My beautiful boss and I
Chapter 1842
At this time, Haizhu came to call me after she was busy, and I got up and went out.
Then Haizhu and I went to her mother's house.
On the way, Haizhu excitedly mentioned to me what she had done with Xiaowang just now. She said that I had handled Xiaowang very well and that she had learned another move.
I took back my thoughts and said to Haizhu, "not only do Zhang Xiaotian and Lin Yaru know how to manage and employ people, but as the boss, you need to master the skills of employing people. Only compared with them, you use senior management talents."
Haizhu said: "then you say, how can I scientifically select and make good use of senior management talents?"
"It's very simple. Find out their characteristics and growth, and use them according to their characteristics In particular, you have to find out whether they are generals or handsome Generals have the use of generals, and handsome people have the use of handsome people. " I said.
"What are generals? What is a handsome person? In what way? " Haizhu said.
I said: "in terms of executive ability, generals are willing to bear hardships and stand hard work. At the key time, they are two at the top, unambiguous; they spare no effort to do things they are interested in, even regardless of the cost and personal gain and loss; they have no sense of achievement and are not happy working when they are not interested in; and handsome talents are good at decomposing tasks and leaving room to prevent emergencies In other words, the understanding of executive ability is focused on the ability to control. "
Haizhu nodded: "Oh What about the management level? "
"In terms of management level, generals are masters and apprentices in the management of their subordinates. They often teach their subordinates by words and deeds and hope that they will operate in strict accordance with their own rules, but they are not good at dealing with contradictions in management. Handsome talents advocate the application of modern management theory and advocate the improvement of their subordinates' learning ability, so as to improve the overall management level of the enterprise and be good at dealing with contradictions."
Haizhu nodded again: "yes Any more? "
I said: "there is also reflected in the management ability, the general is the wine, a thousand cups of confidants less, more than half a word of speculation; and strong communication skills is the basic skill of a handsome person, see people talk, see ghost talk, can always find a common voice, strong adaptability."
Haizhu laughed: "well What's the difference between these two kinds of people's personalities? "
"Character Generals are either introverted or extroverted. They are free and easy to deal with people. Handsome people are more extroverted than introverts. They are more introverted than extroverts. They are neither warm nor fiery I said.
"Oh..."
"What's more, generals and handsome people are idealists, but generals' ideal is to make the best of what they are good at and pursue No. 1. The ideal of a handsome person is to accomplish everything he is good at or not good at, and to pursue higher, faster and stronger
"In terms of values, jiangcai hopes to do fewer and better things, pursue the perfection of individual work, and be good at enjoying the fun; the value of Shuai lies in leading a team from one success to another, and be good at enjoying the pleasure of winning a decisive victory
"In terms of affinity, generals don't feel affinity at the beginning of contact, but they find it easy to get along with each other after a long time. The affinity of handsome talents is everywhere, which is a symbol of image. After a long time, they find that they are like tigers
"In terms of family outlook, most generals are afraid of their wives. No matter how beautiful they are outside, they still have to go home honestly when they arrive. The family time of a handsome person is very limited, so he is not a competent family role. However, he will surprise the family once or twice a year." I'll go on.
Haizhu laughed again: "what you said is very interesting. Then, which one do you think is better at learning? Whose brain is more developed?"
I thought about it and said, "generals are very interested in things in their fields, have deep research, keep learning, and get twice the result with half the effort; handsome people, who have a wide range of interests, pay attention to learning methods, pay attention to comprehensive learning in management and marketing, and are especially good at learning from the Internet;
" as for the brain It can be divided into left brain and right brain. The left brain of generals is the most, and the system is in word thinking, logic, rationality, analysis and numbers. The right brain of handsome talents is the most, which is reflected in imagery thinking, image, sensibility, description and simulation. "
"Left handed right brain developed, that is, handsome people are mostly left-handed?" Haizhu said.
"Not necessarily, ha ha..." "I said:" there is a talent and handsome leisure entertainment way will be different
"Tell me about it?" Haizhu looked at me with interest.
"Jiangcai's leisure and entertainment are generally karaoke, online games, small inventions, and family shopping in supermarkets; Shuai Cai: Shuai Cai's leisure and entertainment are generally cafes, tennis courts, all kinds of small parties, and family vacations." I said.
"Ha That's it. " Haizhu laughed: "what are the shortcomings of these two kinds of people?"
I said: "for generals, don't be too satisfied with your life, which is often a sign of career danger; for handsome people, don't think too much about the variables of tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, which is often a sign of health danger In fact, there will be a lot of talents in this society, but what is really lacking is handsome talents. "
Haizhu thought: "do you think Zhang Xiaotian and Lin Yaru are generals or handsome?""Think for yourself!" I said.
