My beautiful boss and I

I said: "you really think too much. As I said, they are not familiar with you before. They must have a process to accept the running in and gradually increase their feelings with you. In this respect, you don't have to think too much and don't ask too much. It's best to let things go."

"Well, you have a point Then I'll put up with it for a while

"It's not a matter of forbearance for the time being. We can't talk about forbearance." I said.

"You always say that I have high demands on them. I don't think you should have so high demands on me first, OK?" Haizhu said impatiently: "how do I feel that I take a step back and you take two steps forward? You are still energetic!"

I'm not talking.

Haizhu glared at me, and then did not speak.

Soon to my original company, or in the old place, but the number has changed, has become the company of Haizhu.

Haizhu and I got out of the car and went in directly. Haizhu now looked normal, smiling and holding my arm.

I know Haizhu did it on purpose. She wants you to see us like this.

When the staff saw Haizhu and me, they all gathered around happily to greet each other. Sure enough, they were warm and excited to me from the bottom of their hearts, while they were polite and indifferent to Haizhu with polite respect and awe.

I half put my arms around Haizhu's shoulder and looked at you intimately: "just now, on the plane, a Zhu said let me see you. She knows that you all miss me very much and that I miss you."

I made a special gesture of intimacy with Haizhu in front of you and said these words.

Haizhu seems to get some comfort from my behavior. She laughs: "the boss is here. He is here. I am the second leader. This is the big leader. The big leader is coming to see you. Are you all very happy? Ha ha I'm happy to see you happy. "

Everyone laughed, someone said: "the landlady's speech is really humorous."

Haizhu's words seemed to bring us closer to him.

At this time, the general manager Donger's cousin heard the news and came down from upstairs.

"Brother Yi is here, chairman of the board is here, please, please She said hello to us with a smile.

Haizhu took a look at me and seemed to be saying to me, "well, I'm right. She's very polite to me."

I laughed.

Into the general manager's office, she poured us tea, I said to her: "you're welcome."

"Brother Yi and the chairman are here, but they can't be ignored..." She said half jokingly.

I said to her, "cousin, I'll tell you that you're right to call me brother Yi, but it's OK to call you chairman in public. In private, I think it's better to call you sister Haizhu Don't be so polite, it seems strange! "

"Yes." Haizhu said with a smile: "we are good friends with your cousin. We have a good relationship. Although we haven't been in touch for a long time, we will be familiar with each other in the future. I think you'd better call me Haizhu."

"Ha ha..." My cousin laughed: "OK, chairman, I'll call you sister Haizhu later I'm also worried that you think I'm close to you and don't respect you. Since you like it, I have no problem. "

Haizhu laughs: "everybody calls like this, I like everybody calls like this, otherwise it seems too shengfen!"

"Cousin said:" in fact, I am an easygoing person, and I don't like to beat around the Bush, but because of the complicated entanglement between my cousin and you and brother Yi, I'm not comfortable with it, so sometimes I can't help but set it up

My cousin's speech was really straight, so she pointed it out directly. Haizhu and I were embarrassed for a while.

My cousin, the general manager, said hastily, "well, if my words make you unhappy and uncomfortable, I'll take it as if I didn't say that Anyway, I only work here. I just need to do my job well. I don't care about other emotional disputes. I don't want to know about you and my cousin

"When I came here, my cousin told me that I was me and she was her. She had nothing to do with your business. I was not allowed to interfere with her Since my cousin has said that, I will naturally listen to it. "

Haizhu nodded: "OK, cousin, what you said is very happy. I love to hear that there are some disputes between us and your cousin, but we are still friends, otherwise there will be no deal to buy the company. Even if I haven't given your cousin money now, she's not in a hurry On the side of the company, you are familiar with the business, and the employees are all old employees. It's good to run in with you. Just take them to do business well, and I'll ask you a lot. "

"Sister Haizhu, you're welcome. We're all our own people. We don't have to see anyone else!" My cousin laughed and then looked at me: "brother Yi, in fact, my ability to do this circulation trade is far worse than you. My cousin said many times that she asked me to ask you for advice and study, but she never had a chance. How about today, since I'm here, how about some moves?"

As soon as I grin, Haizhu smiles: "I also want to hear it!"I said: "in fact, how far you are, how to do business is not the most important thing in your current position."

"What's the most important thing?"

"Of course, in management, the most important thing is how to manage a good person and manage an enterprise well." I said.

"Tell me about the knack of enterprise management?" Said my cousin.

I said, "I'll tell you a few stories, and you may get some inspiration from them."

"I like listening to stories best, telling them --" my cousin said excitedly.

I started.

"Five year old hank went to work in the forest with his parents and brothers. Suddenly it began to rain, but they only brought a poncho. Dad gave the poncho to mom, mom gave it to brother, and brother gave it to hank. Hank asked: Why did dad give it to mom, mom gave it to brother, and brother gave it to me?

