My beautiful boss and I

I finally remember that the first time the Secretary of the municipal Party committee came to the group for inspection, and the second time he came to the group for new year's greetings. This person was closely followed by him with a bag.

This person is the Secretary of the Secretary of the municipal Party committee.

Cao Li and Cao Teng get together with the Secretary of the municipal Party Secretary and have dinner together.

So, what's the matter with Xiaofeng? What's her relationship with the Secretary of the municipal Party secretary? Are you going to dinner as Cao Teng's girlfriend or

It seems that Cao Teng is not so good at catching up with the Secretary of the municipal Party committee, but I have no doubt about Cao Linang.

So Cao Teng got on with the Secretary of the municipal Party committee through Cao Li?

I thought while watching TV.

At this time, Haizhu came out of the busy, sat down beside me, stretched: "ah - busy."

I looked at Haizhu: "ah Zhu, it's hard In fact, you don't need to do it yourself any more. There are so many people under your command that they can't do it. "

Haizhu said with a smile: "they are also doing it. Recently, there are many businesses. They are too busy. I am also idle when I am idle. Just do one Just exercise yourself. "

I said, "do the company's managers feel comfortable using it?"

Haizhu thought about it and said, "it's ok Recently, there are many new employees in the company. I observed them and found an interesting phenomenon

"What phenomenon?" I said.

Haizhu said: "I found that they can be roughly divided into two categories, one is very eloquent and eloquent, the other is silent and not very talkative. You say, which of these two kinds of people has more development potential and future? Is it more valuable? "

I thought about it and said, "I'll tell you a story."

"Well..." Haizhu looks at me.

"as like as two peas of a small country sent to China, three gold men were alike, who were brilliant and brilliant. However, this small country is not kind. At the same time, there is a question: which of the three golden men is the most valuable? As like as two peas, the emperor thought many ways to check the weight of the jewellery. What should I do? The messenger is still waiting to report back. A great country, you don't even know this little thing, do you?

"Finally, an old minister who abdicated said he had a way. The Emperor invited the emissary to the main hall. The old minister took three straws and inserted them into the ear of the first golden man. The straws came out of the other ear. The second Jin Man's straw fell out of his mouth, while the third Jin Man's straw fell into his stomach, and there was no sound. Old minister said: the third Golden man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct. "

"What does that mean?" Haizhu said.

"What do you say? Think about it I said.

Haizhu thought for a while, nodded his head and said, "Oh, I see. This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the one who can speak the most. God gave us two ears and a mouth, which meant that we should listen more and speak less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person. "

"The answer is correct!" I nodded.

Haizhu thought about it, and then asked me, "how can I cultivate those who are worthy of cultivation?"

I said, "I'll tell you another story."

Haizhu laughs: "you say."

"Chen ATU is a farmer in Taiwan and has never been abroad. After saving half of my life's money, I finally joined a tour group and went abroad. Everything in foreign countries is very fresh. The key is that Chen ATU participated in a luxury group and lived in a standard room. It was a novelty to him.

"In the morning, when the waiter knocked on the door to deliver breakfast, he said loudly: goodmorningsir! Chen ATU was stunned. What does that mean? In his hometown, strangers usually ask: what's your name? So Chen ATU cried out: my name is Chen ATU! In this way, for three consecutive days, it was the waiter who knocked on the door and said aloud every day: goodmorningsir! And Chen ATU also loudly replied: "my name is Chen ATU!

"But he was very angry. The waiter is too stupid. He asks his name every day, but he can't remember it. It's very annoying. Finally, he couldn't help asking the guide what goodmorningsir meant. The guide told him, my God! What a shame. So Chen ATU repeatedly practiced goodmorningsir! It's a word to be able to handle the waiter with dignity.

"Another morning, the waiter knocked on the door as usual. As soon as the door opened, Chen ATU called out: goodmorningsir! At the same time, the waiter called, "I'm Chen ATU!"

At the end of the story, Haizhu looked at me in some confusion: "brother, what do you want to explain through this story?"

"Think about it!"

Haizhu thought for a long time and said, "I can't think of it!"

I said, "idiot!"

Haizhu said with a smile: "of course, you are not as smart as you. Tell me --"

I said: "this story tells us that interpersonal communication is often a contest between willpower and willpower. Either you influence him or he influences you. And if you want to succeed, you must cultivate your own influence. Only those with great influence can be the strongest."So, the first thing you need to cultivate your people is to enable them to have the ability to be influenced by you In other words, it is to accept your leadership, accept your influence, and be loyal to the company. Only in this way can we do our job well. "

Haizhu nodded: "Oh, I see I want to increase my influence on them first. "

"Yes, the influence can not only depend on the system assessment, but also on their own real ability and the company's bright future. Only when they see the company's long-term development prospects and the company's bright vision, can they have the confidence and determination to work in the company for a long time." I said.

Haizhu said: "how can we create a better future for the company?"