"Do you think I'm a general or a handsome man?" Said Haizhu.
"Measure by yourself!"
"Well, what about you? Do you think you are a general or a handsome man?" Haizhu pouts her mouth.
"Me, what do you say?" I smile at Haizhu.
"Haizhu said:" I see you, ah, in bed is a general, very capable, out of bed, is handsome, a set of ghost heart
I grin: "damn -"
"ha ha..." Haizhu looked at me and couldn't help laughing again.
After laughing, Haizhu said: "in fact, no matter I or Zhang Xiaotian or Lin Yaru, we are not handsome. At most, we are generals. We don't have the quality of handsome at all."
"But as long as you work hard, it's not impossible to turn a talented person into a handsome one." I said.
"How to work hard?"
"Practice!"
"How to practice? What do you practice? "
"Three The first is the mind. We should learn to suffer losses, and we should not open our mind. There are only two kinds of people in the world, one for fame and the other for profit. Why do they always work with you? Also, as an executive, it's worth thinking about why his subordinates are willing to follow you. " I said.
"Well..." Haizhu nodded: "and then?"
"The second is character. First of all, you should have integrity, not give anyone an opportunity to take advantage of it, and not be afraid of being stabbed by others. Second, you should be indifferent, and you must manage your own selfish desires and greed. The reason why many people are deceived is that they are not cunning by others, because they are too greedy, so they can't have problems with money. Second, you should be honest, and you must do what you say, or you won't say it Last but not least, be frank
"Well And third? "
"The third is the cultivation of ability. This kind of ability is not the ability to do things, but the ability to be a person. We should keep learning and pay attention to what kind of people we deal with every day. There are three kinds of people worth thinking about, one is to only do things, not to be a person; the second is to do things and be a person; the third is to only be a person, not to do things. "
"Oh..." Haizhu looks at me.
"Thinking determines the way out, bearing determines the height, pattern determines the outcome, and the most important thing is that character determines fate, or at least the direction of fate. After all, this society needs more generals than handsome ones. It may be a better choice to let more people become generals, but it's not too extravagant to let generals be unhappy generals. "
Haizhu looked at me with a kind of incomprehensible eyes, and then meditated.
At noon, I have lunch at Haizhu's house.
Haizhu's parents were very happy with my arrival. They made a big table full of dishes, which were all my favorite ningzhou specialties.
Haizhu's father specially opened a bottle of good wine, and I accompanied him to drink it.
"Xiao Ke, how are your parents?" Haizhu mother asked me, while giving me food.
"Good, good, all good!" Although I haven't come home to see my parents, I still reply like this.
"A few days ago, because of you and a Zhu, some of the things I did made your parents suffer. I hope you and your parents can understand and understand After all, we are a family now. After all, I am also good for you and Zhu, and for our two families. " Haizhu mother said.
I was stunned, and then nodded: "Mom, it's all in the past. Let's not mention it. We're not all ok now. My parents don't mind. Of course I don't either."
I feel that my words are against my will, but I still have to say so.
"That's good, that's good. Go home and give your parents a good gift. Welcome them to our house when they have time I must treat my family well. " Haizhu mother said.
"Well..." I nodded and agreed, but I was not ready to tell my parents.
"Xiao Ke, when are you going to let your father and I hold your grandson?" Haizhu mother said.
I looked at Haizhu, Haizhu then said: "Mom, I didn't tell you earlier, now my company is busy, wait and see, what's the rush."
"Mom didn't ask you, I'm asking Xiao Ke!" Haizhu mother said.
I said: "Mom, I and Zhu We all mean the same thing. "
Haizhu's mother sighed: "you all want to be busy with your career. Mom understands this in her heart and doesn't want to make it difficult for you However, Xiao Ke, you are now separated from a Zhu, which still worries my mother. You can't always live in two places like this. Xiao Ke, when do you plan to return to ningzhou? "
I grinned: "Mom, this It will have to wait for the right time The right time. "
"When is the right time? Can you give mom a word? " Haizhu mother looks at me.
"This I'm afraid it's not sure. It's It's not like I can walk when I say go. " I said.
Haizhu's mother's face is not good-looking, Haizhu's father said: "Xiaoke must want to transfer back as soon as possible, this public work is iron rice bowl, can't give up easily, I think Xiaoke will find a way."I nodded.
Besides nodding, I really don't know how to express myself.
"I don't understand. What's the point of being a officialdom in that corner of Northeast China?" Haizhu mother said.
I laughed and didn't speak.
"No matter where you are, it's officialdom, and you can still do a career." Said Haizhu's father.
"Don't mix it up!" Haizhu's mother stares at Haizhu's father. He drinks and doesn't speak.
I also bow my head to drink and eat, and don't talk.
Haizhu's mother looked at Haizhu and me for a while, sighed and stopped talking.
