My beautiful boss and I

Xie Fei said: "how many women want to see Jackie Chan as their husband. In order to achieve this goal, they even spare no effort to help men achieve this goal by all means. However, I suddenly find that such women are extremely sad The sad thing about them is that when their man becomes a dragon, she can't become a Phoenix Even when his man Jackie Chan, his tragedy began

"Oh This means... " I said.

"How many women are peeping at the man after Jackie Chan? How many women want to get something for nothing to possess the Dragon they have painstakingly cultivated? " Xie Fei said: "after Jackie Chan, how many men can be loyal to their marriage? How many people don't have flags flying outside

Xie Fei's voice sounds a bit helpless, and a bit sad and sad.

I seem to understand the meaning of Xie Fei's words.

"This is the world. It's natural for men to cheat. It's natural for women to cheat." Xie Fei added.

I laughed and didn't speak.

Xie Fei also laughed: "do you think this is fair to women?"

I said, "well, it's not fair!"

Xie Fei said, "it's not fair. What should we do then?"

I said, "what should I do? Cool

Xie Fei chuckled and said, "hot fried and cold mixed."

I laughed again.

Xie Fei stopped laughing for a while and said, "if I told you that I went to the hotel to meet a man that day, would you think I was a bad woman?"

"This..." I can't answer for a moment.

"If you can't answer it, it means that you agree that I am a bad woman, doesn't it?" Xie Fei said.

"No, no, I don't think so." I said.

I feel a little insincere myself.

Xie Fei said: "it's OK. Even if you think that, I won't blame you But if I tell you again that the man I went to see didn't have any relationship with me, not before, not that day, not even in the future, will you believe it? "

My heart a shock, seriously looking at Xie Fei, seriously nodded: "elder martial sister, I will believe, I will believe!"

"Why do you believe it?" Xie Fei said.

"Because you are my teacher and my elder martial sister!" I said.

Xie Fei nodded: "thank you I'm glad to hear that

Although I said that I would believe Xie Fei's words, the question in my heart has not been eliminated. Since Xie Fei is not looking for the man to have an affair, what is it?

Although I have doubts, Xie Fei does not say that I am not going to ask.

Xie Fei said: "in fact, you must be very strange in your heart. What did I see that man in the hotel that day? It's also very strange. Since I didn't go to the red apricot wall, I would be nervous when I saw Lao Guan when I came out."

I nodded honestly, "yes."

Xie Fei said, "do you want to know?"

I said, "I'm not that curious about other people's privacy."

"What if I want to tell you?" Xie Fei said

I said: "elder martial sister, you can choose not to tell me!"

Xie Fei laughed and said, "come on, younger martial brother, drink."

I raise my glass

After putting down the glass, Xie Fei looked down at the table and said, "if it's someone else, I don't care what they think of me. I don't care. However, I don't want you to have any misunderstanding about me. I don't want my image in your eyes to have any stains So even if you're not interested in knowing, I want to tell you

Xie Fei's words seemed to have a different meaning, and my heart beat faster.

"That day, I went to the hotel to meet the man, I made an appointment, is from Shenyang, he is a professional private detective, specializing in extramarital affairs investigation." Xie Fei said.

I suddenly realized, fainted, Xie Fei unexpectedly and Haizhu took such measures, please private detective to investigate his man. It's just that Xie Fei didn't look for it locally, but from Shenyang.

It seems that foreign monks can recite scriptures.

old Guan must not know that he is being secretly investigated by his wife.

"Now you understand?" Xie Fei said.

I nodded: "Oh..."

Xie Fei said: "I have always suspected that there are women outside Lao Guan, but I am not sure who they are or how many women they have When the private detective arrived at Xinghai, he stayed in the Spring Hotel, and then I came to meet him and talk about business After the meeting, I told Lao Guan about the situation. However, when the private detective heard about Lao Guan's identity, he had an appetite. The lion opened his mouth and fired him at a very high price, which I couldn't accept.

"Although Lao Guan and I are husband and wife, the only money I can manage is my salary and his. Besides, I don't know what income Lao Guan has. He will never tell me That is to say, I can't afford the price of the private detective.

"After a long talk, I decided to give up So I paid for his round trip travel, and then came out When I came out, I met Lao Guan talking with you at the door of the hotel. Naturally, I didn't want Lao Guan to see me. Fortunately, you covered for me. "It seems that Guan Yunfei is extremely cautious in his work. Xie Fei's income beyond his salary has been concealed. I don't believe that Lao Guan has been an official for so many years, and he has no income other than his salary. He must have, and not less. But Xie Fei didn't know.

