My beautiful boss and I

Dong'Er bit his lower lip hard and then laughed: "Haizhu, I think you have a sweet smile But don't laugh too early. I'm afraid you won't laugh to the end I really want to see which of us can laugh last Of course, whether it's us or others, I think it's not you or others who will laugh to the end. It's only me, it must be me! Do you believe it? "

Haizhu tried to smile faintly again: "I'd like to believe it, but it seems that it's a little far away, and some deceive themselves The past is not important, the future is unpredictable, the most important thing is to grasp the present, you see, I'm not smiling at the moment, I'm not going home with Ike at the moment?

"Dong'Er, actually, I want to send you a message. Self confidence is certainly good, but don't be too self-confident. Overconfidence equals arrogance. What belongs to you will be your evil, and what doesn't belong to you. No matter how much you toss, it will never be yours It's true for you, and it's true for me. I won't give up easily, I won't give in, and I won't continue to be weak. "

It seems that Dong'Er can't bear it at last. Finally, he changes his face again. He looks at Haizhu with hatred and stares at me. Then he presses the elevator switch and goes directly into the elevator

As soon as the elevator door was closed, Haizhu let out a long breath, and her face turned white again. It seemed that her psychological endurance had just reached the limit, and now she finally couldn't stand it.

"Go in." Haizhu said weakly.

I open the door, Haizhu and I go in.

After entering, Haizhu stood at the door and looked into the room. Then she went to the sofa and sat down with her hands on her forehead. She looked a little dispirited and tired.

I poured a glass of water and put it on the tea table in front of Haizhu: "drink water."

Haizhu looked up at me: "brother, why?"

"What, why?" I sit next to Haizhu.

"Why does Dong'Er keep an eye on me? Why did she do this to me? " Haizhu said.

"This..." I was speechless for a moment.

"To her, I let her go. I even took the initiative to quit and give her a chance. However, she didn't cherish it, she didn't grasp it well, she lost her happiness, but she was angry with me and pestered with me. Now, she even bought a house at the opposite door. What does she want to do? How on earth would she give up? " Haizhu continued.

I didn't speak.

"You say, did I come back shamelessly?" Haizhu said.

"No, I asked you to come back, I asked you to come back!" I said.

"I think it's time for me to let it go. I will never let it go again. To her, I won't shrink back and give in. I want her to know that I'm not as weak and weak as she imagined, nor the object of her arrogance, nor the little sheep that can be bullied at any time in her eyes.

"No matter what she will do to me in the future, I will not let her do it again. I want to let her know that there is a limit to anyone's tolerance Everyone is equal. She can't do whatever she wants. "

Haizhu seems to be full of resentment.

I said: "ah Zhu, what happened just now is gone. Don't think about it any more A hundred people have a hundred tempers, a hundred people have a hundred personalities, and forget all the unhappy things. Look ahead I'm glad you can come back today Of course, what I'm most happy about is not only your coming back, but also your cure I actually know what you and Haifeng are doing in Canada. I've been paying attention to them. "

Haizhu nodded: "in fact, I really didn't expect that this disease could be cured. I thought I would never be able to have fertility again. I had already thought about it at that time. No matter how much work you do for me, no matter how many powerful reasons you say, as long as I can't have fertility, I will never come back to you again. I can't let you change your family because of myself I can't accept that.

"Of course, when I went to your house that day, I could see that your mother also wanted to have grandchildren This shows that my original decision was right Of course, now, I'm in a dream, and my illness is really cured In fact, this is thanks to a friend of brother Haifeng. One of his friends went out of his way to find out the advanced treatment methods abroad, and then told brother Haifeng

"I asked brother Haifeng who his friend was many times. I wanted to thank him personally, but Haifeng always didn't tell me that he didn't want to show up. He just helped me by the way. He didn't deserve special thanks. He promised that he would not tell anyone who he was and he would keep his promise

"The more Haifeng says that, the more grateful I am to that unknown good man. At the same time, I wonder why that person is not willing to accept my gratitude? In fact, I really want to repay that person well. My parents have taught us since childhood that we should repay each other when we know our kindness

At this time, I am very grateful to the unknown good man, but Haifeng didn't tell me, and I can't tell Haizhu.

I said: "there are still many good people in the world. There is such a kind of person in the world who is unwilling to keep his name when he does good deeds and does not intend to repay his kindness."

Haizhu said: "brother, why do some people do good deeds and do not want to keep their names?"I said: "it seems that we can understand it this way, because by leaving a name, doing good seems to be a deliberate act, seems to have impure motives, and becomes a person who does good deeds in order to get thanks. Of course, maybe, it is also because of other reasons."