The meal seemed a little dull.
Then Haizhu and I went to her mother's house.
On the way, Haizhu excitedly mentioned to me what she had done with Xiaowang just now. She said that I had handled Xiaowang very well and that she had learned another move.
I took back my thoughts and said to Haizhu, "not only do Zhang Xiaotian and Lin Yaru know how to manage and employ people, but as the boss, you need to master the skills of employing people. Only compared with them, you use senior management talents."
Haizhu said: "then you say, how can I scientifically select and make good use of senior management talents?"
"It's very simple. Find out their characteristics and growth, and use them according to their characteristics In particular, you have to find out whether they are generals or handsome Generals have the use of generals, and handsome people have the use of handsome people. " I said.
"What are generals? What is a handsome person? In what way? " Haizhu said.
I said: "in terms of executive ability, generals are willing to bear hardships and stand hard work. At the key time, they are two at the top, unambiguous; they spare no effort to do things they are interested in, even regardless of the cost and personal gain and loss; they have no sense of achievement and are not happy working when they are not interested in; and handsome talents are good at decomposing tasks and leaving room to prevent emergencies In other words, the understanding of executive ability is focused on the ability to control. "
Haizhu nodded: "Oh What about the management level? "
"In terms of management level, generals are masters and apprentices in the management of their subordinates. They often teach their subordinates by words and deeds and hope that they will operate in strict accordance with their own rules, but they are not good at dealing with contradictions in management. Handsome talents advocate the application of modern management theory and advocate the improvement of their subordinates' learning ability, so as to improve the overall management level of the enterprise and be good at dealing with contradictions."
Haizhu nodded again: "yes Any more? "
I said: "there is also reflected in the management ability, the general is the wine, a thousand cups of confidants less, more than half a word of speculation; and strong communication skills is the basic skill of a handsome person, see people talk, see ghost talk, can always find a common voice, strong adaptability."
Haizhu laughed: "well What's the difference between these two kinds of people's personalities? "
"Character Generals are either introverted or extroverted. They are free and easy to deal with people. Handsome people are more extroverted than introverts. They are more introverted than extroverts. They are neither warm nor fiery I said.
"Oh..."
"What's more, generals and handsome people are idealists, but generals' ideal is to make the best of what they are good at and pursue No. 1. The ideal of a handsome person is to accomplish everything he is good at or not good at, and to pursue higher, faster and stronger
"In terms of values, jiangcai hopes to do fewer and better things, pursue the perfection of individual work, and be good at enjoying the fun; the value of Shuai lies in leading a team from one success to another, and be good at enjoying the pleasure of winning a decisive victory
"In terms of affinity, generals don't feel affinity at the beginning of contact, but they find it easy to get along with each other after a long time. The affinity of handsome talents is everywhere, which is a symbol of image. After a long time, they find that they are like tigers
"In terms of family outlook, most generals are afraid of their wives. No matter how beautiful they are outside, they still have to go home honestly when they arrive. The family time of a handsome person is very limited, so he is not a competent family role. However, he will surprise the family once or twice a year." I'll go on.
Haizhu laughed again: "what you said is very interesting. Then, which one do you think is better at learning? Whose brain is more developed?"
I thought about it and said, "generals are very interested in things in their fields, have deep research, keep learning, and get twice the result with half the effort; handsome people, who have a wide range of interests, pay attention to learning methods, pay attention to comprehensive learning in management and marketing, and are especially good at learning from the Internet;
" as for the brain It can be divided into left brain and right brain. The left brain of generals is the most, and the system is in word thinking, logic, rationality, analysis and numbers. The right brain of handsome talents is the most, which is reflected in imagery thinking, image, sensibility, description and simulation. "
"Left handed right brain developed, that is, handsome people are mostly left-handed?" Haizhu said.
"Not necessarily, ha ha..." "I said:" there is a talent and handsome leisure entertainment way will be different
"Tell me about it?" Haizhu looked at me with interest.
"Jiangcai's leisure and entertainment are generally karaoke, online games, small inventions, and family shopping in supermarkets; Shuai Cai: Shuai Cai's leisure and entertainment are generally cafes, tennis courts, all kinds of small parties, and family vacations." I said.
"Ha That's it. " Haizhu laughed: "what are the shortcomings of these two kinds of people?"
I said: "for generals, don't be too satisfied with your life, which is often a sign of career danger; for handsome people, don't think too much about the variables of tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, which is often a sign of health danger In fact, there will be a lot of talents in this society, but what is really lacking is handsome talents. "
Haizhu thought: "do you think Zhang Xiaotian and Lin Yaru are generals or handsome?""Think for yourself!" I said.
"Do you think I'm a general or a handsome man?" Said Haizhu.
"Measure by yourself!"