Many senior officials' economic problems are caused by their wives. Some of them are revenged and exposed by their wives, and some of them are opened up by the investigators. It seems that Lao Guan is well aware of the advantages and disadvantages, and takes very careful preventive measures. But at the same time, it also shows that Lao Guan is somewhat wary of Xie Fei. I don't know if it's a kind of sadness for the couple who live together every day. I don't know whether it's the sadness of Lao Guan or Xie Fei.

It turned out that Xie Fei was talking business with the private detective that day, but he didn't give up his plan to come out.

If Lao Guan knew what Xie Fei was doing behind his back, he didn't know what he would think, and whether their seemingly harmonious relationship would be overshadowed.

When I think of Xie Fei, I think of Haizhu again. Haizhu and I have been like this before we got married. I don't know how much Haizhu will get worse after we get married.

Thinking like this, I feel sad

Lao Guan and I are quite in the same boat. Even, I'm not as good as Lao Guan. At least he was investigated after he got married. As for me, it started before marriage.

Xie Fei added: "after that day, my mentality suddenly changed. I suddenly felt that my behavior was very stupid and ridiculous. A man's heart can't be kept by private detectives. It's only myself who can be injured by investigation. I'm so stupid that I can't find happiness for myself

"All of a sudden, I figured it out. I decided to give up this plan and stop doing this kind of investigation. It's boring. Really, it's boring to think about it In fact, I know in my heart whether my husband and wife are happy or not when they are together. If I have to do something far fetched, can I save my happiness? Now looking back, I really think it's ridiculous. "

Xie Fei is a cultured intellectual woman, very rational.

In fact, I doubt the relationship between Qin Lu and Lao Guan, but I'm not going to tell Xie Fei. I know that it is better to demolish ten temples than one marriage.

I said: "elder martial sister, in fact, I think that your suspicion of minister Guan may be just a shadow in the wind. The couple live together, and the trust between them is very important!"

Xie Fei gave a bitter smile and said, "you are right. Trust is the most important thing in marriage! As for whether I am a shadow hunter or not, I know for myself, but you don't understand. "

It seems that Xie Fei thinks there is a woman outside Laoguan, but he just doesn't know who it is.

In fact, I also think that Lao Guan's marriage is derailed, and I can probably know who one of them is.

It seems that the marriage between Xie Fei and Lao Guan is not as perfect as I think, and also has a shadow.

I don't know how many marriages in this world have no shadow.

After a moment's silence, Xie Fei drank with me again. I drank with Xie Fei faintly. Although Xie Fei drank much less than me, his face became more and more red.

"Younger martial brother, what is marriage?" Later, Xie Fei asked me.

I said, "marriage I haven't experienced However, in my opinion, marriage should be a kind of life. "

Xie Fei smiles and looks at me: "I used to know that marriage is a kind of life, a life of sharing weal and woe, a life of coming together for material and spiritual wealth But now, in my opinion, marriage is more like a choice. Marriage should not be for relieving loneliness or looking for a long-term meal ticket. To be more intense, marriage is like a gamble. "

I said, "Oh It's a bet

"Yes, no matter who you choose, it's an investment. Whether you choose original stocks, potential stocks or peak stocks, you need to take risks. Choice is the most important. You have the right to choose. You can choose whether you want to marry or who you want to marry. However, this kind of initiative is not absolute. When you meet love or miss the best time to choose, the initiative will be involuntarily handed over to others or the authority will be put aside. No matter how you choose, God always implements the golden mean when you choose. He won't make you perfect or completely despair. " Xie Fei said quietly.

"Marriage is always based on love, isn't it?" I said.

"Love." Xie Fei smiles and asks me, "younger martial brother, what do you think is the difference between love inside and outside marriage?"

I said, "well I don't know! "

Xie Fei said: "so, in the eyes of the past and the unmarried, what is the difference between the understanding of marriage?"

I laughed: "I still don't know! I'd like to hear from you

Xie Fei said, "I'll tell you a story One day, Plato asked his teacher what is love. His teacher told him to go to the wheat field first and pick the biggest and golden ear in the whole wheat field. During this period, you can only pick it once, and you can only move forward, not back. Plato did as the teacher said. As a result, he walked out of the wheat field empty handed.

"The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it. He said: because he could only pick it once, and he couldn't go back. Even if he saw a big and golden one, he didn't pick it because he didn't know if there was a better one ahead. When he came to the front, he found that it was not as good as what he had seen before. It turned out that the biggest and golden ear in the wheat field had already been missed. So, I couldn't pick anything Here we are. The teacher said, "this is love."I nodded, "well, I see."