"Dad replied," because dad is stronger than Mom, mom is stronger than brother, and brother is stronger than you. We all protect the weaker. Hank looked around and ran to prop up his poncho and block it from a delicate little flower waving in the wind and rain. "

After listening, Haizhu and his cousin general manager were silent. For a long time, my cousin asked me, "brother Yi, what does this story tell?"

"This story tells us that in business management, the real strong person is not necessarily how powerful or powerful he is, but how helpful he is to others. What's more, the responsibility of a business manager can make him do things completely, while love can make him do things better. " I said.

Haizhu and her cousin nodded.

I then told a story: "a scholar went to Beijing for the third time and lived in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams. The first dream was that he was planting cabbage on the wall. The second dream was that he was wearing a hat and umbrella on a rainy day. The third dream was that he was naked and lying with his beloved cousin, but back to back.

"These three dreams seem to have some deep meaning. The scholar went to the fortune teller the next day. The fortune teller listened and patted his thigh and said: you'd better go home. Don't you think it's a waste to plant vegetables on the high wall? Isn't it unnecessary to take an umbrella with a hat? With the cousin are naked, lying in a bed, but back-to-back, is not no play?

"When the scholar heard this, he was disheartened and went back to the store to pack up and prepare to go home. The shop owner was very strange. He asked: didn't you take the exam tomorrow? Why did you go back to your hometown today? After the scholar said this, the shopkeeper was happy: Oh, I can also interpret my dreams. I think you must stay this time. If you think about it, isn't growing vegetables on the wall high? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are well prepared this time? It's time for you to turn over when you're naked and lying on your back with your cousin? When the scholar heard this, he was more reasonable, so he took the exam in high spirits and won the test

"Ha ha..." After listening to me, Haizhu and her cousin laughed.

"The Enlightenment of this story is that in an enterprise, the positive people, like the sun, shine wherever they shine, while the negative people, like the moon, are different on the first day and the fifteenth day of junior high school. Our life depends on our thoughts. What we have, we have a future. " I said.

"One more!" Said my cousin.

Haizhu also nodded.

"Seven people used to live together and share a big bucket of porridge every day. To my death, porridge is not enough every day. At first, they drew lots to decide who would divide the porridge, one round a day. So every week, they have only one day to be full, that is, the day they share their porridge. Later, they began to select a moral person to share the porridge.

"Power will produce corruption, and people begin to try their best to please him, bribe him, and make the whole small group black smoke. Then we began to form a three member porridge Committee and a four member selection committee. They attacked each other and quarreled with each other. Porridge was cold in the mouth.

"Finally, think of a way: take turns to divide the porridge, but the person who divides the porridge has to wait for others to pick out the last bowl left. In order not to eat the least, everyone tries to share equally, even if it's unfair, they can only recognize it. Let's have a good time and be kind. The better the day will be. "

"What does that mean?" Haizhu said.

I said: "the same seven people, different distribution systems, there will be different customs. Therefore, if an enterprise has bad work habits, it must be that there is something wrong with the mechanism, it must be that it is not completely fair and open, and it must be that there is no strict reward for diligence and punishment for laziness. How to formulate such a system is a problem that every enterprise manager needs to seriously consider. "

Haizhu and her cousin nodded thoughtfully.

"The last one. After dinner, I'm hungry." I looked at my watch.

Haizhu and her cousin laughed.

I said, "there was a young man leading a sheep with a rope. Passers by said, the reason why this sheep is with you is that you are tied with a rope, not like you, not really with you. The young man let go of the rope and walked at will, but the sheep still kept on walking. The passers-by was curious, and the young man said, "I provide it with feed, water and grass, and take good care of it.". It is not the string that binds the sheep, but the care and love for them. "Haizhu and her cousin are looking at me.

I stood up and said, "it's very simple. To be a successful enterprise manager, what can keep people is not the tangible ropes like archives, system and wage relationship, but the intangible emotions."

My cousin said with a smile, "no wonder my cousin often praises you as an expert in business management in front of me. It seems that you really deserve your reputation."

Listen to cousin say so, Haizhu smile a little unnatural.

I said, "go, eat."

Everyone went downstairs, Haizhu called Zhang Xiaotian, Lin Yaru and xiaoqinru, and they had lunch happily. It seems that my coming back this time has brought the personal distance between my cousin general manager and Haizhu closer, which makes me more comfortable.

After lunch, Haizhu and I went to Haizhu's mother's home. My father-in-law and mother-in-law were at home. Naturally, we were very happy to see me back.

After having dinner at Haizhu's house, Haizhu said that he would go back to my new house with me and that he would come back to my home to see my parents with me tomorrow.

To the new house, Haizhu's face down, it seems a little depressed.