My beautiful boss and I

I said, "but I don't think it's proper. This is Li Shun's company, not mine. How can I own his property?"

Lao Li said, "it's wrong for you to think like this Do you know why Li Shun put his property under your name? Obviously, first, he is on guard, that is, once he has an accident, his property can be preserved; second, he has a high degree of trust in you and believes in your character. He knows that you don't love money. Even if you put it in your name, it's easy to go back, and you won't hold on to it. Of course, he doesn't worry about it because of his confidence in being a gangster.

he is not worried about it

"Third, maybe he himself has the idea of giving this company to you, that is out of his feelings for your personal friends In the current situation, the company can only be listed in your name, it can only be yours. By doing so, you are helping Li Shun, fulfilling his wish and fulfilling him. If you don't accept it, that's what disappoints him most. "

I heard what Lao Li said. It seems that he can only do so now. So I nodded: "OK."

Lao Li said: "it seems that Li Shun has already had a premonition about himself Transfer the property ahead of time From his point of view, it's very wise As a matter of fact, many real gangsters do not have their property in their own name, especially their movable property, which will be unconsciously placed in the name of the person they trust, and even the person concerned will not be aware of it In this way, even if something goes wrong, the loss will be minimized Li Shunhui is like this. I'm afraid Bai Laosan will not miss this. "

After listening to Lao Li's words, I couldn't help thinking of the words of Bai Laosan's property transfer in Dong'Er's letter, and nodded: "what you said is reasonable."

Lao Li laughed: "unexpectedly, my children and I have become business partners now I expected my children to provide for me, but I didn't expect them to earn my money. "

I wry smile: "you don't always make fun of me, OK? I'm a little confused now! "

"What's the mess? It's a very simple thing. In fact, I am at ease now, so that the construction project will not be affected and the construction site will be safe You can rest assured that I will arrange the summer to coordinate with the person in charge of the construction. Generally, nothing will disturb your boss. " Lao Li said with a smile: "I guess the general manager of the construction company will come to you soon to report his work. Li Shun must have made arrangements for a long time."

The next day, the general manager of the construction company came to report to me and said that Li Shun had made arrangements before. If he had an accident, I would be the boss and legal person of the company. If anything happened, I would ask for instructions and report to me directly, and all expenses would be signed by me.

But I had to take over. I asked about the specific situation of the company and encouraged the general manager to coordinate and cooperate with Sanshui group to do a good job in the construction project. Then I said that you don't need to report to me about ordinary things. I am familiar with the boss of Sanshui group. Through them, I can also understand the construction situation of the construction site. At present, I don't need to take over other work. I just need to do a good job at the construction site of Sanshui group.

I don't want the general manager to come to me when he has nothing to do, and I don't want to expand the business of the company. It's better to be cautious at present.

I talked to Lao Li about my ideas and practices, and Lao Li agreed.

"You are now unconsciously pushed to the top of the storm. Of course, you are on the top of the unknown storm. The unseen storm is around you. It doesn't seem good to you, but it may not be bad. At least it can let you go through the storm and experience. Not everyone can have the chance to experience yourself in this way." Lao Li said.

I also wry smile: "but this kind of experience is really what I don't want to go through I don't want to choose this kind of experience, but I can't give up. "

Lao Li said: "some things, you have to choose, some things, you have to give up It's the same with being a man and doing things There are thousands of roads in the world, but we only have one. In fact, everyone lives in choice and abandonment every day. Every choice and abandonment is caused by painful struggle or habit. People are happy because of choice and regret because of abandonment. All the ups and downs come from it. "

I said, "choosing and giving up are always contradictory."

Lao Li said: "no, choice and abandonment are always a unity of opposites. If there is no choice, there will be no abandonment. If there is no abandonment, the choice will be meaningless. As the saying goes: there is gain, there is loss, there is loss, there is gain. The key is to see how you look at it. "

Lao Li's words make my heart move. Yes, there are gains and losses. The key is mentality. All living beings give up in choice every day, and choose in giving up every day. When you get feelings but lose friendship, when you get money but lose self-esteem, when you get power but lose freedom, when you lose youth but get experience, when you lose life but get respect, Lost the marriage but got to know. We want to get too much, but not all, we also lost a lot, but not nothing.

Lao Li then said: "at this time, you can't avoid whether you choose or give up when something like this happens to Li Shun Since the choice and give up can not be avoided, then calmly face, escape can not solve the problem. Of course, I want to tell you, whether it is now or in the future, whether it is this matter or other things, when you choose, you should be calm, don't trust others, others' choice is not necessarily suitable for you; when you give up, you should be decisive, don't hesitate, procrastination always makes people regret. The choice is prudent, the easy choice is irresponsible performance; giving up is painful, forced to give up is a wise move. "I nodded.

