My Koi Fish Wife

  Chapter 486, Love View

  Fang Qiuyun wanted to say something but stopped, as if he didn't know how to answer this question.

  "Since you have a good impression, why are you avoiding him? Do you think that nothing will happen if you two don't talk? The awkward feeling between the two of you can be seen by anyone with a discerning eye.

  So, don’t say some duplicity. You can neither deceive others nor yourself, why bother! "

Seeing that Fang Qiuyun's expression was a little loose, Qin Yiling knew that her own words touched her, so she directly asked what she was thinking.

  "Do you think you are unworthy because of something that happened in the past?"

  Fang Qiuyun raised her head fiercely, her lips wriggling, "I, I"

  That’s right, she really thought so in her heart, she is a ruined woman, how can she expect a man to accept herself without any complaints?

Although the wife often emphasized to them that women should be independent and self-respect, self-respect and self-reliance, and equal respect for men and women, the wife taught them a lot, and they recognized it, and in their daily lives, they are also working hard and working hard. Of passing this idea to the sisters around him.

  But it's one thing to recognize and understand. When you really face this matter, you will inevitably still have some knots in your heart. After all, this is the concept of this era.

  Although they don’t mind how others look at them, they are afraid that others will look at them with strange eyes or criticize important people around them.

  What's more, there are still some people in the national army who know their experiences, and those people are still very close to Gao Wei.

  If they two get together, how would those people think of Gao Wei? Will you dislike it and look down upon it?

  Gao Wei is a very good and capable man, even if he has scars on his face, it will not affect his stalwart image and talents.

  And she knows that many of the sisters in the nursing team have an admiration for Gao Wei, and those girls are more pure and flawless than themselves.

So, she was timid, she couldn't reach that hurdle, so she put away her mind and distanced herself from Gao Wei, but fortunately, neither of them tore the window paper, so there was nothing to talk about. The object is no longer an object.

  Qin Yiling said something very domineering, "If I really love someone, I will never give him up to anyone, because I am afraid that others will not love him as much."

  Fang Qiuyun was slightly startled.

  Qin Yiling smiled and explained again, “I’m not standing and talking, but I just want to express my view of love. If you really like someone, you will believe that you can bring happiness to the other person.

   Conversely, if you can't even decide whether you can give the other person happiness, it only shows that the relationship is not deep enough.

  Because when a person walks into your heart completely, when a feeling is strong, it will give birth to a kind of courage and confidence, you will work hard for the other person, and become a better person for the other person. "

  "." Fang Qiuyun was silent, feeling a mess in his mind. Many thoughts flashed by, but he couldn't grasp it.

  Qin Yiling paused, "In short, if the other party also likes you and you also like the other party, then you know what the other party cares most about?"

  Fang Qiuyun shook his confused head.

Qin Yiling had no choice but to say earnestly: "What you can't give to the other party is what the other party expects. No one will like'I am for your good', "I love you",'Without me, you will definitely meet better than me. Better people' things like that.

  You ask yourself, would you like someone slogans good for you, but forcing you to accept all the reality? The love between men and women is the same.

  Like you, just want to get the same feelings as you. If Gao Wei cares about your previous experience, then he will not be affectionate to you. "

  Qin Yiling’s idea is very simple. Sometimes the matter of feelings is very mysterious. Who knows if you don’t try it?

  If she likes a man, then she will believe that she can give him happiness, because she loves him, she will want to give him the best.

  You want to perfect the other person, who knows if another person can treat him like himself?

  So, if you want to make the other person happy, you can feel more at ease with others.

  Fang Qiuyun was stunned, his face that had always been cold, this would actually show a dazed expression.

   was silent for a long time before she asked immediately, "He likes me now, maybe he doesn't care, but if it takes a long time in the future, if someone talks about the previous things, does he mind again?"

  Qin Yiling smiled, "Silly girl, who is right about what will happen in the future? People have three emotions and six desires, and it is natural for people to change their hearts. What's so distressing about this.

  You and the other person are in the present, not the future. As long as the present does not change, you can enjoy your life and separate when you change. After all, people will always be separated. It’s just time. "

  Fang Qiuyun was slightly surprised, with a frightened expression on his face. Of course, this ‘shock’ was only shocked by Qin Yiling’s words.

  "Think about it for yourself, whether you are together or not, always tell the other person to understand, it is not good for anyone to be unclear." Qin Yiling added.

  Fang Qiuyun nodded, "Well, I see, thank you madam."

   "Thank me for what I am doing. I didn't want to help you. Can you figure out that you can only rely on yourself and others cannot help."

  Qin Yiling chuckled, the same thing, if you listen to it, it is justified, and if you don't listen, it is just a bunch of nonsense. Therefore, everything depends on yourself.

   "Well, I will think about it."

  After that, Fang Qiuyun left the backyard and continued to work.

  Qin Yiling didn't know if this conversation would break Qiuyun's heart knot, after all, she was not her, she couldn't really empathize with her, she just hoped that Qiuyun would not depress herself too much.

  Recalling how Pingping had been before, Qin Yiling suddenly had a headache.

  What's wrong with the girls next to her? All of them have such short ambitions.

   asked her to say, I'm afraid of a woolen thread!

  If you don’t take advantage of your youth, you have a lot of time to make up. Is it possible to wait until illness and accidents come?

  Furthermore, she thinks the golden flowers around her are pretty good.

  If anyone still dislikes it, that's really blind.

  The purity of the soul, the beauty of character, these inner beauty is much cleaner than the impurity of the body.

  On the third day, Gao Wei and Fang Qiuyun came to Qin Yiling together.

  Gao Wei bowed, "Madam, I like Qiuyun and want to marry her as his wife. I hope to get the blessings of you and the leader. Your kindness to Qiuyun is like a second-born parent, which is equivalent to Qiuyun's maiden family.

  So, I want to marry Qiuyun. I hope you can come forward to preside over our wedding. As you know, I am also a lonely person. There are no elders who can do it. Some procedures and customs are not very clear. "

  Qin Yiling responded happily, "This is a good thing, congratulations! Leave this to me and Aunt Shuangxi, and I promise to do it properly for you."

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