My beautiful boss and I

"Yes, I am speaking from the bottom of my heart!" I said it from the bottom of my heart.

"Hee hee I'm so happy... " Haizhu laughed: "brother, tell me your understanding and views on mature women. I'll listen to them and have a direction!"

I said: "I am not mature, I can't say it!"

"Brother - no, you say, I want you to say, I want to listen!" Haizhu began to be coquettish: "you can say whatever you want. I just want to listen - good brother, say it!"

I pondered for a while and said, "I think this mature woman must be considerate, that is to say, she is kind, gentle, compassionate and just. She can feel love in the crowd, accept love, give love to others, accept herself and make others accept herself."

"Well..."

I thought about it again and said, "besides, mature women must be knowledgeable and polite, and can moderately express and control their emotions, so as not to make gaffes in public. She is a good listener. She can keenly feel each other's emotions and feel each other's distress. She has the magnanimity to praise others, and at the same time, she can tolerate others' shortcomings. She is not crazy for joy, never worried, never arrogant for victory, never discouraged for defeat, modest but not humble. "

"Mm-hmm What else

"No!" I said.

"No, there has to be more, brother - go on!" Zhu said.

I shook my head with a smile, thought about it again, and said: "I think mature women should be realistic, be able to face and accept reality, take the initiative to adapt to the environment, and be able to make an objective understanding and evaluation of themselves and the things around them. They also have higher ideals than reality, but they will never indulge in unrealistic fantasies and extravagant hopes. "

Speaking of this, I can't help thinking of Donger and Qiutong

"Well, brother, well said!" Haizhu said: "I know what you say. Hee hee, I understand now. In men's eyes, mature women are a landscape, a bright autumn, a rainbow after rain, a green grassland in spring, and a bunch of flowers arranged by God for women's life. It makes people relaxed and happy, and makes life full of color."

"Ha ha, you are right, but what I said just now is just the words of one family. It's not representative. Don't believe it all!" I said.

"What I want is the words of your family. I don't care what others think. I only care about your opinion. The image of a good woman in your heart is the most important thing for me!" Haizhu said hotly.

After listening to this, I said to Haizhu, "a Zhu, how many boyfriends have you talked about?"

"Zero!" Haizhu said simply.

"Oh, what? Didn't find the right one? "

"Well! There are a lot of men behind me who don't like me, but there are some kids who don't even know how to take care of and protect women. There are some rich people who only know how to eat, drink, play and show off their wealth. There are also some rich people who drive luxury cars and live in luxury houses and have a few money in their hands It's disgusting to be a stinky money, who plays with women, and who flirts with stewardesses

"Several stewardesses around me couldn't resist the temptation of famous cars and luxury houses. They became other people's second wife, third wife or n-wife Ah - brother, my idea of a good man, in fact, there has always been a standard, of course, I also benefited from my Haifeng brother

I didn't ask what standard Haizhu is, I know how Haizhu will answer me, so I just smile: "Oh, ha ha..."

"Brother, why don't you ask me what this standard is?" Haizhu said.

"Why do you have to ask? Just know it in your heart." I said.

"I don't, I want you to ask -- brother, you ask me, ask --" Haizhu urged me.

I couldn't help laughing and said, "don't ask. I know your standard is me."

"Ah - ha ha - that's right, ten more!" Haizhu smiles happily and shyly: "brother, you are so smart, I like to associate with smart men!"

"Ha ha, you are also very smart, ghost girl!" I said.

"Hee hee..." Haizhu smiles happily again: "brother, it's so happy to chat with you. Although I've known you for a short time, I seem to think that I'm an old friend who has been dating for a long time."

In fact, I also have this feeling when I see Haizhu, perhaps because of the relationship between Haifeng and my good impression on Haizhu's image and temperament!

Just at this time, I saw that the status of the floating head picture began to show normal online, not busy. I said to Haizhu: "OK, Zhu, it's late, I want to have a rest Go to bed early, too

"Well, all right." Haizhu's voice sounded reluctant, but he agreed happily: "brother, good dream Goodbye. "

"Good bye, Zhu, good dream!" Haizhu and I hung up the phone, eyes staring at the button dialogue window, see is showing the input status, floating like a dream, is typing and talking to me.A moment later, her words came: "guest God, are you there?"

