My alternative life

During the two months of the summer vacation, Ren Xiaoyao had frequent contact with Wang Yang, Tuoba Hong and Han Mingyue respectively. In that era when family landline phones were not popular, and even belonged to luxury goods, it was very difficult to keep abreast of the students' dynamic situation in three different places.

When I thought about it later, I was still a junior high school student with the largest number of primary school students. I didn't have a telephone at home. I was still in the stage of playing with my little friends and had to run to the other person's door and yell.

However, even in this difficult situation, Ren Xiaoyao still maintains the frequency of being able to talk to his three students once a week.

According to the old man who has been following me for many years, Han Mingyue and the public phone booth and snack bar near Wang Yang's home have already known them. Every weekend at a fixed time, when the phone rings, they go straight to the back to call someone down without asking

After listening to this, I feel very sorry. As a teacher, and at that time, Ren was already a famous scholar at home and abroad. He was very busy in teaching and scientific research, and he cared so much for his students. It was really a great kindness.

After all, the emotional problems of several parties belong to private affairs, and have nothing to do with the old man.

Return to the school carefree, so that a few people will not control the situation at the end of the summer vacation.

In the early days of school, everything went as usual. Han Mingyue and Wang Yang still didn't speak, but we can see that Wang Yang's mood was basically calm. Even when attending the regular laboratory meeting, we can have a relatively calm look at Han Mingyue.

Although still sad and unwilling, still complex and helpless, but the mood has not fluctuated.

Han Mingyue, like Wang Yang in her eyes, concentrates on her studies. She focuses on psychological research and spends all her time studying hard and writing papers.

This delicate balance lasted about a month, and something happened.

One night, Tuoba Hong went all the way to find Ren Xiaoyao. In a closed space without a third party, they had a strange conversation that made Ren Xiaoyao remember it, but still can't let go.

On the same day, after he found Ren, Tuoba Hong was silent all the time and didn't speak.

Finally, Ren Xiaoyao couldn't help but ask him if you asked me to have a heart to heart talk? How come you can't sit in a daze without saying a word after you come here.

Therefore, Tuoba Hong told teacher Ren that he could not imagine the most wonderful and even the worst result that he had already realized!

Tuoba's first sentence is, "teacher, I'm going to marry Han Mingyue. I want to say hello to you in advance."

Ren Xiaoyao is so stupid that he is numb.

Although we have realized that there is a problem between Han Mingyue and Tuoba Hong, but, get married Never thought about it!

Although there was a policy to get married during graduate school, most people would choose to graduate and find a stable job before making plans.

Because of the differences in work location, work nature and income, as well as family, social and other factors, a couple may break up.

Therefore, when Tuoba Hong suddenly proposed to marry Han Mingyue in the semester of postgraduate study, Ren Xiaoyao did not expect it.

Another point is that during the first month of the school year, there is not much intersection between Tuoba and Han Mingyue. When they are hardly together in private, they have meetings, lectures and lessons. They just have normal communication, and they are neither exclusive nor intimate, just like ordinary schoolmates.

So, Ren Xiaoyao immediately asked Tuoba, what does he mean, must be married during graduate school?

Tuoba Hong's answer was more direct and almost choked Ren.

"Teacher, in fact, Han Mingyue and I have already obtained the marriage certificate. The reason for telling you is that Han Mingyue is going to ask for leave to go home for a period of time next month, so we have to communicate with you."

"Home?" Ren Xiaoyao is even more confused, "just one month after the beginning of school, I'm going to go home. Tuoba, you have to tell me clearly today, what's the matter with you and when are you going to be good? Is it because of you that Han Mingyue has to break up with Wang Yang? And what is she going home for? "

"Teacher, I'm sorry, we can't tell you something, but Mingyue must leave."

"What does it mean to have to?"

Ren Xiaoyao is very angry. He just points to Tuoba Hong and yells at him.

That is to say, the old man has a good sense of self-restraint. If you put it on me, it would have been a long time ago.

At last, Tuoba Hong said, "teacher, I can tell you the reason, but please keep a secret for Mingyue, because Because she's pregnant! "

This answer is like a bolt from the blue, almost did not split Ren Xiaoyao's head.

Pregnant?

Whose child is it? Is it Is it a kind of Tuoba Hong?

Ren Xiaoyao doesn't believe it, but if it's not the sin created by Tuoba, why does he want to marry Han Mingyue? Is it easy to be cheap?

However, when Tuoba Hong pregnant Han Mingyue. They have already got their marriage certificate, and Han needs to go home to have a rest and wait for the delivery date. After all, there is no more word left. He doesn't need such a studentAll these cruel words can be said, but Tuoba didn't give teacher Ren a clear answer or even an ambiguous explanation!

Ren Xiaoyao has mentioned the scene of this dialogue to me several times, and we have repeatedly analyzed Tuoba Hong's attitude and mentality at that time.

Finally, my view is that this senior brother Tuoba is so strong that even in theory, experience and erudition, he is still very different from Ren Xiaoyao. However, the first step for psychological workers to improve themselves is to cultivate their mind, which is better than the blue!

That is to say, I'm still in the wind!

Before the showdown between Tuoba Hong and Ren Xiaoyao, he had made a decision long ago, and he was very persistent and would not be interfered by any external factors.

In fact, Tuoba had to inform Ren Xiaoyao just because of politeness and some formality.

Whether Mr. Ren agrees or not will not have any influence on his decision, let alone influence the development of the situation.

Many years later, when the truth came out, I realized that the case was so complicated that the real behind the scenes operator really deserved the title of genius.

I remember that when I discussed this case with Mr. Ren for the second time, I said, "old man, when we finished last time, I went back to think about it for a long time and found that if I were Tuoba, I would come to you, no matter what I said, it would not be better than what he said at that time. Maybe Tuoba's" notification "is the best and only way at that stage."