My beautiful boss and I

Seeing my stupefied appearance, Dong'Er's face relaxed a little, and then softened up: "Xiao Ke, don't mention this. I'll take it as if you didn't say it Actually, I'm glad you asked me out today I know Haizhu has lived in the company all the time and didn't go back. If she didn't go back, that's right. It didn't belong to her She deserves to harm others and herself. "

"You shut up -" I said, "your thinking is too unreasonable!"

"No matter whether my thinking is a metaphor or not, I still say that what belongs to me is mine. No one can take it. What I can't get, no one can get it." Dong'Er said faintly.

"this is not what you can control, not what you has the final say, you are too arrogant!" I said.

"Ha ha..." Dong'Er laughed, a little sad and sad, and then said, "it seems that our conversation tonight will end here. I don't think we have much to talk about tonight I don't want to see you unhappy, and I don't want to make myself unhappy

"No matter it's true or false, I suggest you stop here and don't inquire about it. I still know too much about it, it's not good for you Remember my advice Well, I'm going. Thank you for your coffee. "

With that, Dong'Er gave me a deep look, stood up, opened the door and left.

After Dong'Er left, I fell into confusion and thought, feeling a little confused.

I felt my cell phone and sent a text message to my fourth brother.

Half an hour later, the fourth brother appeared in the single room of the coffee shop and sat opposite me.

After listening to what happened today and my inference, my fourth brother began to meditate.

Half a day later, the fourth brother said: "obviously, the incident in ningzhou casino and the thing Li Shun got are closely related to this mysterious man. Li Shun's going to Beijing is also related to these two things. I think Li Shun may have to use the things in his hand to launch an unprecedented counterattack against Bai Laosan.

"As for how and how to fight back, it is not known. But one thing is for sure, what Li Shun casino lost will be found in this counterattack, and he will never lose. Of course, I don't mean to lose money

"What's more, it's this mysterious man. According to your reasoning, Dong'Er is very likely, but according to what you said, it seems strange What she said is not unreasonable. Bai Laosan has indeed given her a lot of money. It seems that she has no reason and need to take such a big risk for 2 million, and she has no need to help Li Shun or even gamble her own life. "

At this time, I did not realize that the fourth brother and I have a weakness, that is low Eq.

The fourth elder brother pondered for a long time, then suddenly brightened his eyes and said, "no matter who this mysterious man is, one thing is certain that the person who provided us with those mysterious information before must be him, and they must be the same person!"

I nodded thoughtfully: "when you say that, I think it's very possible. But, who is this mysterious man? "

The fourth brother frowned, thought for a long time, and said, "let's not worry about who it is. If we go step by step, we will find out in the end I think with the development of the situation, this mysterious man will show up. "

I nodded: "well..."

Fourth brother said: "also, don't let Dong'Er leave Bai Laosan in the future Don't say that again. "

"Why?" I said.

"It's simple Dong'Er is now the core of Bai Laosan group. Although she may not be involved in the decision-making of some confidential events, she is in charge of Bai laisan's finance. She knows too much about Bai Laosan's affairs. The more she knows, the more difficult it is for her to escape. If she has to escape, it is to make fun of her own life.

"Do you think that Bai Laosan will let people who know a lot of his secrets leave easily? In a word, Dong'Er can't extricate herself from the mire of Li Shun. She's on Bai Laosan's boat and can't get off If Bai Laosan finds out that she has evidence of betraying herself, Donger will be worried about her life. "

My fourth brother's words made my heart thump, and I said, "well You said that Dong'Er resolutely denied that he had anything to do with the mysterious man tonight. Is that the same idea? "

Fourth brother shook his head: "it's hard to say. After all, I don't know Dong'Er as well as you. Do you think Dong'Er has such courage? Does she have such a careful mind? Does she have such profound ability? "

I shook my head: "based on what I've known about her for many years, I don't think she has She is now a little girl who only knows how to enjoy herself and likes to be jealous and make small moves. I'm afraid she doesn't have the brain for big calculation. Of course, her essence is not bad, and her business ability is very good. "

Fourth brother looked at me: "according to you, this mysterious man should not be Dong'Er She doesn't have the qualifications. "

"Yes, she doesn't have the qualifications It shouldn't be her. " I murmured, the fourth brother's words seemed to find some comfort, and I couldn't help masturbating again.

"In fact, in your real mind, you don't want this mysterious man to be Dong'Er's, do you?" The fourth brother said again."Yes I nodded.

"It shows that you still care about her. You can't forget her, can you?"

"Fourth brother, don't you think the first love will never be forgotten?" There was a surge of bitterness in my heart.

"Well, yes, first love is something that will never be forgotten." Fourth brother's eyes flashed a little sad, he may also think of his first girlfriend who died because of Bai Laosan.

The fourth brother bowed his head and was silent for a long time. He said, "I have to face Bai Laosan sooner or later. Maybe, soon."

I didn't speak. I was in a state of confusion.