Lao Li said with some emotion: "in a sense, from the perspective of life, choice means affirmation, giving up means negation. What is positive is not always right, and what is negative is not always wrong. Some people are deceived by their eyes, misled by their experience, and finally hit the ground to break the blood, which is pitiful and ridiculous; some people know that they are wrong, but they never repent and make mistakes again and again, which is pitiful but not pitiful.

"I sympathize with the former. They pay the price because of their conceit. I despise the latter. They lose the chance to change because of their self-esteem. There is no unchangeable thing in the world. Today's choice may be tomorrow's giving up. Today's giving up may be for tomorrow's better choice. Whether you choose or give up, it's all needed by the situation. You can't tolerate any falsehood. "

Lao Li's words let my heart rise and fall, I know that life is short, the vicissitudes of life, choice and give up will alternate. I don't want to have too many choices. Too many choices will arouse endless desire and make people lose their way. I don't want to give up too much, and if I give up, I will lose myself. The way to success lies in persistence. There is no failure, only giving up. Why haven't I succeeded yet? Maybe it's too much to give up!

Lao Li also said: "a person can succeed only if he has experienced enough experience. Success comes from his mentality. If you embed ambition, confidence, determination, love, concentration, sincerity, patience, perseverance, modesty and meditation into your mind, you will surely succeed in life!"

I look at Lao Li.

"No matter in the workplace or in the officialdom, everyone can enjoy the greatest freedom and space only if they keep climbing up," Mr. Li said. You should let yourself try to jump from the horizon of life, so you have to be ambitious. Most people's potential utilization rate is less than 10%. Many people don't know what they can do and what talents they have.

"In fact, everyone has great potential, but some people's potential has awakened, and some people's potential is still sleeping. The root of success lies in the development of people's endless potential! So you have to be confident.

"Those seemingly unattainable high goals will make people psychologically shy away! In fact, on the road to the goal, you have been working hard, but when you see the high goal, you always feel that there is still a long way to go. Every time you have this feeling, your courage and strength will be consumed once. If you have more times, you will lose your courage and the power to move forward.

"In fact, what you lack is the art of goal decomposition. This art, first of all, will psychologically strengthen your determination to achieve your goals. Whether it is to do the workplace or officialdom, you have to think clearly, in this world, everyone is your potential customers! So, you have to be loving.

"Einstein once said that interest is the best teacher. Interest can make people constantly explore and study new things. Interest allows you to focus on the areas you are interested in and activate your thinking. Honesty is the greatest wealth in one's life. Only treat others sincerely, others will treat you sincerely. Honesty is the expression of professional ethics, words must be done, deeds must be fruit, in order to move towards the road of success. Therefore, you should let yourself concentrate and be sincere to people and things. "

I nodded.

Lao Li continued: "not every time you sow, you will get something. Patience is the fastest way to change fate. Being eager for success is the enemy of success. The easiest thing in the world is persistence, and the hardest thing is persistence. It is easy to say that everyone can do it if they are willing to do it, but difficult to say that only a few people can really do it. The success of those who travel a hundred miles lies in persistence. Without unswerving perseverance, they either give up halfway or fall short of success!

"Of course, there is no end to the road to success. You must not be complacent and complacent just because you have made achievements for a while. Only when everyone keeps an open-minded attitude, can he keep learning and making progress. Many people understand the truth that mind is like water. In fact, meditation is equally important to everyone. If one can do it, it can have unexpected effects. "

I think about Lao Li's words. Yes, mentality is an important factor in life. Either you control mentality, or mentality controls you. The reason why most people can't succeed is not because they didn't make efforts, but because they didn't experience their mentality well in the process of making efforts.

If you don't have ambition, you will have no ambition to achieve your career; if you don't throw away your inferiority complex, you will not be able to give full play to your advantages and expertise with confidence; if you don't put a good idea into action, it will be nothing but wishful thinking. Only when you make up your mind and act immediately, can you achieve your value.

Only love, can be loved; only concentration, can be professional, only professional, can be outstanding; sincere treatment, get people's trust, is a kind of capital, if a dishonest to people, it may lose this kind of credit capital forever; eager for success, often nothing, the necessary patience will let you calmly deal with; without a perseverance to deal with difficulties and setbacks, you will lose On the way forward, we should believe that there must be a teacher for the three people, open-minded learning can create the future; only tranquility can lead to long-term development, only meditation and common mind can lead to the next goal.

"Can you understand my words well?" Lao Li said.I nodded and said, "I see Success comes from mentality, because mentality determines thought, thought determines behavior, behavior determines habit, habit determines character, and character determines result. "

"A child can be taught!" Lao Li smiles.

In the afternoon, when I passed the seaside Avenue, I saw Lao Li fishing alone by the seaside.

Lao Li sat there with his back to me, motionless. His back looked old and lonely. The sea breeze blew and his hair was a little scattered.