My alternative life

Xiao Wang, as grandfather Liu Ruyan said, is of course the housekeeper of Liu's house and Uncle Wang who has been with him for many years.

However, by comparison, Uncle Wang and the old man are very different in age. I'm afraid they are almost as young as the second generation of the Liu family, and even younger than uncle Ruyan. Therefore, it's reasonable for grandfather Ruyan to call him Xiao Wang.

It's just that the old man called me Xiaojiang too. When Xiaowang and Xiaojiang called, it seemed that they had promoted me to a higher rank, which made me laugh and cry.

Turning around, I smile at Uncle Wang, and then I say, "Uncle Wang's situation is actually very difficult to judge. For example, I can't see how many years Uncle Wang has been with his grandfather and where he lives in his hometown."

"Well, Xiao Wang has been in Beijing for nearly 30 years. He followed me the second year after he joined the work. He was here when he was almost your age. His accent has almost been localized. You can't get a clue from the way he speaks." Grandfather Ruyan was very generous. He told me something about Uncle Wang.

However, the old man was not confused about Uncle Wang's major when he was in school. He was tight lipped and didn't say anything.

See everyone want to know the answer, and after a few minutes of dawdling, such as smoke girl has run back to the main room, I will clear my throat, uncover the mystery.

"Grandfather, although I don't know much about Uncle Wang, after all, he is the first person who officially received me after I came to the Liu family."

I began to talk at length, "let's think about it. If you come to a new environment and feel very uneasy, will the first person who receives you and talks to you be more impressed? Do you have to watch each other and try to listen to what they say? Will you pay attention to his actions, and then hope to get some information from his behavior in dialect? "

Seeing that everyone was very attentive, I simply gave an example, "for example, if I go to meet someone who is more important and powerful than me, and when I wait, if the receptionist says this to me, sir, our chairman is very kind, and he and you are fellow villagers I dare say that 90% of people will have psychological fluctuations because of this sentence. "

"They'll relax a little, they'll suddenly have confidence, they'll guess if it's a kind message from the company. It's just conveyed through the mouth of the receptionist..."

"For another example, a person always feels that he has some kind of bad disease, and then goes to the hospital for a blood test and CT. When he takes the test results and examination results to the doctor, he assumes that after seeing them, the doctor shows a relaxed and relaxed expression on his face, and even laughs. He immediately takes out a pen and writes it on the medical record book. The patient must have grown up before he hears the results Tone, think you're ok? Right? "

Seeing everyone's interest, I continued with a smile, "on the contrary, if the doctor who sees him is holding the test results in his hand, and he is silent, even if he frowns slightly, the patient will feel that the sky has collapsed. He must be terminally ill and dying Of course, you can all attribute these to the subconscious psychological hints of doctors, but what I want to say is that, in fact, if a patient studies psychology, he may see more information than just these superficial things, such as me

At the beginning, I gave an example of how psychology professionals explained their psychology.

"If it's me, I see the doctor frowning with the test results, and I will analyze his eyebrow changes and eyes. Even if the brow is very tight, but if the expression on the other person's face is mostly surprised, then my illness may not be serious, only very rare. If I frown, look thoughtful, and even don't dare to look at the patient, my condition may not be so bad. It's probably just that the doctor who sees me doesn't know how to deal with this situation. "

In conclusion, I would like to conclude by saying, "in a word, I will not frighten myself into thinking that I am going to die without hearing and seeing the final conclusion with my own eyes."

Pointing at Uncle Wang, I said, "I remember when Uncle Wang and Ruyan met, they talked about the investment environment in Shanxi Province, and then they came together to look for grandfather in the inner courtyard. Is that right?"

Seeing that Ruyan and Uncle Wang nodded, I continued, "Ruyan came back and reported the family business to his grandfather. This is no problem. It should be divided. But is it unnecessary for Uncle Wang to be present?" Oh, of course, I mean there's no problem with Uncle Wang's presence. After all, he's been in the Liu family for decades. Uncle Wang is like his grandfather's nephew. The Liu family's economic situation is not taken for granted by Uncle Wang. "

"But," I said, "but Ruyan and grandfather said for a long time, if Uncle Wang doesn't know how to manage and can't give Ruyan any advice, he should come out and arrange for me. That's the right reason. No matter how to say, I'm also a guest invited by the Liu family. If I don't give an explanation, I'll stay here for more than 50 minutes. I'm very emotional and reasonable Ha ha, if Huige didn't accompany me, then I don't know what to do. How embarrassing! "

At the end of my speech, Master Liu laughed, but Uncle Wang's face was a little embarrassed. He pretended to be angry with me and said, "OK, you boy, are you upset after a few minutes? What's the matter with me now? Blame me for being impolite? "

"No, no, how dare you!" I said quickly, "Uncle Wang, the reason why I say this is just to explain how I guess your major, because only if you have an opinion on accounting and trade, which can help Ruyan a lot, will you stay and talk with Ruyan. If you don't understand, you will come out long ago, because staying there is just like listening to the book of heaven. How boring it is"You son!" Uncle Wang laughed, nodded, and said, "you are right. I did help Ruyan to analyze the gains and losses of the mountain stream trip, but it's too childish to draw such a conclusion just because I stayed in the chief's house for dozens of minutes more! For example, when Ruyan and I met the chief, we might be talking about other things? Ruyan and the chief nag at home. Can't I stay with them? "

"Yes," I nodded and said, "if it's just this, I'm a little arbitrary, so I have other basis."

"Oh?" Grandfather Ruyan's interest is obviously very strong, with doubts on his face.

"While waiting, I talked with Huige for a while. Although Huige didn't tell me who was the leader of Liujia business empire, he said a word. I remember very clearly. Huige said that he was the only one who was the least promising in his family. He retired from his official career early, and now he can only make a living doing small business. Is that what Huige said?"