My beautiful boss and I

After a while, she said: "in fact, tolerance is also a state of mind As the saying goes: take a step back, let a little calm. That is to say, tolerance is needed between people. Tolerance is a virtue, it can make a person respected. Tolerance is a good medicine, it can save a person's soul. Tolerance is like a lamp, which can shine in the dark and illuminate every soul. "

I said: "my heart has been tightly bound, not by others, but by myself I want to break free, but it's hard. "

"We all need to learn to loosen our hearts," she said. People's mind is fragile and needs constant encouragement and comfort. Often self motivation, self praise, will make the heart very happy. Learning to relax your mind is to create a warm harbor for yourself. You often go to massage your busy and tired mind, so that all parts of your mind can be maintained and maintained

"Spiritual self-restraint is often due to all kinds of setbacks and tribulations. In fact, don't treat setbacks as failures. Everyone will inevitably suffer setbacks and failures in his life. The difference is that the loser always regards the setback as failure, so that he can deeply attack his courage to win every time; the winner never says he is defeated, and always says to himself in the face of setback after setback: I have not failed, but I have not succeeded

"If a person who has lost temporarily continues to work hard and intends to win back, then his loss today is not a real failure. On the contrary, if he loses the courage to fight again, he will lose

I couldn't help laughing: "it seems that you have such a good attitude, you will never have trouble."

She said, "ha ha Everyone will have troubles, everyone will have, you have, I have, everyone has However, we should learn to adjust our own mentality, to avoid worry into heart disease. In real life, people who worry all day are not suffering too much misfortune, but rooted in their inner world.

"Therefore, when troubles come, we should neither blame others nor abandon ourselves. We should learn to relax our mind, adjust ourselves psychologically, and avoid troubles becoming heart diseases Heart disease is not more terrible than physical disease. "

I said: "you are right, I can accept and understand, but it is difficult for me to be happy at this time."

She shook hands and said, "happiness is very simple Some people say that happiness is the flowers in spring, the shade in summer, the wild fruits in autumn and the flying snow in winter. In fact, happiness is around us. A knowing smile, a sincere handshake and a heart-to-heart conversation are the happiest things. "

I said, "you smile for me."

She then sent a smile.

I said, "is this a knowing smile?"

She said, "you're free to understand."

I said, "are we having a heart to heart conversation?"

She said, "what do you think?"

I said, "I want to watch you talk to you."

She said, "do you want to have a video chat?"

I said, "you know that!"

She said, "goodbye."

I said, "why?"

She said, "since it hasn't been that long before Why do you have to Since it is in the virtual invisible air, why do we have to destroy this pattern? "

It seems that she is nostalgic for the past. It seems that she cherishes the past. It seems that she can't help but fear every breakthrough.

I said: "although you have just said so much about life and the truth of life, it is very difficult for you to really practice it when you go back to yourself. You have been retreating and avoiding something, you have been compromising something, you have been carefully closing yourself, and you have been lacking enough courage and courage."

She said, "don't make me My character is like this, my reality has been like this, my destiny has already been predestined I believe in struggle, but I believe in fate more Destiny is unchangeable. It's all predestined with life. I don't want to fight against the predestined fate. I fear fate, I fear reality

"I have my bottom line of doing things and being a person. I can never tolerate building my happiness on the pain of others. Although I sometimes can't do it thoroughly and do my best, and sometimes I can't control my consciousness, I've been working hard and I've been working hard."

Looking at her words, my heart hurt again. I was worried.

I said with difficulty, "is this life, the life that you and I have to face?"

"Yes, whether you like it or not, whether you like it or not, whether you accept it or not, it's all life. You have to respect life and revere it." She said.

I was silent, and so was she.

Life, this is life, this is the life I have to face, this is the life she has to face, this is the life we have to face together

But what does life look like? I'm thinking about

After buttoning and turning off the computer, I turn off the light in my study, close my eyes and sit alone in the dark thinkingConfused and unreal, I seem to be talking with life.