That night, I had nightmares all night. There were all kinds of dangerous situations in my dreams. For a moment, Haizhu appeared, Donger appeared, Qiutong appeared

Wake up in the morning, sweating all over, weak.

I can't stand it at last. If it goes on like this, my spirit will break down. After work at dawn, I went to the Municipal People's hospital with my face full of tiredness and fatigue, and went to the specialist clinic of psychology department. I want to find a psychologist to consult, see what medicine to take to recuperate my tortured heart.

The psychology department is cold and quiet. Experts are sitting there reading newspapers. Nowadays, it seems that everyone's psychology is very normal. There are not many neurotics like me.

"Doctor, I have been having nightmares recently, which have seriously affected my normal work and life." I said to the experts.

"What kinds of nightmares do you have?" The expert asked me.

"It's mainly about dreaming that you and your relatives are being chased and killed in a dangerous and strange environment, and meeting all kinds of terrible life-threatening situations." I told the experts about my illness.

After listening to my statement patiently, the expert said: "young man, dreaming is a normal psychological phenomenon in the process of sleep. Under normal circumstances, human brain nerve cells are in a state of inhibition during sleep. Sometimes the inhibition process is relatively complete, sometimes not complete. If not completely inhibited, there are a few areas of the cerebral cortex in the nerve cells excited, people will have dreams.

"Because the activities of a small number of cells lose the control and regulation of the whole cerebral cortex during the awakening state, some segments in memory become active without restriction, which may show strange dreams different from normal psychological activities

"Nightmares can be divided into three categories: being chased or life-threatening; losing relatives or favorite objects; getting lost or being in a completely strange environment. And to some extent, nightmares are also the rehearsal of the terrible scenes that people worry about in their brains Have you met some unexpected things recently, and you have great psychological worries? "

Not only recently, I have been living in a worried environment, but recently unexpected things have been particularly concentrated.

I nodded and looked at the expert.

"Helpless nightmares, such as being chased or unable to escape, often imply that the host may feel fear in real life, such as worrying about the safety of his relatives, such as falling from the sky, being chased by wild animals or monsters, earthquake, air disaster, etc., which indicates that the host has a sense of loss and may not have what he wants in reality It has been realized. "

The expert continued: "many people think that having nightmares is definitely harmful. In fact, from a psychological point of view, both dreams and nightmares can help you better understand yourself and detect the real emotions that you ignore or suppress in real life. Nightmares are actually the release of anxiety, fear, guilt and other emotions in the daytime at night, which can play an emotional regulator to a certain extent "The role of the government."

"Oh..." I listened with a sense of incomprehension: "however, I didn't feel that my mood was adjusted well, on the contrary, my spirit was getting worse and worse."

"In your case, it should be harmful and need active prevention and treatment." Experts said.

"How to prevent and treat it?" I said.

"The positive preventive measures are to sleep in a regular position, don't put your hands on your chest and stomach, and keep yourself in a good mood. Don't be too tired in work and life. I'll give you some ways to adjust. Pay attention to establish a healthy lifestyle. At the same time, reduce the psychological pressure. Do something to relax yourself, such as taking a walk, taking a bath, reading novels, listening to soft music, etc. Try to relax and watch some light programs or books.

"Develop good rest habits, avoid tiredness, adjust your mind, don't think too much, relieve your pressure, keep a happy mood, and reduce bad stimulation. At ordinary times, we should watch more healthy and pleasant videos or novels, and less or try not to watch movies or novels that are easy to form nightmares, so as to avoid bad stimulation stored in memory. It's best not to overuse the brain before sleep, so as not to cause dreams due to excessive excitation of cerebral cortex.

"Pay attention to the body posture in sleep. Generally, it is better to sleep in right position. When sleeping on your back, your hands and feet should be vertical naturally, and the pillow should not be too high. We should correct the bad habit of sleeping on the stomach. When you sleep, you must keep a good posture. Generally, you should lie on your right side down or on your back. Don't pillow your arms, and don't put your arms on your chest and abdomen. Keep a natural posture, and cover them well. Don't put your hands and feet out. Drink a cup of warm water before going to bed... " Experts talk and I listen carefully."Apart from psychological factors, some recurrent nightmares have the effect of harboring diseases. From a pathological point of view, many physical and mental diseases in the latent period of symptoms is not obvious. Especially in the daytime when people's brain activity is frequent and brain cells are very excited, it is difficult to detect the weak abnormal stimulation signal of potential lesions in the body.

"During sleep, nightmares may be a harbinger of diseases. Many brain cells enter a resting state and their working functions are reduced. At this time, the stimulation signals that affect cells during the day will stimulate the relevant cortical centers, making the corresponding brain cells appear stress response and produce predictive dreams

"Many experiments have shown that physiological and pathological stimuli in the human body may be incorporated into dreams," the expert continued. Some slight inflammation of the human body, in the conscious state, often can not feel, and the slight stimulation caused by inflammation in sleep may lead to nightmares. If someone has a throat pinched in his dream, he will be found suffering from pharyngitis

"Oh Dreams have something to do with epidemics That's a rare statement. " I said.