Little fish looked at his father in surprise and said, "Oh". Then he immediately wiped his mouth and sat face to face with his father. He thought his father was so serious that he might have to teach him a lesson.

But Dad looked at him for a while, just grabbed his little hand, gently tore off the band aid, and looked at his wound carefully: "does it hurt? Why didn't you ask Dr. Qin for help? "

"It hurts when you touch it." Xiaoyu honestly replied, "I don't want my mother to know."

Yan Jinyu felt thoughtful for a while. She didn't comment on Xiaoyu's behavior. She just said, "if you treat the wound correctly, it will soon stop hurting. But if you stick a band aid rashly, it is likely to be infected, and then it will hurt more."

Xiaoyu nodded. Yan Jinyu took out the first-aid kit in the cupboard: "the first thing dad wants to teach you today is that if a man chooses to hide the wound, he should deal with it correctly."

With that, he carefully scrubbed the wound with tweezers and alcohol cotton, and pasted a new band aid on it again. Little fish's eyes widened: "Dad is so powerful, he can also wrap the wound!"

"When dad was your age, he wasn't as good as you." Yan Jinyu laughed, "because if I'm beaten, I can't be as calm as you."

Xiaoyu blushed and lowered her head: "Dad, I'm sorry, sister. She didn't lie. I, I..."

"If you realize the mistake, you can choose your own way to deal with the matter between you and your sister, but I remind you that your sister is very sad because she tried to protect you, but you failed her."

Xiaoyu nods with guilt, but Yan Jinyu's words change: "but what Dad is discussing with you today is about you being bullied at school."

The fish opened his mouth and didn't say anything in the end.

"What do you think is the worst in your class?"

Little fish was silent for a while, then said: "I can't run fast, easy to wrestle, speak stuttering."

"You don't stutter now, you're fine. And when you climb mountains with us on weekends, you can walk to the top of the mountain by yourself without wrestling. "

Little fish thought, "but I still can't run well."

"That's when you think you can't run well." Yan Jinyu said, "you are afraid in your own heart, so there will be trouble.""I just can't run well. Sometimes I talk in a mess and look stupid." Fish sad way, "Mom and dad will not laugh at me, but the students will laugh at me."

"Did you know that when you were two years old, you couldn't even walk? When other children can run, you just can stand up without relying on anything

Xiaoyu's face darkened immediately: "I know that my grandfather said that I was born with a congenital deficiency, and my mother was sad for this for a long time. I know that I am not as good as my brother and sister, and I am very poor."

"When you were born, the doctor said you couldn't live." Yan Jinyu said solemnly, "the world's top child development experts have also asserted that you will be a child with mental retardation. Even if you can stand up, you can't run and jump like other children. My mother said that she only hopes that you can take care of yourself in the future, don't have to sit in a wheelchair, and won't be bullied because of mental retardation, but now you can walk and go to school, And you've always been number one in your class. "

Little fish rubbed his fingers: "it's different..."

"It's the same, of course." Yan Jinyu said, "you are still the child who is said to be born with congenital deficiency. But through your own efforts, through the efforts of mom and Dad, and through the efforts of all of us, you have fiercely refuted the predictions of the world's top experts with practical actions, and you have created miracles! Your body has been back to normal for a long time, but you are not willing to admit it, because then you can attribute all the failures to that reason, and you don't need to bear it yourself! "