My uncle, take it easy

"Later, when ah Zheng and I were together, I realized how hard it was to miss each other like that, and how happy it was for the people you love to love you." Pan Rong said, "what I want to tell you is that without ah Zheng, I might not have been in this world long ago. However, I didn't marry him because I was grateful to him. Instead, "he said

Pan rongdun next, then said: "when he gets along, bit by bit, everything he does for me, every detail, I just know, that is love, that is the performance when a person really loves you. Looking at him, it's as if I saw myself. Because I have paid for another person like that, so I know ah Zheng's heart, I, I just found that I am not so pitiful, what inferiority, what self-confidence, what feeling that I am not perfect enough for that person, all these do not exist, I just want to be with him, as long as I am with him, everything is the best. I don't want to think about the past. I don't want to think about the gap between myself and him. I never want to think about it. I just want to be happy with him. Every day with him will become the best anniversary of our life. Cherish every day we are together. That's it. "

Sufan was silent.

"So I don't feel like I've given up anything for him, because for me, it's the most important thing for us to be together. Transfer or something. Er, it should be demotion. In terms of terms of reference, it's demotion. " Pan Rong said with a smile.

Su fan looks at Pan Rong.

"Even if I am demoted, it doesn't matter. For me, it's a change of environment. There's no loss. I didn't sacrifice anything. This is another start. Moreover, the key is that ah Zheng and I are still together. We don't have to be separated from each other. I can adapt to my new job, I can also make achievements in my new position, I believe in myself. Besides, I can cook with him when I go home every day, travel and go shopping on weekends. So, I won't regret it, Gaines. For me, I can start my own life everywhere, but there is only one ah Zheng, and the time spent with him is only a few decades, which is not enough, right? " Pan rongdao.

Su fan couldn't help laughing.

When she first met pan Rong and Zhang Zheng, she could see the tacit understanding and love between them. But she didn't expect that it was like this——

"Kayin -" Pan Rong looked at Su fan and called her.

"Well." Su Fan said.

"There's a saying, I'll say it. Don't be angry." Pan rongdao.

"What will? Sister in law, you said Su Fan said.

"In my opinion, do you worship suoqing more than love?" Pan rongdao.

Su fan was stunned.

"In fact, every woman will inevitably worship the man she loves, especially those who are older than us, like you and me. Worship, in fact, is a kind of love, I think Pan Rong said, "it's just that when you worship too much, you just keep looking up to him. When you look up at him, you will doubt whether you are not good enough or not, which is a kind of pressure for you and a burden for him. In particular, your personality still belongs to those who hide their words in their hearts

"How do you know me?" Su fan interrupted pan Rong and asked.

Pan Rong laughed and said, "I've been in business for so many years. If I couldn't see anyone through, I would have been cheated to death."

Su fan smiles. Yes, it is. Pan Rong's social experience is much older than her age.

"Shuqing also knows your personality. When you doubt yourself like this, he knows it. He won't say it to you, because he knows that once he says it, it will give you more pressure, so he can only watch and worry, so he will tell you that he doesn't need you to manage any interpersonal relationship for him. He can handle anything." Pan rongdao.

Sufan was silent.

"Gayne, Shuqing, is a man worthy of your admiration and admiration. However, your excessive feelings will give him great pressure, invisible pressure. You feel that if you don't have self-confidence to face him, you will be at a loss. In fact, he will be the same. He will be very worried about what he has unintentionally said that makes you doubt you and causes pressure on you. Therefore, he will face you with special care. His work pressure is already great, and the environment is so complex, and it will become more and more complex. After dealing with things outside, he has to be careful to treat you when he comes home. Do you think he can handle it? Even the iron man can't last long! " Pan rongdao.

Su fan didn't expect this, so he fell into deep thinking.