"Well, what about you? Do you think you are a general or a handsome man?" Haizhu pouts her mouth.
"Me, what do you say?" I smile at Haizhu.
"Haizhu said:" I see you, ah, in bed is a general, very capable, out of bed, is handsome, a set of ghost heart
I grin: "damn -"
"ha ha..." Haizhu looked at me and couldn't help laughing again.
After laughing, Haizhu said: "in fact, no matter I or Zhang Xiaotian or Lin Yaru, we are not handsome. At most, we are generals. We don't have the quality of handsome at all."
"But as long as you work hard, it's not impossible to turn a talented person into a handsome one." I said.
"How to work hard?"
"Practice!"
"How to practice? What do you practice? "
"Three The first is the mind. We should learn to suffer losses, and we should not open our mind. There are only two kinds of people in the world, one for fame and the other for profit. Why do they always work with you? Also, as an executive, it's worth thinking about why his subordinates are willing to follow you. " I said.
"Well..." Haizhu nodded: "and then?"
"The second is character. First of all, you should have integrity, not give anyone an opportunity to take advantage of it, and not be afraid of being stabbed by others. Second, you should be indifferent, and you must manage your own selfish desires and greed. The reason why many people are deceived is that they are not cunning by others, because they are too greedy, so they can't have problems with money. Second, you should be honest, and you must do what you say, or you won't say it Last but not least, be frank
"Well And third? "
"The third is the cultivation of ability. This kind of ability is not the ability to do things, but the ability to be a person. We should keep learning and pay attention to what kind of people we deal with every day. There are three kinds of people worth thinking about, one is to only do things, not to be a person; the second is to do things and be a person; the third is to only be a person, not to do things. "
"Oh..." Haizhu looks at me.
"Thinking determines the way out, bearing determines the height, pattern determines the outcome, and the most important thing is that character determines fate, or at least the direction of fate. After all, this society needs more generals than handsome ones. It may be a better choice to let more people become generals, but it's not too extravagant to let generals be unhappy generals. "
Haizhu looked at me with a kind of incomprehensible eyes, and then meditated.
At noon, I have lunch at Haizhu's house.
Haizhu's parents were very happy with my arrival. They made a big table full of dishes, which were all my favorite ningzhou specialties.
Haizhu's father specially opened a bottle of good wine, and I accompanied him to drink it.
"Xiao Ke, how are your parents?" Haizhu mother asked me, while giving me food.
"Good, good, all good!" Although I haven't come home to see my parents, I still reply like this.
"A few days ago, because of you and a Zhu, some of the things I did made your parents suffer. I hope you and your parents can understand and understand After all, we are a family now. After all, I am also good for you and Zhu, and for our two families. " Haizhu mother said.
I was stunned, and then nodded: "Mom, it's all in the past. Let's not mention it. We're not all ok now. My parents don't mind. Of course I don't either."
I feel that my words are against my will, but I still have to say so.
"That's good, that's good. Go home and give your parents a good gift. Welcome them to our house when they have time I must treat my family well. " Haizhu mother said.
"Well..." I nodded and agreed, but I was not ready to tell my parents.
"Xiao Ke, when are you going to let your father and I hold your grandson?" Haizhu mother said.
I looked at Haizhu, Haizhu then said: "Mom, I didn't tell you earlier, now my company is busy, wait and see, what's the rush."
"Mom didn't ask you, I'm asking Xiao Ke!" Haizhu mother said.
I said: "Mom, I and Zhu We all mean the same thing. "
Haizhu's mother sighed: "you all want to be busy with your career. Mom understands this in her heart and doesn't want to make it difficult for you However, Xiao Ke, you are now separated from a Zhu, which still worries my mother. You can't always live in two places like this. Xiao Ke, when do you plan to return to ningzhou? "
I grinned: "Mom, this It will have to wait for the right time The right time. "
"When is the right time? Can you give mom a word? " Haizhu mother looks at me.
"This I'm afraid it's not sure. It's It's not like I can walk when I say go. " I said.
Haizhu's mother's face is not good-looking, Haizhu's father said: "Xiaoke must want to transfer back as soon as possible, this public work is iron rice bowl, can't give up easily, I think Xiaoke will find a way."I nodded.
Besides nodding, I really don't know how to express myself.
"I don't understand. What's the point of being a officialdom in that corner of Northeast China?" Haizhu mother said.
I laughed and didn't speak.
"No matter where you are, it's officialdom, and you can still do a career." Said Haizhu's father.
"Don't mix it up!" Haizhu's mother stares at Haizhu's father. He drinks and doesn't speak.
I also bow my head to drink and eat, and don't talk.
Haizhu's mother looked at Haizhu and me for a while, sighed and stopped talking.
The meal seemed a little dull.
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