I immediately hit the keyboard: "if dream, I am in!"

"Disgusting, always invisible, I thought you were not here, change it!" Floating life is like a dream.

"Yes -" I changed the settings to online.

"Well Obedience is a good boy! Ha She said.

"Ha ha, you are the child!" I don't feel happy in my heart: "I've been here for a long time. I see you are busy. I don't dare to disturb you all the time. Are you busy now?"

"I've just finished a task, and I'm a little out of breath My brothers and sisters are all staying up late and working overtime. Today, two thirds of the progress has passed. Ha ha It's no problem to finish the work tomorrow! " She said.

I looked at it, relieved, and said, "great, just get through tomorrow, and get on the right track."

"Yes, the nightmare is almost over." She said: "I now realize that it's really not easy to manage a company well. When I was in administration, I didn't think it was very difficult. It took several months to find out that the operation and management is really not simple It's not easy to think of yourself as a company before. "

"Ha ha It's not difficult to do business management, but it's very difficult to do it well. We not only need to have management ability, but also have excellent character and decision-making ability. Only with these can we break through the difficulties. " I said.

"Yes, you're right. It's a weakness for me to have the ability to make decisions. Although outsiders can't see it, sometimes I'm still hesitant in the face of some things:" floating life is like a dream. "I now understand that the biggest problem of many people's failure is that they lack the means to dare to make decisions. They always look around and think about things So as to miss the best opportunity for success, and when people who achieve great things see the possibility of success coming, they dare to make major decisions, so they get the first chance. "

The words of floating life like a dream aroused my resonance. Although I would say so, in practice, I often hesitated.

I said: "yes, in fact, I often do the same, some things, the heart repeatedly pondered, but always reluctant to act, worried about gain and loss."

Floating life like a dream: "ha ha Hakka, it's a good thing to think over and over again. However, one action is better than a hundred times of thinking. Don't be a giant of words or a dwarf of action. It's useless to talk without doing. Our life and career plans need to be implemented by action

"In fact, what you mean by worrying about gain and loss is the weakness of many people, including me. However, since we have found our weakness, we should try our best to correct it, dare to challenge our weakness, and completely change our defects. I think everyone has weaknesses. Those who can't achieve great things always stick to their weaknesses, and there will be no major changes in their lives Those who can achieve great things are always good at cutting from their own weaknesses, to turn themselves into a super capable person. A person who can't even correct his own defects can only be a failure. "

My heart was deeply touched by the words of "floating life like a dream". I can't help thinking of my former company

I didn't speak for a long time. After a while, I asked, "Hakka, why don't you speak?"

I looked back and said, "I'm thinking about what you just said."

Floating life like a dream, silent for a while, said: "guest guest, in fact, recently, I have been thinking about a problem, combined with my understanding of you, thinking about a problem!"

"Why is it not the end of my business?" I said.

"Well At present, the financial crisis is raging. There are countless small and medium-sized enterprises going bankrupt, including your enterprises. Maybe this can be an objective reason for your enterprise's bankruptcy. After all, in the face of the financial crisis, the affordability of small and medium-sized enterprises is extremely limited However, I wonder why there are still enterprises that can hold on? Why can they survive the same financial crisis? Hakka, have you analyzed it subjectively? " Floating life is like a dream.

I haven't really thought about it seriously. I rarely let myself recall the past. Occasionally, I always attribute it to the fact that this global financial storm has led to the disconnection of my capital chain. I have never thought about the real cause of enterprise bankruptcy subjectively.

"No!" I said.

"Why?"

"No, I just don't want to think about the past!" I said.

"Well I understand your mood. But, guest, some things can't be avoided. Even if you can avoid them now, you still have to face them sooner or later. Unless you are willing to go on like this and don't want to make a comeback, you must face up to this problem. " "Of course, what I said may not be right. Maybe, besides subjective and objective reasons, there are also some external factors. After all, shopping malls are like battlefields. You must have rivals in shopping malls."

I can't help but think of Duan Xianglong