I said, "I'll tell you a third story."

"Well..." Haizhu looked at me with interest.

I said, "there are three people who are going to be in prison for three years, and the warden gives them one request for each of them. Americans like to smoke cigars. They ordered three cases of cigars. The French are the most romantic. They want a beautiful woman to accompany them. The Jews said he wanted a phone to communicate with the outside world. Three years later, the first one who rushed out was an American. His mouth and nostrils were filled with cigars. He yelled: give me fire, give me fire! He had forgotten to make a fire.

"Then came the French. He was holding a child in his hand, a beautiful woman holding a child in her hand, and a third child in her stomach. The last one who came out was a Jew. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "in the past three years, I have kept in touch with the outside world every day. Instead of stopping, my business has increased by 200%. In order to express my gratitude, I'll give you a Rolls Royce!"

"Ha ha..." Haizhu laughs.

I said: "this story tells us that what kind of choice determines what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choice three years ago, and today's choice will determine our life three years later. Therefore, in order to have a better future for the company, we must learn to contact the latest information and understand the latest trends, so as to create a better future. "

Haizhu nodded happily and sincerely: "mmm..."

I went on to say, "the company has recently brought in a lot of new people, but are you sure you can keep all these people? Or are you sure you can keep the talented people you want to keep? "

"It's hard to say." Haizhu said, "well, how can we retain talents? Is that what you said just now that I need to have enough influence to let them see the bright vision of our company? "

I said, "that's just one of the measures, not the most critical."

Haizhu said, "the most important thing is..."

I looked at my watch and said, "I'll tell you one last story."

"Well..." Haizhu nodded happily: "I like the way you tell me stories."

I said: "it's getting dark. When the shepherds surnamed Zhang and Li were driving their sheep home, they were surprised to find that each family had more than a dozen sheep. It turned out that a group of wild goats had come back with their sheep.

"The shepherd, surnamed Zhang, thought," you can't lose the fat to your mouth. So the fence was tightened and the wild goat was firmly circled. The shepherd surnamed Li thought: treat these wild goats better, maybe we can attract more wild goats. So more and better fodder was provided for the wild goats.

"The next day, the shepherd surnamed Zhang was afraid that the wild goat would run away, so he drove the sheep into the vast grassland. The shepherd surnamed Li drove home sheep and wild goats into the vast grassland. At night, the family sheep of the shepherd surnamed Li brought back more than a dozen wild goats, while the family sheep of the shepherd surnamed Zhang didn't bring back even one wild goat.

"The shepherd surnamed Zhang was very angry and scolded the sheep for being incompetent. One old goat timidly said, "it's not all our fault. All the wild goats know that they are trapped and lost their freedom when they come to our house. Who dares to come to our house?"

After listening to me, Haizhu nodded thoughtfully: "I understand that when many enterprises retain talents, they adopt the same method as the shepherd surnamed Zhang - to imprison talents through rigid measures. The result is to retain people, but also failed to retain the heart, in the end is still nothing. In fact, the key to retaining talents is to give them enough development space and institutional freedom in their career. "

I laughed: "smart, understand very well."

Haizhu smiles happily.

I said, "that's all for today. Sleep!"

Lying on the bed, Haizhu was in my arms. It seemed that I was not sleepy for a while.

"Brother, did Li Shun really kill Bai Laosan?" Haizhu asked me suddenly.

Haizhu obviously knows about it. It's the news in Xinghai streets these days.

"No, although Bai Laosan is dead, it's not Li shunsha!" I said.

"How do you know?" Haizhu said.

"I I guess so I said.

"Guess." Haizhu looked at me: "that gun fight Is Li Shun involved

I hesitated and nodded, "yes!"

"How do you know that?" Haizhu said.I didn't say a word.

After a moment's silence, Haizhu said, "did you take part in the gunfight?"

I shook my head: "No."

"Who can prove that you're not involved?" Haizhu is staring at me.

"I had dinner with the leaders of the group and the Propaganda Department of the municipal Party committee that night. They can prove it!" I said.

"Oh Then I'm relieved. " Haizhu breathed a sigh of relief: "Bai Laosan is dead, but we are at peace. At least no one will disturb us any more. Li Shun is wanted. It doesn't seem that there is nothing wrong with him. It's just that Qiu Tong is pitiful. You can't find someone to be her husband. She has to find Li Shun like that Bad luck for eight generations You're not involved. Good. Good luck

I sighed a little in my heart.

Haizhu then said, "by the way, has something happened to Donger?"

"I don't know!" I said.

"Where is she?"

"I don't know!"

"She didn't contact you?"

"No!"

Haizhu thought for a moment: "Dong'Er hasn't appeared in the opposite door these days. It seems that she is hiding Bai Laosan is dead. I don't know where she will go next? I don't know if she's going to be in danger. "

Haizhu's words make my heart pull up again, and I have been worried about Donger's safety.