"Life, what do you look like?" I'm asking.

Life answers: one evening in early autumn, when you are frustrated, you meet a confidant in the air. If you have nothing else to say, your hearts are close to each other, and your hearts are sharp. You know each other so well in the air. You have friendship, family love, and you share each other's happiness and sorrow

"Now, in reality, every time you return to your air, you will think of that early autumn night and those warm and warm times. You will feel warm in your heart, but at the same time, you will feel sad, right?"

"Yes," I said, "warm and sad."

Life goes on: "warmth is because the friendship between you has been engraved in your heart. Sad because you each have their own reality, cold and heartless reality, the reality is doomed you can not be together, doomed you can only be a confidant in the air, doomed you can only go their own way, but in time and space, your distance is not shortened, is it

"Yes, you're right," I said. "It's true. Is that what you are?"

Life replied: "no, it's not, because there will be another time when you meet her on a cruise ship, you know

this is the goddess of your dream, and she will become a bone in your heart, because there will be another time when you and she will have a night of deep love and flame after knowing the true face of Lushan Mountain in the city by the Yalu River, although they are all drunk, But you will still have endless aftertaste, but from time to time in the aftertaste of your reality, at this time, you feel the happiness and pain, right

"Yes," I said, "yes, it is."

Life goes on: "although you have each other's body and soul in reality, when you return to your own life world, you still can't break through the obstacles in your heart, still can't resist their own reality, still can only walk their own life path in silence and helplessness.

"You live very tired, and she is also very tired. You often feel that what is alive is your body, and what is dead is your miserable heart. But maybe at some time, your heart will suddenly resurrect, and you will not give up, will not give up, you seem to yearn for a flash in the pan. Is that right? "

"Yes," I said, "you're right."

Life said: "now, do you understand? Do you know what I look like? "

"Isn't it? Pain and happiness together is you I said.

Life says, "yes, but it's not complete. Happiness and pain are two parts of me. You know what? You are miserable because you have been happy, and you are sad because you have been happy. However, the reason why you find happiness is because you are in pain, and the reason why you find happiness is because you are sad.

"To experience pain and sadness is to let you find happiness and learn how to cherish it. Experience happiness is to let you find the existence of pain and sadness, learn how to face the pain and sadness. That's what I look like. No matter who I am, there will be no one who has only happiness or pain in his life. "

"Life, what do you look like? I think I know. " I murmured, my heart up and down, like a beating fire.

There is a fire in my heart beating, the flame wavering, sometimes bright, sometimes weak, seems to be extinguished at any time.

When I open my eyes and look at the lonely starry sky on a northern summer night, suddenly, my eyes suddenly feel a little damp.

In fact, I understand that no matter what, life has to go on and tomorrow is coming.

The next day, I went to the company, first to the travel agency, and then to the hotel, to see the recent operation.

The travel agency has ushered in another peak season of the year. In summer, many tourists come to Xinghai. The local reception department is very busy. There are many teams from other places. The tour guides at home are not enough. They have to borrow land from their brother units to accompany them.

Although it's better to make money as a grounding group, it can at least greatly increase people's popularity.

There is no doubt that Haizhu is on her way to travel. Recently, I haven't given her much advice. She manages so well.

Haizhu has grown up.

I'm glad.

Then, I went to the hotel and went to Zhang Xiaotian's office.

Zhang Xiaotian was giving a meeting to the management of the hotel. I sat there and listened for a while.

It seems that there are some problems in the management of the hotel. The management staff reflect that some employees have unstable mentality and keep clamoring for low wages and benefits. Some even threaten to resign or even abet others to go with them.

I asked Zhang Xiaotian what was the matter. He gave me a bitter smile and told me that he was an individual employee. I don't know who had instigated him to make trouble and pick bones in his eggs. At present, the salary and welfare treatment given by the hotel is the best in Xinghai hotels of the same type, but some people are just not satisfied.

I suddenly thought, is there someone behind the troublemaker?