"If he feels great pressure here, as a person, he will always want to release his pressure, maybe he will slowly away from you. I don't think he will stay away from you because you don't have a career, but because he has to be so careful with you. He does not dare to tell you his pressure, he does not dare to tell you that he is in a bad mood, because this will make you feel even worse, you will constantly doubt yourself, you will feel that because you are not good enough, you did not help him and let him do so. Two people are holding words in their hearts, can't say to each other, can't communicate, heart, will be far away Pan rongdao.

Su fan looked at her quietly.

"What you said to me about the woman, the second aunt, and Shuqing, is just one aspect, because we are all outsiders. We don't know exactly what you want, the details of your relationship with him, and your mood. It's up to you to figure out how to deal with your problems. Just, what I want to tell you is that I was not confident, just because I love that person very much, so I don't think there is anything unacceptable, which is very normal. Every couple has their own way to get along with each other, like the second aunt and the second uncle, but that one is not suitable for you, because you are not the second aunt, you can't be the second aunt. Ah Zheng and I are just our own way of getting along. You are not me, and you may not be able to do what we do. " Pan rongdao.

Su fan nodded.

"So I ask you, Cain, what is the ideal in your heart? What kind of person do you want to be? Only when you understand this can you find your own direction and know what to do. You tell me about your career. In fact, no matter it's career or anything, we women want to enrich ourselves and never forget to improve ourselves. This is not only to stand by the man equally, but also to let our life not be wasted. To say the extreme, we have become good enough people, why care about the people around us? Then it will become a man with a sense of crisis in his heart. " Pan Rong said with a smile.

Sufan also smiles.

"I've heard about some of the marriages before Shuqing. Because of that marriage, shuoqing may not like you to be a strong woman who only cares about herself like his ex-wife. However, you can still be a strong woman, but when you do your own business, you can't forget that you are another person's wife. " Pan rongdao.

On the way home from the hospital, Sufan is lost in thought. She has been thinking about Pan Rong's words.

Every couple has their own way of getting along with each other. Their parents have their own way. Pan Rong and Zhang Zheng have their own way. She and Huo Shuqing must also have their own way. They are different from their parents, pan Rong and Zhang Zheng, and may also be different from many people. Because, everyone is a unique existence, every couple, is also.

It's just, what should she do?

Back home, his mother called Fang Xiyou's mother and went to Fang's home.

After staying at home for a while, Sufan went out for a walk.

She wants to manage her way of thinking, to find her own tomorrow, her own way.

When you walk out of the house, you don't know where to go. As you walk, you unconsciously walk to the wall of the Forbidden City.

Look at the time. It's still early, so she went in line to buy a ticket.

The Forbidden City, no matter when it comes, is full of people. There is hardly any off-season or peak season.

Su fan followed the crowd into the high door, into the broad square in front of the hall, the towering palace, red walls and yellow tiles, no matter how many years in the past, has been overlooking the people at the foot.

Shuttling through the palaces, Su fan sometimes stops to take some photos of the palaces, but the photos are full of people, but it doesn't matter. As she walks, she seems to feel something.

Women all over the world seem to worry about one thing: the relationship between husband and wife. Whether it's the past of polygamy or the present of monogamy, women always care about one thing.

The Palace Museum in winter is bleak and desolate. Even though the crowd is surging, Su fan still feels cold.

Ancient concubines, living here, get the favor of that man, which is equivalent to ensuring the glory, but how many people can win the favor of the king? How many people are really happy when they are favored?

What about women now?

Family life, for women, is always the most important, no matter how women work outside, they will eventually return to the family. However, in today's society, family is equally important for men and women. Nevertheless, women are far more responsible in the family than men.

Su fan is lying on the jade railing, quietly overlooking the distance.

She can't be like her mother. Huo Shuqing is very clear, so he doesn't expect her to run anything for him. Her personality and growing up experience can't make her deal with that kind of environment easily. She can't be like Fang Xiyou and pan Rong. They are easy to handle their work. As for family life, they don't seem to be at a loss like her.

So, what kind of person should she be?

The wind in my ear seems to be blowing from a hundred years ago, and her thoughts are also shuttling.

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