Haizhu nodded: "yes, there is such a person Such a person must have a high moral character However, in fact, from my personal point of view, I don't agree with the act of doing good deeds without leaving a name. "

"Why?" I said: "all along, doing good without leaving a name can exist in people's consciousness as a moral concept that is worth advocating and should be vigorously promoted. Of course, the reason for this is probably closely related to the introverted character of our people. "

Haizhu said: "in fact, from another perspective, I think it's selfish to take care of my own inner feelings and ignore the psychological feelings of the recipients. Our traditional morality requires that we should repay our kindness. Therefore, if we can't thank the benefactor in a certain way, the recipient will always feel uneasy and a stone in his heart will never fall to the ground.

"On the other hand, because the helpers are worried that they will suffer negative moral evaluation after they voluntarily admit it, they are not willing to admit it even if they know that the recipients are inquiring about themselves in many ways, and they are not willing to take the initiative to satisfy themselves even if they understand the gratitude of the recipients In fact, this kind of thinking is very selfish. It only cares about its own inner feelings and other people's moral evaluation of itself, but does not consider the inner feelings and psychological balance of the recipients. "

I laugh.

Haizhu also laughed, and then said: "our real society is like this. On the one hand, our traditional morality advocates gratitude, on the other hand, our traditional morality condemns gratitude. These two moral concepts have been so contradictory and unified As a recipient, he always wants to find a kind-hearted person to help himself. On the one hand, he expresses his gratitude; on the other hand, he hopes to repay his benefactor in some way.

"And people who do good things always try to avoid doing good things. Even if they are willing to let others know, they always feel that it is not right to admit doing good things. They will be considered as doing good things in return. When they are found passively, it seems that their moral realm will be sublimated So, I think, ah, it can't keep up with the pace of the times to do good deeds without leaving a name. It has evolved from a moral concept that should be advocated in a period of time to a kind of obsolete, stale and abnormal moral concept that should be abandoned. "

I also laugh: "your view is very interesting."

"I even feel that this practice can't adapt to the fast-paced modern society and wastes a lot of social resources," Haizhu said

"Where does that start?" I said.

Haizhu said, "think about it. It's a very simple and direct thing, because those who do good things don't leave their names, and they will grow twists and turns, wasting a lot of time and energy. If you leave your name and contact information after you have done a good deed, or if you contact the recipient when you know that others are asking about you, you will save a lot of unnecessary procedures, so that the recipient will not feel guilty, ask around, or even pay for advertising, which makes a very simple thing complicated. "

Listen to Haizhu say here, I can't help laughing, I think of summer and summer rain advertising to find me.

Haizhu added: "I also feel that this practice is not conducive to the promotion of the virtue of helping others!"

"The more you say it, the more serious the problem seems to be Where does that start? " I said.

Haizhu said: "we have a Chinese saying that good things do not go out, bad things spread a thousand miles. Therefore, in people's feeling, it seems that many people do bad things and few do good things. The opposite may be true. The reason why good things do not go out is that people hide and tuck in after doing good things, and do not want others to know or do not want to take the initiative to let others know.

"The recipients were grateful, but they had to give up because it was difficult to find a good doer. As a result, many good people and good deeds are lost in the long river of time and can not be publicized in time, which is not conducive to the establishment of righteousness and the promotion of the virtue of helping others. Therefore, I think that we should not regard it as something worthy of promotion to do good deeds without leaving a name. We should vigorously promote doing good deeds without leaving a name, so as to make those who do good deeds more upright and vigorous. "

I nodded: "well Maybe you have a point However, the good man who helped you insisted on not showing up. Haifeng also had to respect the wishes of others, and we were not good at demanding it. "

Haizhu nodded: "well, I'm just talking about my views from the perspective of the benefactor. In fact, I still respect the good man in my heart, and I'm very grateful to him in my heart Maybe, one day, we will know who he is. At that time, I will repay him well Otherwise, I always feel that I owe someone something in my heart. It's hard to feel that I owe someone. "

I said, "if you have this idea, you are also a good person There are a lot of people in the world who will bite the hand that feeds them. "

Haizhu suddenly said: "I think Dong'Er is the one who avenges kindness I took the initiative to quit and give you to her. I even called her to meet you at Tianyi Square in ningzhou, but now she regards me as her enemy. "

Haizhu's words made me feel a little stunned and speechless.Haizhu sighed again: "in fact, no matter how much she hates me, no matter how much she teases me, no matter what my superficial attitude towards her is now, just like me and her, I'm stubborn I have never hated her in my heart. I will not treat her as an enemy Even, I'm still willing to take her as a friend After all, she had a fight with you. After all, before I was with you, she was very kind to you and brought you a lot of joy. "

Haizhu's words made me feel a little moved and I couldn't help taking Haizhu.